Poet Yu Xiuhua was exposed domestic violence recently, and became a hot search,
The headline poet Yu Xiuhua, from the countryside,
She has a love for writing poetry, and often sits in front of the computer,
typing on the keyboard. The husband didn’t understand very much. What could he think she could write?
Yu Xiuhua said that she had no feelings for her ex-husband. Their marriage was arranged by their parents. She longed for someone who understood her. Later, she divorced her ex-husband. Then I encountered
. A young man who was born in the 1990s and sold honey started a relationship with the young man.
originally thought it was the beginning of a beautiful new relationship. But
did not expect that domestic violence was reported, and in the end,
broke up and rejoiced.
I have to say that in marriage and love, you have to choose the right person. Why don’t you open your eyes wide?
More than ten years ago in the countryside, I saw my neighbor's uncle and aunt fighting. The uncle would kill the aunt. It was bruised and bruised. Rural women in the past did not know how to use the law to protect themselves.
Rural people think that it is impossible for a couple to live without quarreling. However, if the beating is too serious, the nose is bruised and the face is swollen, or there are fractures or something, then it is too serious?
This is no longer a small quarrel, it is domestic violence, which is enough to become a crime.
Faced with such an incident, some people will choose to be very forbearing, thinking that divorce is not good, or they will just live with it for the sake of their children.
A colleague has a distant relative. Neither of them works, but they both like to play cards and mahjong.
The husband also likes to drink. Whenever something goes wrong, he will curse at his wife and even get into violent fights. He either slaps her or pulls her hair. Once, when the husband lost in a card game, he would punch and kick his wife when he came back.
The wife finally couldn't stand her husband's domestic violence and chose to divorce.
There are countless incidents like this. Therefore, half of the reasons why many modern women choose not to get married are because of this reason!
So how can we protect our personal safety through legal means?
While protecting our personal safety, do we choose to tolerate domestic violence in marriage? Or leave? I think this issue is worthy of our deep thought!
For women in the new era, we need to have new ideas. For domestic violence, we need to say no
