No one is born to like loneliness
To be honest, I still don’t like loneliness, because I am afraid of being alone, afraid of being forgotten and abandoned. I always care about other people’s eyes and opinions, and I always feel I am not as good as others, and everything I do is wrong. I start to make friends and please them. I don’t mean to please them. I just think of others first instead of myself. I didn’t believe in zodiac signs before, but recently I read Looking at those zodiac explanations on the Internet, I feel more and more like he said, I can't stand betrayal and deception, and can't stand turning a blind eye to me. However, these so-called intolerances are vulnerable in reality, and I am attacked every day. Although neglect and deception are not that serious, after you see the truth of the matter with your own eyes, you will say: "I didn't mean it." and then dismiss it, and you were deceived without a reasonable explanation. , and you will pretend to say, "It's okay, it's okay, I don't care." But, do you really not care?
Things like this are happening every day. The same drama makes me realize that this is meaningless. This is not what I like to see. I start to reflect on myself again. I start reading crazily. How did those seniors cheer themselves up when they were lonely and helpless? Why were they able to write such good books? Every chapter, every section, and every sentence was so amazing. They Writing my life experiences into a book made me feel the same way.
I began to try to experience the world and life alone. I ate alone, walked alone, went to the library to read and study alone, and mostly did everything alone. I found that low-quality sociability is not as good as high-quality solitude. Reading those books every day makes me feel as if I have really experienced it. Books will take you everywhere to see the world even if your feet cannot reach it!
Now, although I don’t like loneliness, I will still try to become a good friend with loneliness, try to improve my own value to a higher level, I start my writing journey, I want to be alone, Write more beautiful articles, read more books, be yourself in the true sense, and give some warmth to those friends who are still confused, so that they will no longer feel embarrassed to be alone, and will no longer say that they are not popular. Defeated by his remarks!
Friends who are trying to climb up, don’t give up, don’t be afraid. Now that you have that idea, just do it according to your own ideas. Even if you are alone, don’t be afraid and don’t give up. When one day, you see When the result comes, you will thank yourself for never giving up! ! !
