Is he worth it?
Is it worth giving up a more suitable or better candidate to resist unknown risks and move towards an unknown future with him? Is
worthy of your trust and building a stable harbor with him?
Is it worth including him in your life and involving him in every decision from now on?
Marriage is an important thing. Although marriage and divorce are now free, choosing a person means that you have to devote time, energy and expensive life.
Maybe you are in love now. The sweet moments that keep emerging in the early stage of the relationship, the better and better living habits in the middle and later stages of the relationship, and the tacit understanding that the relationship becomes smoother and smoother, all make you feel: It’s him!
But can he afford the married life you want? Does he have any character flaws that you overlooked? Will your marriage go up or down? After all, falling in love can bring happiness in the moment, but marriage needs to be managed to move forward and upward.
Maybe you are preparing to get married because of responsibility. Your parents' urging to get married, the pressure of age, and the anxious comments spread about you by people around you all make you want to find someone to marry quickly. The people who appear at this time can get by as long as their conditions in all aspects are good and they don't have any bad habits.
But with such a lack of understanding, do you have confidence in your marriage?
Do you have the same outlook on marriage? Are the plans for life paths similar? When going through storms, can you be sure that he will firmly choose you? Will your -built marriage life be stable or full of storms?
Getting married without knowing anything is equivalent to throwing your future into a black hole. There is no light and you have to worry about risks all the time.
It is also possible that you want to get rid of the current situation and get married. For example, getting rid of a bad family of origin. At this time, marriage is like a floating board. You hope to hold it ashore, but who knows whether the floating board will take you into another whirlpool?
When it comes to the pre-marriage test, believes that all girls have "I do" in their hearts. When you say "I do", is he worth it?
We can make many mistakes. We can choose the wrong person, fall in love with the wrong person, make the wrong friends, find the wrong job... But when it comes to marriage, we'd better not make mistakes.
Some mistakes can be corrected at a certain price, but the price for marriage mistakes is life .
Our expensive life should not be treated hastily. Such an important decision should not be judged only by love, but also requires rational analysis.
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