In life, you will find a group of introverts who like to reminisce, fantasize, and think alone. People who like to be focused listeners usually like to be alone. In their ordinary lives, they will develop many hobbies, such as reading, writing, painting, and exercising to enrich their spiritual world, make them happy physically and mentally, and enjoy it endlessly. Their concentration is very high, research has found , many successful people are obviously more introverts than extroverts.
They choose friends only to find close friends. The so-called "no speculation" is too much. In their eyes, like-minded people are more important than anything else. No matter how good you are, you are not on the same level as her. They don't want it either. In their eyes, a friend is more about being smart than having a lot. But if you become good friends with them and talk about everything, you will be surprised to find that they are not as cold as they appear on the outside, but are very enthusiastic. I can talk and laugh with you, and get along with you better than many extroverts;
I have a colleague who is very introverted. I was surprised when I first met her. I thought to myself, my God, I am already a little introverted, but this is actually okay. There is such an introverted person. For example, if she comes to work today, she will not say a word to you when she sees you. She comes to the place where she works and puts her things away, and then she is busy with her work silently. If you talk to her, she will give you a brief reply. She will only talk to people when she has something to do. Otherwise, she will play with her mobile phone while working and taking a break. But after working together for a long time, you will find that she is very serious about her work. Although She doesn’t like to chat about life and gossip, but whenever our colleagues need help, she will take the initiative to help. She is very helpful. Although many extroverted colleagues like to chat and seem to be easy to get along with, you will find that they are lazy and love She doesn’t like to help others when she talks,
Later, after I became friends with this quiet colleague, she started chatting and laughing with me. She would talk to me about interesting things in life. She told me that she only looks for friends who are close friends and understand her. , she doesn’t like those extroverted and carefree people who talk a lot but are not easy to get along with. She says that some of those with cheerful personalities are fake and very good at flattering others. It’s like living with many masks. I say it depends on the person. , some people are like that, but there are also a large number of people who are easy to get along with, but we don’t comment on whether they are good or bad. We can freely choose like-minded people and feel comfortable getting along with them. , she usually likes to cultivate various hobbies and likes to read books to improve herself. She has many advantages.
When you get along with introverts, you will find that introverts are uniquely charming. They are just not keen on putting their bright spots on the table. In fact, they are very self-disciplined. They like a life with depth, content and quality, and they are better at thinking. , they are the best listeners, they are a group of quiet but very lovely people, and they are the most worthy of deep friendship.
