The infidelity stage refers to the state in which a cheating man falls into a state of madness in the early stages of an affair. Almost every extramarital affair will go through this period, which is also the most unsuitable period to separate from the mistress. So what do cheati

The cheating and brain-crazy stage refers to the state in which a cheating man falls into a state of madness in the early stages of an affair.

Almost every extramarital affair will go through this period. This is also the most unsuitable period to separate from the mistress.

So what are the symptoms of cheating men when they are in the crazy stage? How can the first wife tell whether the cheating man has passed the stage of madness?

How should the original wife survive the crazy period safely, and then break up with the mistress after the cheating man wakes up? This article by

Blue Fang will answer these questions one by one.

The first question: What are the symptoms of a man who cheats on his wife during the period of mental insanity?

• Performance 1: Don’t realize that cheating is a mistake, and don’t listen to anyone’s advice.

Men who cheat when they are in the crazy stage do not feel that it is wrong for them to cheat. Instead, they feel that the people who stop them from cheating are wrong.

During this period, not only did they not listen to what their original spouse said, they also refused to listen to anything their relatives and friends said.

They only listen to what the mistress says, and they don't listen to what others say, good or bad.

• Performance 2: He always believed that the mistress truly loved him and was not seeking his money.

A cheating man in the crazy stage firmly believes that his mistress truly loves him, even if his mistress asks him for money every day.

He will think that giving money to the mistress is a way to express love, and the mistress wants money to want love from him.

No matter how obvious the mistress is, he thinks that the mistress is not looking for money, but is with him for love.

• Performance 3: Feeling that the original wife is not as good as the mistress and being picky about the original wife.

A cheating man in the crazy stage thinks that his mistress is the best woman, but his original wife is not as good as his mistress.

In this period, no matter what the first wife does, it is always wrong, and the cheating man will be picky about the first wife.

The original wife is not as good at cooking as the mistress, the original wife is not as good at dressing as the mistress, and she may even speak as well as the mistress.

• Performance 4: He only thinks about his mistress and is indifferent to his children and parents.

A cheating man in the crazy stage only has his mistress in his eyes and heart. Not only does he not have his original wife, but the parents of his children have to step aside.

Many men who are usually good to their children and filial to their parents turn indifferent to their children's parents after cheating.

If a cheating man has the above four symptoms, then he is in the crazy stage of cheating.

The second question: How does the first wife judge whether the cheating man has passed the stage of madness?

• First of all, look at the number of times the cheating man finds his mistress and the time he spends with his mistress.

During the crazy stage, a cheating man can’t wait to be with his mistress all the time. Even if he doesn’t live with his mistress, he still has to find her every day.

And when I go to see my mistress, I will definitely not go home at night, or I will go home very late. I always want to stick to my mistress.

If the crazy period has passed, the cheating man’s enthusiasm for his mistress will fade and he will enter the burnout period.

Even if the cheating man has no intention of breaking up with his mistress, he will go to see her more often and spend more time with her.

may have changed from going every day to going a few days a week, from staying overnight at the mistress’s place, to coming back not long after leaving.

The original wife can judge whether the crazy period has passed based on the number of times the cheating man has found his mistress and the time he spent with his mistress.

• Secondly, see if the cheating man’s attitude toward his original wife and children has softened.

The vast majority of cheating men have no reason to speak of when they are crazy, and they will have some bad words and deeds towards their children's original spouses.

When the crazy period is over, the cheating man no longer controls everything emotionally and his reason returns.

He will feel guilty, and even if he won't say it out loud, his attitude towards his first wife and children will change.

So if you, the original spouse, find out that the cheating man should treat you, your children, and your parents better, it may be that the period of madness is over.

• Finally, see if the cheating man listens to advice.

After a man cheats, as long as he doesn’t break up with his mistress, people around him will keep trying to persuade him to cheat.

If he is still in the crazy stage, he will ignore the words of people around him, and in severe cases, he will use harsh words.

But if the cheating man starts to listen to what others say, and even shows an attitude of approval to what others say,

then the cheating man’s crazy period will be over. He will not only think about the mistress, but also start to think about other things.

The third question: How does the original wife survive the period of madness?

• The first point is that if the original wife can be stable, don’t let your own mentality collapse first.

Many first wives will divorce when the cheating man is crazy, because the cheating man behaves too badly.

The original wife also had feelings for the cheating man, so she could easily break down emotionally. Before the crazy period was over, the original wife took the initiative to quit.

Therefore, if the original wife wants to survive the crazy stage safely, she must first stabilize herself.

• The second point is that the first wife must learn to coax so that the cheating man will not make any choices at this stage.

Because when a cheating man is in the crazy stage, he is emotionally oriented in everything he does.

It is easy for him to go home and have trouble with his original wife because of a few sweet words from his mistress, or even really want a divorce.

In addition to not impulsively divorcing, the original wife should also prevent the cheating man from getting divorced during the crazy period. The method

relies on is coaxing. If he thinks the mistress is good, just let him say it. Don't refute and don't divorce.

As long as the cheating man does not divorce, the original wife can start to fight back after the crazy period is over.

• The third point is that the first wife should learn to tolerate it and not have excessive conflicts with cheating men.

One of the foundations for the original wife to continue the marriage with the cheating man is that the relationship between husband and wife has not been seriously damaged.

If the relationship between your husband and wife is already on the same level and you see each other as enemies, there is no need to continue the marriage.

The crazy period is the period when a cheating man is most likely to turn against his original wife, and the original wife must endure it.

Don't conflict with cheating men, try to maintain the relationship between husband and wife and avoid it going into a bad situation.

The fourth question: How to deal with the mistress after the cheating man ends his crazy period.

• First of all, be fully prepared when a cheating man is going crazy.

When a cheating man goes insane, it must be very painful for the first wife to endure and coax him. After all, when a man cheats and a mistress intervenes in the marriage, why should the first wife suffer?

But the original wife should remember that the suffering you have suffered will not be in vain. Only by working hard and being prepared can you solve the problem with one move.

What you need to prepare is to sort out your property, collect evidence, and establish a good relationship with relatives and friends of the man who cheated on your parents-in-law.

investigates some of the mistress's previous emotional experiences, understands the mistress's specific situation, and even looks for the weaknesses of the mistress and the cheating man.

As soon as the crazy period is over, the original wife can start to attack mistresses and cheating men.

• Secondly, sow discord and create conflicts between the cheating man and his mistress.

After the crazy period is over, the cheating man is no longer so obsessed with the mistress, and he begins to be able to see the shortcomings of the mistress. As long as the original wife of

grasps this point, it can create conflicts between the cheating man and the mistress.

After all, she has been held in the palm of a cheating man's hand, and the mistress cannot accept the change in the cheating man's attitude.

The mistress also wants to make the cheating man as obedient as before, but the cheating man keeps blaming the mistress for her shortcomings.

Two people are bound to have conflicts.

• In the end, starting from the conflict between the cheating man and his mistress, the relationship between the two people is disintegrated internally.

When a cheating man has a conflict with his mistress, the first wife should not just clap her hands and applaud, or sneer at the cheating man, saying that the mistress she is looking for is nothing more than this.

is going to add fuel to the conflict between the two people at this time, causing the relationship between the two to completely collapse.

followed the cheating man to accuse the mistress, stepped on the mistress, and helped the cheating man make plans to deal with the mistress.

can not only win favor, but also make the cheating man and his mistress more at odds with each other, and the extramarital affair will be quickly redeemed.

Extramarital affairs are an offensive and defensive battle. The first wife cannot only think about offense and ignore defense.

When the situation is not favorable to you, it is wise for your first wife to learn to avoid its sharp edges.

Wait until the situation is favorable to you, and then strike hard, so that the mistress can't fight back.

The crazy period is the dominant period of the mistress, and the weak period of the original wife. If the original wife defends during the crazy period, she can successfully counterattack later.

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