I don’t know if you feel this way. As we get older. I feel more and more tired of living. There are endless overtime shifts every day, but it is difficult to get promotion and salary increase. We should always be careful when dealing with each other. Parents have to take care of their children and raise them. The pressure is really great. Sometimes, it is clear that the heart is broken, but the face still remains calm and composed. Smile and tell the world, I'm fine, I'm fine. Think about it, why do we feel so tired?
There are probably 4 reasons
1. I am too soft-hearted and don’t know how to refuse.
once saw such a passage. There are two types of people in the world who are destined to be unhappy, those who are sensitive and those who have a weak mentality. People who are too sensitive hurt themselves again and again. People who are too soft-hearted will be hurt by others again and again. A soft-hearted person will reluctantly comply as long as the other party opens his mouth, no matter how unwilling it is. A soft-hearted person does not know how to refuse and does not dare to hurt others. In the end, he is always the one who is wronged, leaving himself bruised and bruised. It is a matter of affection between you and me to be willing to help, but it is a duty not to help. Being soft-hearted is not kindness, and a good person is not a really good person. Life is short. Sometimes, if you have a hard heart, you can live a relaxed life. Learn to take care of yourself first, then help others.
2. I am so busy that I don’t know how to rest.
saw such a question on the forum. What is the true portrayal of adults? Lots of likes and replies: My heart is not old but my hair is already gray, food is not lacking but tasteless, time is short but things can never be done. There is an old man above who cannot always be with him, and there is a child below who cannot accompany him as he grows up. Just two sentences contain a lot of sadness for adults. In the final analysis, it is still a word "busy". In order to maintain a decent life, I rush back and forth between home and company during the day, and repeatedly deal with houses, cars, and money. We are like a spinning top that never stops. After finishing this period, there will be another period, and after finishing the next period, there will be another period. Never ending. Occasionally, I want to stop and give myself a little rest. But I dare not. Children's schooling, parents' medical treatment, mortgage and car payments, oil, salt, soy and vinegar, everything is not a heavy stone in my heart. In order to give our families a better life, we have to put on armor and grit our teeth to fight. Don’t forget to work hard. While you are busy, you should occasionally give yourself a moment to breathe. Allow your body and mind to rest. Only with good health can you be the backbone of your family. Nine-tenths of happiness is based on health. Health is everything, the human body is not an iron wall, and money is nothing but a passing cloud. Life is limited, and life is always in a hurry. We must take good care of ourselves so that we can have the energy to overcome obstacles and experience a better life.
3. Love is very strong, and you can always carry it alone.
We feel tired because we are used to pretending to be strong. In the adult world, there are many people who rely on us, but there are too few who can rely on others. There is no one to help you when you are in trouble, no one to share your worries, no one to share your difficulties, you can only carry them silently. Even though his heart is turbulent, his face remains calm, not daring to let others notice his vulnerability. Sometimes when I am forced to an emotional breakdown by trivial matters in life, I want to call my parents to talk. But when the call was connected, for fear of worrying them, I could only pretend to smile and say everything was fine. The work was so stressful that I couldn't breathe, so I only walked into the bathroom silently before I dared to cry hard. Behind every brave soul, there is unspeakable grievance and sadness. Life is short and you need to be strong in times of adversity. But after all, we don’t have iron walls, we are just ordinary people. There will also be times when you can’t bear it. Don't always die alone. Feeling tired, find someone to chat with. When people are tired, they find a place to rest. If you feel uncomfortable and wronged, you can cry if you want to. After crying, wash your face, take a deep sleep, and wake up to a brand new day. I hope you can be your truest self and not hide your vulnerability, which is the best way to live.
4. I value feelings and don’t care about myself.
People who attach too much importance to emotions often live the most tiring and miserable lives. The little kindness others do to you will be repaid double or even multiple times.In order to make the other person happy, you do things that you don't like at all. In order to save this relationship, I constantly lower my bottom line and make constant compromises. Always look down at yourself first. If things go on like this, I will eventually lose my true self and live a life that is physically and mentally exhausted. Everything in this world is useful. In this era, money is the most useful, but sincerity is the most useless. The more sincere your feelings are, the worse you will lose. The more you care about someone, the deeper they will be hurt. We will meet many people in our life. Your relationship with them is like sand in your hand. The tighter you hold on, the faster it leaks. When you open your palms, the sand in the middle of your palms will always be there. Not all efforts bring rewards. Not all sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity. A good relationship is always about mutual giving, not unilateral giving. Real and long-lasting connections should be treated 30% by others and 70% by yourself. In your future life, you don’t have to worry about right and wrong. Only by taking good care of yourself can you become a mature person.
Our hearts are like a highway. If it is smooth, we will feel relieved; if it is crowded, we will be stuck in traffic jams. There are no tears that cannot be shed, only the stubbornness that refuses to let go. Know how to say no and dare to say no. Don't force yourself to do something you don't want to do. Learn to show weakness, laugh when you are happy, sleep when you are tired, and stop trying to push yourself. Love yourself well, don’t embarrass yourself, and feel relieved. Live happily every day.
