Author: Yiduo
Picture: from the Internet
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Love is a matter between a man and a woman. Relying on the love between men and women, all problems can be solved, and marriage organizes the two families of men and women together. This problem It will become very complicated. If relatives and friends of both men and women plot against each other, life will become a mess.
Many couples who love each other are often ruined by discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. For a man, he cannot make an accurate choice between the mother who gave birth to him and the lover who he loves and wants to accompany him all his life.
Faced with a man's dilemma, if a woman still wants to keep her happy marriage, she must be stronger. When a man is hesitant, she should set rules and stick to her own bottom line.
It is difficult to level a bowl of water. Ten fingers are different in length. In a family with many children, parents will inevitably be partial. The most terrible thing is that many parents do not realize their own mistakes when they do this. , on the contrary, it is so arrogant, which is really infuriating.
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"Anyway, if you stay at home full time and have nothing to do, you must be either eating or sleeping. As long as you live a comfortable life, you can take care of my eldest grandson and enroll him in more tutoring classes so that he can be as versatile as the children in the city." It's settled, you and your wife will come to the countryside to pick him up tomorrow."
Xiaomei never expected that her mother-in-law, whom she had not contacted for more than half a year, would make such an unreasonable request.
As for the reason why we haven’t contacted each other for more than half a year, it’s because when we went back to our hometown during the Chinese New Year, Xiaomei and her husband’s family had a big fight. At that time, her mother-in-law was full of swear words, and the dirty words also involved Xiaomei’s parents. Xiaomei was so angry that she fought against her. As a result, The two had a complete breakdown and put aside their harsh words of never having any contact with each other.
Although they have not been in contact with each other for a long time, their parents-in-law still call her husband secretly. As for the purpose of the phone calls, of course it is not to miss each other between relatives, but to go straight to the topic-asking for money.
Xiaomei’s mother-in-law has two sons, and her husband is the eldest son of the family. Most parents in rural areas tend to favor their younger sons, but Xiaomei’s mother-in-law’s family is an exception. Crying children get sweets. As the youngest, my husband is introverted and not good at words. The eldest brother is very talkative and coaxes his parents around. Growing up, my husband has always been the unpopular one in the family.
Even going to college is a concession made by Xiaomei’s husband. At that time, my husband was admitted to an undergraduate college, but my parents-in-law forced Xiaomei’s husband to go to a junior college in order to get a scholarship from the college. With the money she got, the mother-in-law immediately used part of it to buy new shoes and clothes for her eldest son, and spent the rest on him.
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During college, Xiaomei’s husband’s tuition and living expenses were earned through part-time jobs. During the winter and summer vacations, he also had to work in factories. Faced with such a meager income, his parents-in-law did not let go and asked him to send part of it back to his brother. expenses.
Xiaomei only learned about these unfortunate experiences after her marriage. At that time, she felt very sorry for her husband and secretly vowed to seek justice for her husband. She could not care about the unfair treatment in the past, but she would definitely work hard in the future. Protect the rights of the couple.
However, when it comes to competing with her mother-in-law, Xiaomei will inevitably have to make concessions. For example, when she went home during the Chinese New Year, she was busy cooking for the whole family in the kitchen, while her mother-in-law and sister-in-law were busy. I scolded him on the spot and said that the food was not delicious.
The quarrel was also at the dinner table. The mother-in-law asked Xiaomei and his wife to spend 100,000 yuan to buy a new car for her eldest brother. The reason was that Xiaomei’s family was rich and they generously bought a house as a dowry. Now, it would not be good to give her a car. What a difficult thing.
This reminded Xiaomei of the gift money she received when she got married. Her mother-in-law gave all of it to her eldest uncle's family. The car that eldest brother is currently using was also bought by Xiaomei's husband. Now she still wants to ask for it, which makes her very angry.
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Xiaomei Morning sickness The reaction was too great. Her husband and parents felt sorry for her, so they decided to let her resign and raise the baby at home. She was not idle at home with nothing to do. Besides, her eldest brother's child was not related to her. Relationship, why should I take care of her?
Looking at her embarrassed and silent husband, Xiaomei shouted directly to the other end of the phone: "It's a beautiful idea, let's dream!" then hung up the phone and gave her parents-in-law's contact information. blacken.
Parental favoritism is very common, but it does not mean that it is correct or reasonable if it is common. When faced with unreasonable demands, you must stand up and resolutely oppose them. Otherwise, if you give in once, you will have to give in next time. Once you give others the impression that you are weak and can be bullied, you will face endless demands.
The parents of the Wang family in the recently popular "Happiness to Ten Thousands of Family" not only favor sons over daughters, but also exploit their eldest son and daughter and blindly help the younger son. Such unfair behavior of parents will only make the brothers and sisters unhappy. There was a rift between them.
As a son, a man cannot disobey the wishes of his parents, but as a daughter-in-law, your parents-in-law have no favors for you. There is no need to spoil it. Ambition and arrogance are raised step by step. If you resist forcefully from the beginning, It will save you a lot of trouble in the future.
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If you were Xiaomei, would you take advantage of the holidays to take your eldest nephew to your home to take care of him? Welcome to leave a message for discussion.
