Introduction: Everyone wants to live happily in their later years, and also hopes to have a wife to accompany them when they get old, but this kind of thing usually doesn't happen. Why do you? Because in old age, no matter how loving a couple is, one person will leave first, so n

Introduction

Everyone wants to live happily in their later years, and also hopes to have a wife to accompany them when they grow old, but this kind of thing usually does not happen. Why do you? Because in old age, no matter how loving a couple is, one person will leave first, so no couple can last forever.

Because of this, many people choose to remarry after the death of their wives, because only remarriage can make their lives less lonely.

A 56-year-old aunt said frankly: "I was a leader before I retired. Now my monthly pension is 10,000. When I look for a wife, I only have five requirements. Why is no one willing to marry me? Am I bad?"

Let’s take a look at this story.

56-year-old Aunt Wan

I am 56 years old this year, and my surname is Wan. Many people envy me because I have always been a very good person. When I was two years old, I worked hard to make a career. When I became a manager of a company, it was really impressive to be a manager at that age, and I was also a woman, because in that era, women had no ability, but I am more special. I don’t know that there are smart people. I am also very capable in terms of my brain. Not long after I started working, I brought a lot of benefits to the company, so my leader valued me very much. Later, I became a manager through my own efforts. Because of this, I have always been a very powerful person in the eyes of many people.

Later, when I turned 30, I got a promotion and a salary increase, and my position went up a level. In order to be able to sit in a senior leadership position, I rarely cared about my family, and I never cared about my children because I was very career-minded. Strong, career is the most important thing in my eyes, so I work hard every day.

I am able to work so hard because my parents often teach me that women must have their own independent economy, so that they will not be disliked by men and will be respected by others wherever they go. This is because this society is very realistic and there are many problems wherever you go. It depends on ability, so you must have ability in order to survive.

Just because my parents told me this, I have become a very hard-working person since then. Later, I successfully took the leadership position. After becoming a senior leader, I looked down on everyone. Only those who were rich or had the same conditions as me could I like and make friends with them. I couldn't look down on those ordinary people, so I was a very powerful woman at that time.

Some of my former colleagues and friends often talked about me behind my back, saying that I was too realistic and very arrogant, but even if others said this, I would not change my personality because I know that only strong abilities can Only those who can live a more wonderful life in this society.

When I was fighting, my husband was also very good. Otherwise, I would definitely dislike him and my life would not last long. My husband was not very capable. He took care of the house very well after work, and the children were also taken care of. He educates me very well, and he also gives me gifts during festivals, so my husband is a very qualified husband.

I thought I would spend the rest of my life with the man I love, but unexpectedly, before I reached the age of retirement, my husband died of a sudden heart attack. When my husband passed away, I was very sad because I didn’t have any emotions at all. I thought about my husband, who I love so much, leaving me like this.

He had promised me before that he would accompany me until I grow old, but he left before I could retire, so I was very sad. But I was only sad for a month, and I got over the pain. It’s not that I’m unkind, but I feel that being sad all the time will lead to physical deterioration, so I don’t want to become a sick person, and I don’t want to let myself suffer because of certain things. My body has become worse. I had a healthy body before, so that my life would be meaningful.

In order to live a good life, I slowly got used to living without my wife. To be honest, even though I don’t have my wife with me, I still have a lot of fun because I have a few friends who are very good at playing. I go to them to play whenever I’m bored, so I basically don’t feel bored.

I thought I could live alone for the rest of my life, but I didn’t expect that after living alone for a long time, I felt very lonely and my days became more and more boring. Maybe it’s because I retired and I have a lot of leisure time today. , although I have a few friends who are very good at playing, they can't sleep with me every day, and because of this, I feel lonely.

In order to prevent myself from being lonely, I decided to find a wife again, so that I don’t have to worry about having no one to accompany me in the future, and I don’t have to worry about getting sick one day, and there won’t even be anyone to bring tea or water.

Although I have the idea to find a wife, I will not be too casual in finding a wife, because I am an excellent person and cannot easily take advantage of those men. If you want to find me, find a good one, so that I will not leave any regrets. , and you don’t have to worry about having a bad life in your old age.

I have five requirements for finding a wife. As long as my five requirements are met, I will immediately register with him with my household registration book.

I don’t know why. Since I made five requests, I have never found a suitable one, and no one likes me. Moreover, I have been on a blind date for two years, and every blind date in the past two years has been a failure. This makes me feel really depressed because I don't know what am I doing wrong?

I am obviously so good, have a pension of over 10,000 yuan, and was once a leader. Why do others just look down on me? Where did I go wrong? Today I will tell you about my five requirements. I hope that after reading them, you will tell me what went wrong?

First: I do not allow the other party to have bad habits, such as smoking and drinking.

I am a very particular person. I think people who smoke and drink are not in good health. Being with people who smoke and drink will also make my health worse, because second-hand smoke is not good for me.

Although it is said that nine out of ten men smoke and drink, I hope that the man I marry will not have such a hobby, because I don't like it. I can't accept it either.

Second: A man must listen to me. He cannot go west when I say something. No matter what I ask him to do, he must do it.

I am a very strong woman. I hope that everyone will surrender to me, including my husband. My husband used to listen to me very much, so the two of us lived a long life and basically never got divorced. , although there will be quarrels, he will never refute me or scold me, so I hope that my remarriage partner will have a good temper and listen to my words, so that he can be considered a good husband.

Third: You must accept my mysophobia.

I am a person with serious mysophobia. My home must be kept clean, so the man who marries me must also love cleanliness and accept my mysophobia.

The floor must be mopped more than ten times a day, disinfected every time you enter the house, and you must change clothes immediately after returning home. You cannot wear the clothes you wear out into the bedroom, otherwise there will be bacteria.

I do this all for better health. As long as I practice good hygiene, I can reduce the number of illnesses.

Although people of the older generation think that only by being unclean can they live longer, I cannot accept it because I am used to being clean.

Fourth: If you marry me, you must give a gift of two million, and the other party’s property must be transferred to my name.

I am an excellent person. Not everyone can marry me. You must have enough money to marry me. Otherwise, if you are not worthy, I will never marry.

Fifth: The other party must be widowed, not divorced.

I don’t like divorced men, because a divorced man will still be disconnected from his ex-wife. I am a jealous person, and I can’t accept this. There are many men who can’t forget their ex-wives, and maybe they will continue to do so. With my ex-wife.

So I don’t want my remarried wife to be divorced, and I don’t want my head to be green.

I only look for widowed men. Widowed men will feel more secure and don’t have to worry about the problems that I usually worry about.

So widowed men are better off than divorced men.

These are my five requirements. I would like to ask, are my requirements too much? Why are you not willing to marry me? What did I do wrong? I hope you will comment below.

Conclusion

Generally speaking, excellent people are very confident and self-righteous. Although they are qualified to be confident, if they are too confident, they will harm themselves. Therefore, you still have to be low-key as a person, so as not to affect the person's reputation and find a partner. A little easier too.