Netizen 1: I used to make selfless contributions to my parents’ family. But then I ran out of money and my mother looked at you sideways. I happened to have an older brother and younger brothers, and the brothers were not good. Later, when I got rich, I started to be courteous ag

Netizen 1:

I used to be selfless to my parents' family, but then I ran out of money and my mother looked at you sideways. I happened to have an older brother and younger brothers, and the brothers were also bad. Later, when I got rich, I started to be courteous. , I ignored them and just said bad things about me everywhere.

Netizen 2:

Don’t say that a divorced woman’s mother-in-law’s family doesn’t want to see her. I’m not divorced, and my mother-in-law’s family still doesn’t want to see her. Before, my younger brother and sister’s families were in poorer conditions, so I subsidized my mother’s family enough. But now, my younger brother and sister My family has become rich, and I have nothing to do. Every time I go there, I either ask why you are here, or excuse me because I am busy and there is no one at home. I am not stupid. I can see that I am no longer welcome, so I am fine. It’s better not to go, distance brings beauty.

Netizen 3:

I have lived in a family that values ​​boys over girls since I was a child. After I went out to work, I always gave all my money to my parents, and after I got married, I continued to help the family. Many years later, because I lost money in my business, and when I was in trouble and wanted to ask my relatives for support, I finally realized my wishful thinking. Now I have to give money during the New Year and holidays, except for the exception.

Netizen 4:

I am divorced and have a girl. I will put her in my parents’ home and my brother-in-law and sister-in-law will help take care of her. I work outside and pay some child support. When my brother builds a house, I contribute money and effort. Fast forward thirty years, and now I am very close to my brother, sister-in-law, and I have my own family and children, with my mother-in-law as my support!

Netizen 5:

is like me, not married yet, and it costs thousands of dollars every year to send money to recharge phone bills, buy tickets, etc. But they forced me to change my registered permanent residence and asked me to pay more than 200 yuan a year for medical insurance. Then why do you come to me if you have something to do? If you have something to do, you are a family, and if you have nothing to do, you are an outsider.

Netizen 6:

I am also a stupid person. I always think of my parents’ family, but when I was in trouble, I didn’t see the faces of my parents’ family clearly, and my heart was broken to pieces.

Netizen 7:

Many facts have proved that women should be kind to themselves. If you are a guest in your mother's family and an outsider in your husband's family, you will never be recognized, so you must be worthy of yourself!

Netizen 8:

I am such a stupid woman. I feel most sorry for myself and my son. My parents favor sons over daughters and are very partial. They only care about their sons and not their daughters. No matter how well your daughter does, no matter how much money she spends, she still feels that you haven't done enough and don't treat you as a human being at all, which is completely heartbreaking.

Netizen 9:

I saved my own money and gave it to my mother’s family. Is it worthy of my children to let them suffer together? My neighbor is the same way. He got divorced and brought his daughter with him. He thought that his ex-husband would remarry, but his ex-husband found someone else. She got married much better and paid her daughter 600 a month in child support, which harmed her daughter. Her younger brother didn't even get married, and her parents couldn't help her at all.

Netizen 10:

I once had a quarrel with my husband and returned to my parents’ house. At that time, my mother didn’t ask me why we were quarreling. I stayed at my parents’ house for one night and slept on the sofa in the living room. The next day, my mother took me out of her home. I rushed back home and told my neighbors and colleagues that they wanted to ask me why I was living at my parents' house. She had no face and used this excuse to drive me out of my parents' home. I finally had to return to my husband's home alone from my parents' home. I remembered that my mother was so cruel and treated her daughter as an outsider. I usually bought Food and clothing. I give money to buy food to my parents on three festivals a year. I never expected that I would treat my biological daughter like this.

Netizen 11:

Women have to rely on themselves at any time. No matter their parents-in-law, they are unreliable and not ruthless. In the real world, life is difficult for people, and no one wants to carry a burden to move forward.

Netizen 12:

Family ties are indifferent, especially for women. Be kind to yourself. If you have money, don’t think about your mother’s family. Family ties can betray you, but money is loyal to you. Money is the most important thing at any time. If you don’t have money, you will lose everything. Absolutely no, if you have two children and one of them can't, you will be defeated. Women should be selfish.

Netizen 13:

Yes, so I no longer have expectations for anyone. I have begun to learn to retain and let go. I can’t get in with my husband’s family and cannot go back to my natal family. Indeed, I plan to move away from my parents’ city next year. , because they don’t need me, more of they are just asking for it. Once a woman sees through it, she will find a way to get along with her parents. In short, I am simple and clear. It’s not that I can’t see it anymore, but I am no longer full of expectations. , no longer enthusiastic, sometimes if you see through it earlier, you will slowly feel more relaxed and open-minded.

Netizen 14:

I once felt that I had no purpose in life. Before I got married, I helped my brother earn money for the wedding. Later, people said that I did it for my mother. After getting married, I focused on my husband and son. My husband was selfish and lazy and always thought that I could do good to him. In exchange for his change, when he owed a lot of debt, I accompanied him through hardships and paid off the debt. People said that he had the ability. If I hadn't followed him, I wouldn't have made so much money. Now my brother is divorced and owes a lot of debt. He also has a autistic little niece. His father passed away and my mother is so bent that she can't straighten up. My mother and niece are here with me, and my brother has to pay off the debt. My husband is also very emotional and tells me to take my mother away when we have a quarrel. My son also has nothing to say to me except when he is shopping for things. Now I think about it, I want to eat and drink as much as I want, my relatives will do their best, and slowly pave the way for me, no one can count on me. I will no longer be depressed and entangled, which is not good for my health. If no one cares about me and I continue to abuse myself, my life will be really miserable.

Netizen 15:

Women must be clear about it. The money they earn before marriage can be given to their parents’ families. The money they earn after marriage should be kept in their own small families. If the conditions are good, they should also keep a low profile in front of relatives and friends in case someone borrows money. , if you don’t borrow, you will offend someone. If you really want to borrow, estimate how much you will borrow and how long it will take for the other party to pay it back. Don’t let borrowing money affect your life. You should also make notes on the transfer in case the other party defaults on the loan. In short, money in your own hands is money.

Netizen 16:

I have known for a long time that if I get divorced, my parents will not help me at all and may even make some sarcastic remarks, but I am still very nice to them and have a sense of proportion. I have always been there for them after eleven years of marriage. They spend money, but my mother will not spend a penny for me and my children. She still tries to get me to spend more from time to time. Sometimes I feel disappointed, but what can I do? We will not be reincarnated. It is necessary to choose a good family, as long as you don't go too far to maintain the peace on the surface, otherwise you will feel more uncomfortable in your heart and your life will appear to be more of a failure.

Netizen 17:

is so right. Nowadays, parents have become powerful. As long as they give you money, they will help you without saying anything unfilial. If you don’t have money, you can’t do it. I have also experienced parents and children’s fathers. I regard them as the most important people in my life. I gave sincerely, but I didn’t expect that the people who hurt me the most could not be relied on, and they could only make money by themselves.

Netizen 18:

Let me tell you about my experience. I was married well in the past. I had a factory and a shop at home. Those aunts were very flattering. Of course, I also arranged for my grandparents to live in our small factory for 3 years. I arranged a chore for my grandpa, and the salary was about 1,000 to 2,000 a month, which relatively reduced their burden. The funny thing is that after I got divorced, they immediately had a different attitude, including my parents, as if If you get divorced, they will all come to judge you. You can't look at the real human heart. The same is true for brothers and sisters. If you want to borrow money, they are all relatives. If you don't borrow money, they will fall out or dig holes in you.

Netizen 19:

When I didn’t plan to buy a house, my mother-in-law vowed to let me buy a house and lend me 100,000 yuan. Later, my mother-in-law forced us to buy a house and move out. She tentatively asked my mother-in-law if she could sponsor some money, but she was scolded. After showering, I realized that it is wisest to be good to yourself. It is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others.

Netizen 20:

When I got divorced, my brother and sister-in-law felt that they were embarrassed. When we divorced, my sister-in-law told my mother that she was not allowed to return to her parents' home for three years because I had nothing left after the divorce, so she was afraid that I would harm her. At that moment, I understood that a woman’s life depends on herself and no one else. I wiped away my tears and made money before dawn.