[Original content, piracy will be investigated! The author has joined Toutiao Internet Rights Protection] There is a saying in real life: whenever money is mentioned, feelings are hurt. No matter how close you are to your classmates or friends, or how close you are to your relati

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There is a saying in real life: whenever money is mentioned, feelings are hurt. No matter how close you are to your classmates or friends, or how close you are to your relatives, as long as something related to money is involved, it becomes more and more complicated. I believe many friends have had personal experience with this.

Whenever we are in trouble, when we need money, we don’t know how to ask others; and once you ask someone to borrow money, they will find a thousand or even ten thousand reasons to say that they have no money.

In fact, it is not good to do this, and it may really hurt the relationship between you.

So when someone asks you to borrow money, is there a more tactful way to do it? The answer is of course yes. I met such a friend.

This happened many years ago. It was a very difficult time for me and I had already visited all the places where I could borrow money. In the end, there was really no other way. I thought about it for a long time before asking a good friend of mine to borrow money.

I found an opportunity to ask my friend: "Brother, can you promise me something?"

The friend said without thinking at first: "Okay, what is it? Tell me!"

So I struck while the iron was hot and said: "Can you lend me some money?"

I originally thought he would ask how much? But I didn't expect that he would act stupid towards me.

"What did you just say? I didn't hear it clearly. Can you say it again?"

So I increased my volume and said to him again:

"Lend me some money, okay?"

"That's not it. "Ah, I'm talking about the previous sentence!"

I thought about it, and then said to him: "Can you promise me something?"

I guess he really heard it clearly, and he quickly followed it. A sentence popped out of his mouth: "No!"

Let me go. . . . . .

Of course I understood what he meant, so I had no choice but to walk away silently!

We still keep in touch to this day. Sometimes it is much better to refuse politely than to refuse directly. At least they give you face and dignity! What do you think?

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