Nowadays, girls looking for husbands hope to live separately from their parents-in-law. What they want is to live their own small life with their husbands. The protagonist in the article originally thought that living separately from his parents-in-law would allow them to live th

Nowadays, girls looking for husbands hope to live separately from their parents-in-law. What they want is to live their own life with their husbands. The protagonist in the article originally thought that living separately from his parents-in-law would allow them to live their own life, but after returning home during the holidays, Seeing a room full of people, this caught the hostess off guard. What happened and she immediately filed for divorce? What can I learn from this?

The thing is like this. Li Meng and her husband have been working in the city and rarely go home. It happened that Li Meng's best friend was getting married. Several friends thought that they would take advantage of this opportunity to get together, so they discussed themselves with her husband. When she took her children back to her hometown, her husband agreed and said that he would accompany his wife back to her hometown if he had nothing to shirk. After hearing these words, his wife was filled with joy and asked him to go home and visit his parents when he was free.

In this way, Li Meng took his son on a journey home. He went to his hometown to attend the wedding of his best friend, and played with his son for two days. He was ready to go home early. Li Meng did not notify her husband of the date of his return. , she thought of giving her husband a surprise. When she came home at night and saw the lights in her house, she felt warm and happy. Unexpectedly, her husband had prepared a "big surprise" for her.

After entering the house, Li Meng thought to himself: Is this still his home? If she hadn't seen her husband coming out of the toilet, she would have thought she had entered the wrong door. This house is no longer my original house. The living room was full of garbage and his son's toys were scattered on the floor, which scared his son to tears.

But these people at home blamed their son for being ignorant and crying when seeing his grandparents without calling anyone. The culprit of all this, Li Meng's husband, also blamed his wife: "Why did you come back early and didn't say anything?"

The guests at home were all invited by the husband without his consent, including the children's grandparents, the brother-in-law's family of three, and the sister-in-law's couple. Not only did they not feel any shame, they even greeted Li Meng with a smile. What's even more outrageous is that after they finished eating, the pots and pans were not washed. The husband said with a playful smile: "You came back just in time. The dishes haven't been washed yet. Go and wash them." Li Meng looked at how messy his house was. My heart was in a mess, so I ran to the kitchen to clean up.

In addition to the kitchen, Li Meng came to the balcony and saw a pile of unwashed dirty clothes. He was a bit of a germaphobe, so he hurriedly washed and rinsed the house. After everyone went to sleep, he dragged his tired body back. bedroom. Before she asked her husband about the situation at home, he fell into a deep sleep. Not only did he not have any explanation for himself, he didn't even say anything about his hard work. These actions of her husband made Li Meng unable to sleep at all.

When she went to buy breakfast for the whole family the next day, the breakfast she bought was not to the liking of her nephew and sister-in-law. Li Meng said directly: "There is a breakfast shop downstairs. You can buy whatever you want to eat." Now they stopped talking and had breakfast quietly. After dinner, they were going to the aquarium. Her husband asked Li Meng to prepare dinner for the whole family at home. Li Meng didn't understand why her husband left her behind. When they first got married, because they were married far away and could not understand the local dialect, they were ostracized at home. Later, Li Meng insisted on moving out. Unexpectedly, they would be back to square one as soon as their family members came.

Li Meng took his son to the park to play, and then had a meal in a restaurant. After the family came back, they saw that there was no dinner cooked at home and got angry at Li Meng. Li Meng didn't understand why her husband didn't discuss anything with him even if he brought a large family back privately. I just want to protect my little family and have my own independent life. What's wrong with that? After sending her family away, Li Meng and her husband had a big argument. Li Meng blamed her husband for not consulting her in advance when so many people came to his house. Her husband said that they were all members of his family, so there was nothing to discuss. In the end, Li Meng Meng thought that her husband had done something wrong and let it go. She argued with him and he still didn't realize his mistake at all, so he impulsively filed for divorce.

Conclusion

The role of the husband has not changed yet. He is not only the son of his parents, he is also the husband of his wife and the father of his son. He should protect their family from wind and rain.Don't always consider the interests of your family members first and ignore your own family whenever you encounter a problem. The husband did not grasp the balance between the two families and ignored his wife's feelings.

In marriage, two people must discuss and communicate in a timely manner when encountering problems, and tolerate and support each other. Only in this way can a marriage last long.

Marriage needs love to maintain, and it also needs to be managed with care. When things happen, you must put yourself in the other person's shoes and consider yourself. People should have a certain sense of boundaries when getting along with each other. Everyone is an independent individual. Even if they are husband and wife or blood relatives, they should keep an appropriate distance when getting along.

All relationships in this world are mutual. The way you treat me, I will treat you in the same way. You don't care about my little temper, and I ignore your shortcomings; you tolerate my willfulness, and I tolerate your sloppiness. Our hearts are together, we work together for our little family, protect each other's love, and support a home together.