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A colleague of mine, I usually call her Sister Zhao in the company. She is very easy-going. Although we are very different in age, we can chat easily. Maybe it has something to do with the fact that we both came from rural areas to work hard in big cities.
Sister Zhao lost her biological mother when she was about ten years old. Her father was still very young and married his aunt. She thought she could have a carefree childhood. After all, her stepmother was also related to her by blood, but things turned out to be far from that. .
As the saying goes, " has a stepmother, and has a stepfather". Sister Zhao's father married his aunt and had their children a year later. It is understandable that the aunt is good to her children. Sister Zhao can also understand, After all, there is still a layer between her and her aunt. But since having a younger sister, his father has also changed. Food and fun, including new clothes and new shoes, are no longer available to Sister Zhao. For a teenage child, this kind of change from his father has a psychological impact. After all, the hatred was buried.
Perhaps because of this hatred, Sister Zhao began to study hard. At that time, there were really not many girls studying. Many of them started working to earn money for their families at the age of fourteen or fifteen.
Perhaps looking at the only bloodline left by her sister, my aunt couldn't bear to let her bear the burden of the family since she was a child. She negotiated a condition with Sister Zhao, and it was this condition that made her life turn around.
Auntie gave Sister Zhao two choices: One is to support you in school. No matter whether you can go to college or not, there will be no dowry when you get married. The other is to drop out of school now and work as a factory worker. When you get married, in addition to your salary, you will be given a generous dowry.
Sister Zhao is also a discerning person. She only wants to get an education and go to college. Even if she fails to pass the exam and does not need a dowry, she still has to work hard. At least this way she will not regret it in the future.
Just forced herself with no way out, she succeeded and became the first female college student in the small town. And it is a very good university in her province.
was assigned to a state-owned enterprise after graduating from college and received a salary from the state every month. Compared with the employees of her generation who entered the industry, she lived a pretty good life.
met her husband who also came from a poor background in a state-owned enterprise. The two of them hugged each other for warmth. They thought that their whole lives would pass by peacefully. Who would have thought that when a state-owned enterprise needs to be restructured, state-owned becomes privately owned, and life is no longer the same as before? Housing and transportation are all packaged by the state. As a last resort, one of the two people must get out first, otherwise how will their life be guaranteed in the future.
Sister Zhao encouraged her husband to go south and provided her own support. Because he graduated from a key university and had skills, Sister Zhao's husband quickly made his first pot of gold.
Sister Zhao was still living a life of boiling frogs in warm water with her children in her original state-owned enterprise. In this way, when her husband stabilized, Sister Zhao also quit her job in the state-owned enterprise and moved to the city where her husband was, ending the separation between the two places. day.
Her husband worked hard outside, so Sister Zhao used her husband’s first pot of gold to buy her first house in a place that was very remote at the time but is now very prosperous. It was from this house that Sister Zhao’s life also changed dramatically.
saw the huge appreciation brought by the house, and began to borrow money to speculate in houses, using the bank's money to make money. Buying off-plan properties, speculating on real estate, following the government's development path, buying wherever the government wants to develop, buying and selling, selling and buying, from the initial few hundred thousand to a net worth of tens of millions.
Although she is rich, Sister Zhao is still very frugal. Her clothes are not from big brands, and her bags are from Taobao. Sometimes the shoes she wears are bought at street stalls for more than ten yuan. Sometimes we make fun of her, but she always He smiled and said, "As long as you feel comfortable wearing it."
may be used to living a hard life and always has to have some food left over.
Sister Zhao’s life can be said to be one of playing a bad hand and becoming a king. Her children have successful careers at a young age, she has a unique vision, she is good at investment and financial management, her family is harmonious, and she is in good health.
Looking back at Sister Zhao’s life, there are many things worth learning:
If Sister Zhao had not worked hard enough and chosen to go to school well, she would not have entered a state-owned enterprise and met her current husband.
If Sister Zhao had not dared to ask her husband to jump out of a state-owned enterprise, a place where frogs were boiled in warm water, she would not have had the first pot of gold to buy a house in her life.
had the first pot of gold. At that time, if you were not unique, you would not dare to go to the bank for a loan to buy a house, and it was a very remote place at that time.
If she hadn’t had a unique vision and courage, she would not have taken out a loan to speculate in real estate after getting her first home.
If you take one step in the right direction, the rest of your life will be like a trap.
To sum up, Sister Zhao’s counterattack in life is inseparable from her wisdom and her unique vision.
As long as she is good enough, a woman can change her life without relying on marriage.
