I heard that a pair of classmates who fell in love in college got divorced because they had no children.
Some have given birth to children and have also gotten divorced. I went to find someone else to remarry.
I have seen it a lot, and I no longer believe in free love.
When I was young, I thought that love was the foundation of marriage, and as long as the foundation was solid, there would be no divorce.
did not expect that even if his classmates fell in love, they would get divorced.
However, some marriages where people met each other on a blind date were happily married and did not get divorced.
It turns out that whether a marriage is happy or not has nothing to do with free love or blind date, it has nothing to do with two people.
If two people are very diligent, find a common goal, and run towards the goal every day, the relationship will become deeper and deeper.
If two people are lazy, push the hope of making the family rich to each other, push the housework to each other, complain to each other, and both feel that they have paid more and the other party has paid less, they have suffered a loss, and the other party has taken advantage, the relationship will become worse. The relationship is getting shallower and shallower, and even divorce.
If someone does not have the spirit of self-discipline and wants to continue to enjoy the beauty of sensuality and pleasure, he or she will stay alone with the opposite sex after marriage, take advantage of the opposite sex, enjoy the passion between men and women, and often cheat.
The other party does not have long-term patience and judges that the other party will not change, and the marriage will break down.
Happiness can only be obtained by controlling oneself, doing a good job, making money well, not being alone with the opposite sex, saying sweet words to your spouse, and asking for help.
But also have more children and raise them well.
Do not seek your own benefits. Most people have forgotten this requirement.
Everyone wants to gain benefits from marriage. Once you find that the other person is in poverty, disease, or adversity, you will feel that you are at a disadvantage and abandon the other person.
At this time, if you don't leave, you will be forgotten, and the marriage will not be maintained.
It is impossible for a person to just be a parasite and just think about getting a happy marriage without making efforts.
No matter how we meet, the things needed to maintain a marriage and make it happy are the same. Be patient, compromise, give in, and do not seek your own interests.
These things are easy to say, but very difficult to actually do. If it is really done, most marriages will last a lifetime. If this is not possible, the marriage dissolves.
