interpretation of emotional topics will take you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional reliever, but you must know how to let yourself go!
article | Feng Ding Ye Mo
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As the saying goes: people who have no long-term worries must have short-term worries.
It doesn’t matter if you didn’t understand the meaning of this sentence when you were young. The important thing is to calm yourself down as you grow older.
knows how to summarize the past and make plans for the future. This is the best thing for an adult and mature person to do.
There is a saying: maturity and growth have nothing to do with age.
As a result, many people began to negatively absorb the "essence" of this sentence and allowed themselves to slip downhill. The structure and vision only stay in an extremely narrow perspective.
In fact, if you observe carefully, you will find that the saying "when you reach a certain age, you should do things that match it" has absolute and irrefutable truth.
A person can allow himself to be immature, but he must not stop growing himself.
When a person is willing to grow himself, he will definitely become mature accordingly.
In a sense, a person's immaturity is generally attributed to his own unwillingness to grow. Therefore, the more immature people are, the less they will live as they wish.
Adults are adults after all, not children after all. Indulging yourself to stop growing, escaping reality and enjoying the present is a kind of ignorance with "no vision".
When a person reaches middle age, no one is really allowed to have a perfunctory attitude towards life.
The biggest difference between people is nothing more than the following reasons:
①self-awareness;
②self-awareness;
③self-summary;
④self-management.
When the values of the above four "degrees" are relatively high, people will live better. Otherwise, there will only be a difference between bad and worse.
A person's life is said to be full of ups and downs. But for the ups and downs, generally speaking, one can quickly climb from the trough to the ideal peak by relying on one's own positive efforts.
The older you are, the more likely you are to be anxious. Anxiety is more severe when people reach middle age, and the anxiety of some middle-aged women is even more obvious.
The reason why people are anxious is generally due to the lack of "security". And security includes spiritual security and material security.
In the pursuit of a sense of security, the success rate and long-term rate of subjective self-sufficiency are much greater than those from the outside world.
Therefore, in middle age, smart women will prepare three escape routes for themselves. All the alternatives are relatively satisfactory by relying on the output of one's own subjective strength:
1: If you have money in your pocket
, how much money is needed to truly satisfy a person's material security?
Human nature is greedy. Therefore, how much money can satisfy the need for material security is a question with no upper limit. Yes, this is what the public says:
money, the more the better! No one doesn’t love money.
Some women say, I don’t love money, I think it’s too vulgar. But I really want to tell you:
There is nothing wrong with being a secular person who loves money. You know, the vulgarity of money cannot be avoided in your survival process. No one can live a good life without money.
When you have no money, you will look down upon you and suffer all kinds of hardships.
Money is called a common thing, but it does not mean that it is really a " common thing ". How could something important to your survival be tacky?
The reason why money is described as "vulgar things" is to constrain people's "desires".
Otherwise, when desires are not controlled, human nature will be greedy, and people will make unpredictable mistakes.
Under correct constraints, people can get more money through correct efforts. This is a life attitude that is responsible for oneself.
Some women believe that marriage is their destiny, or that their native family can meet more of their material needs, so they do not have the ability to make money or save money.
You must understand that materials obtained from the outside world are never long-term meal tickets.
Woman, no matter what, you must not lose your ability to make money and save money.
Things are unpredictable and unexpected events are unpredictable. Being able to have the correct pursuit of money no matter what is the necessary "vision" to survive in this world.
For middle-aged women, the first factor to avoid anxiety is: having money in your pocket. This is your most basic confidence.
2: Have a "good mentality" to deal with unexpected situations
Destiny is a scourge that bullies the weak and fears the strong.
Indeed, many times it is not easy for us to be completely calm and sober when misfortune strikes. However, you must force yourself to talk about this state and end it quickly.
Otherwise, you will be deeply troubled by negative emotions and unable to redeem yourself for a long time.
And fate, just looking at the time when your negative emotions are the strongest, will block you and make you suffocated and unbearable.
If you strongly believe that "I can't control my destiny", and when you face it head on, it will start to bring luck to you obediently.
What kind of path a person can take and what kind of life he can live in this life is really directly related to his mentality.
We must allow misfortune to exist, accept and respect the unbearable nature of human nature, but we must not be influenced by emotions and block the sunshine in our hearts.
In this life, it is impossible for everything to go smoothly all the time. Every step is progressing like a breakthrough. No one can predict how many thorns there will be during the specific process.
When some people face thorns, it is not really that they have poor ability to withstand pressure, but that they do not use a good attitude to force themselves and unleash their potential energy to turn things around.
On the one hand, he wants to escape from the difficulties in front of him, but on the other hand, he is unwilling to adjust his mentality and face everything positively. Why bother?
Why do some people still appear so calm after going through big storms? It is because such people know how to accumulate experience and learn lessons instead of letting themselves feel sorry for themselves.
A lifetime, a destined time. How you live is your choice. In the adult world, you must ultimately take responsibility for your own choices.
Women in middle age must stimulate their potential positive energy. With a good attitude, the rest of your life will go more smoothly.
3: Always improve yourself
In this life, no matter how you live, there will be regrets and losses. It's just that people who work hard can more easily understand "being content with what you have".
Some people only know how to live when their heads turn gray and their teeth fall out, so as to avoid regret and loss to the greatest extent.
Some women believe that as long as they choose the right person, they will be free from misfortune for the rest of their lives. However, marriage is never the best destination for life.
When a person is alive, he must live his own value in order to realize the true meaning of life.
Marriage is, after all, the icing on the cake of life, not a necessity for survival and dependence.
How many middle-aged women cry out in marriage:
If I had my life over again, I would definitely not get married so early. I would definitely spend my best years working hard to achieve my ideal appearance and go all out.
Why are middle-aged women more likely to collapse?
It is the most difficult to have an older woman and a younger woman! At this stage, a woman's figure is out of shape and her youth is gone. The growth and companionship of her children have taken up most of her energy. She also has to prevent external troubles from coming to the marriage...
Marriage is a reality! When a woman loses her beauty and ability to make money, no matter how beautiful she is on the inside, she will not be taken seriously.
It is nothing more than not experiencing betrayal, which is already the best ending.
No matter how old a woman is, she should never forget to rely on herself and manage her own life. And middle-aged women should always keep pace with the times.
Don’t stop reading because you are lazy. Don't become a tired parasite in the eyes of men because of dependence and attachment. Don't give up your beauty and ability for marriage.
A woman who puts herself first is more likely to be recognized by anyone other than herself because of her own value, and she will become indispensable in a marriage relationship.
Women should always ensure their own value and improve their own value, so that their life path will not be so difficult.
—End—
Love is the purgatory of man in this world. Be it love or friendship, only when you meet the right person at the right time can you achieve success!
topic discussion: Are you a person who knows how to manage yourself? Leave what you want to say in the comment area.
Under correct constraints, people can get more money through correct efforts. This is a life attitude that is responsible for oneself.
Some women believe that marriage is their destiny, or that their native family can meet more of their material needs, so they do not have the ability to make money or save money.
You must understand that materials obtained from the outside world are never long-term meal tickets.
Woman, no matter what, you must not lose your ability to make money and save money.
Things are unpredictable and unexpected events are unpredictable. Being able to have the correct pursuit of money no matter what is the necessary "vision" to survive in this world.
For middle-aged women, the first factor to avoid anxiety is: having money in your pocket. This is your most basic confidence.
2: Have a "good mentality" to deal with unexpected situations
Destiny is a scourge that bullies the weak and fears the strong.
Indeed, many times it is not easy for us to be completely calm and sober when misfortune strikes. However, you must force yourself to talk about this state and end it quickly.
Otherwise, you will be deeply troubled by negative emotions and unable to redeem yourself for a long time.
And fate, just looking at the time when your negative emotions are the strongest, will block you and make you suffocated and unbearable.
If you strongly believe that "I can't control my destiny", and when you face it head on, it will start to bring luck to you obediently.
What kind of path a person can take and what kind of life he can live in this life is really directly related to his mentality.
We must allow misfortune to exist, accept and respect the unbearable nature of human nature, but we must not be influenced by emotions and block the sunshine in our hearts.
In this life, it is impossible for everything to go smoothly all the time. Every step is progressing like a breakthrough. No one can predict how many thorns there will be during the specific process.
When some people face thorns, it is not really that they have poor ability to withstand pressure, but that they do not use a good attitude to force themselves and unleash their potential energy to turn things around.
On the one hand, he wants to escape from the difficulties in front of him, but on the other hand, he is unwilling to adjust his mentality and face everything positively. Why bother?
Why do some people still appear so calm after going through big storms? It is because such people know how to accumulate experience and learn lessons instead of letting themselves feel sorry for themselves.
A lifetime, a destined time. How you live is your choice. In the adult world, you must ultimately take responsibility for your own choices.
Women in middle age must stimulate their potential positive energy. With a good attitude, the rest of your life will go more smoothly.
3: Always improve yourself
In this life, no matter how you live, there will be regrets and losses. It's just that people who work hard can more easily understand "being content with what you have".
Some people only know how to live when their heads turn gray and their teeth fall out, so as to avoid regret and loss to the greatest extent.
Some women believe that as long as they choose the right person, they will be free from misfortune for the rest of their lives. However, marriage is never the best destination for life.
When a person is alive, he must live his own value in order to realize the true meaning of life.
Marriage is, after all, the icing on the cake of life, not a necessity for survival and dependence.
How many middle-aged women cry out in marriage:
If I had my life over again, I would definitely not get married so early. I would definitely spend my best years working hard to achieve my ideal appearance and go all out.
Why are middle-aged women more likely to collapse?
It is the most difficult to have an older woman and a younger woman! At this stage, a woman's figure is out of shape and her youth is gone. The growth and companionship of her children have taken up most of her energy. She also has to prevent external troubles from coming to the marriage...
Marriage is a reality! When a woman loses her beauty and ability to make money, no matter how beautiful she is on the inside, she will not be taken seriously.
It is nothing more than not experiencing betrayal, which is already the best ending.
No matter how old a woman is, she should never forget to rely on herself and manage her own life. And middle-aged women should always keep pace with the times.
Don’t stop reading because you are lazy. Don't become a tired parasite in the eyes of men because of dependence and attachment. Don't give up your beauty and ability for marriage.
A woman who puts herself first is more likely to be recognized by anyone other than herself because of her own value, and she will become indispensable in a marriage relationship.
Women should always ensure their own value and improve their own value, so that their life path will not be so difficult.
—End—
Love is the purgatory of man in this world. Be it love or friendship, only when you meet the right person at the right time can you achieve success!
topic discussion: Are you a person who knows how to manage yourself? Leave what you want to say in the comment area.
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