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However, when faced with bigger problems, ones that require analytical skills, real knowledge, and a deep understanding of a problem, a particularly positive attitude alone will not save you from getting into trouble. Being too positive doesn't protect you from losses: financial loss, emotional damage, shock, and disappointment.
and luck.
A person who has been lucky in life will certainly be more positive than someone who knows and learns from difficulties. But on a larger scale, statistically speaking, you can't count on luck. In my opinion, simply put, being overly positive is nothing more than good luck.
It always pays to have a good, decent connection with reality, knowing where you are, knowing what you are doing, and knowing your limitations is most important. Being unusually positive or unusually negative does no one any good. Both are unbalanced and unrealistic.
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If you look at the world through colored glasses, this may put you in danger. This is not ordinary optimism. It is the kind of complete denial that accompanies dissociation when someone lacks an integral object relationship.
What is the overall object relationship?
This is a developmental achievement that begins in early childhood and enables us to see ourselves and others in a realistic, stable, and comprehensive way that includes both likeable and disliked characteristics and behaviors.
Not everyone develops full object relations in childhood. If we lack complete object relations, we can only see people as wholly good or wholly bad.
What is splitting?
Schizophrenia is a psychological term that refers to black and white thinking without shades of gray. In schism, we see the world in stark terms, and people are seen as either entirely good or entirely evil. The lack of overall object relationships leads to fragmentation.
What are some of the different forms of splitting?
Once we see a person as all good or all evil, we can never see them any other way.
We can switch back and forth, sometimes viewing a person as entirely good, and sometimes viewing the same person as entirely evil.
We assign all the good qualities to one person and project their bad qualities onto others. In one family, one child may be seen as perfect, while another is the target scapegoat whose good qualities are never acknowledged.
charge number . Generally speaking, a positive attitude is a good thing, as long as it doesn't blind you to the reality that not everyone is trustworthy and not everyone has your best interests at heart.
