Hello, I am your growing best friend Wu Yang~~
01
When your core abilities are excellent, apart from life and death, it is all trivial matters.
When I was 19 years old, under the arrangement of my father, I got a job that everyone envied.
Good benefits, good working environment, low competitive pressure, and low business difficulty.
has been working for less than a year and has ushered in a major reform of the company's business model.
In the third year, the unit was restructured and the business was transformed into an enterprise; in the seventh year, the enterprise was transformed into a business; then, the management line was lengthened and everyone faced redeployment problems, with people being moved hundreds of kilometers away from home.
When you have no family and no mouth, your home is everywhere; after you have a family, your children and your home are inseparable concerns.
works cautiously and cautiously every day, fearing that even if the leader is dissatisfied, he will be "assigned" to a "remote" area.
Chicken Soup for the Soul said that in this world, except for life and death, they are all trivial matters.
In fact, when the cruelty and choices of life are coming like summer showers, it is difficult to encourage yourself that "it's all small things."
In the face of ideals and education, the key is to survive.
I am very lucky to have been exposed to writing very early. Official document writing and new media writing have given me a taste of its sweetness.
The skill of writing has allowed me to obtain promotion opportunities at work that many people have difficulty getting after working for more than ten years.
gave me the confidence to "I don't want to leave you here, I have my own place to stay".
The most difficult thing in life is that it is difficult to control the initiative in life.
"core competency" is this initiative.
People must learn to take the initiative in life into their own hands.
Let it change, soldiers will come to block it, and water will come to cover it up.
02.
Deposit will always give you the confidence to have a sense of security.
Before I started writing part-time and after my child was born, I had been living a life of borrowing and repaying money.
My ex-husband’s income only concerns himself. The mortgage, living expenses, and raising children are basically my expenses.
Almost every month when I get my salary, I have to repay the debt I owed last month. While
was upset about her marriage, she also reflected on her own view of money.
When I was young, I had no concept of financial management and spent money as I pleased. I was like an elf who could not eat the fireworks of the world, buying whatever I wanted.
When the "elf" fell to the world, he truly realized how difficult it was to open his eyes and ask for money.
However, once bad habits are formed, it is really difficult to change them.
As the children get older, the parents get older, and they themselves are on the decline, even if they save more and more, the speed of making money cannot keep up with the efficiency of spending money.
Maintaining storage habits, it seems, will reduce the quality of life.
actually makes life more interesting.
For example, takeout and milk tea have become “homemade”.
Not only can you experience the " flow " of immersed life, but you can also enjoy the joy of each other's company with your children.
03.
When you have no ability, your relatives will dislike you.
After the divorce, he insisted on taking care of the children alone, and had a serious conflict with his father.
He believes that if a woman gets divorced and has a son, her life will be ruined.
I finally calmed down, and I didn’t dare to say too much in front of my father.
Whatever you say is wrong.
You must know that in the past, even if I was not the pride of my father, I would always be praised as a "good daughter" by everyone.
I was angry for a while, why did my father do this to me?
I just want to take on my own responsibilities and raise my own children.
I know that my father's concern is real.
However, my loss and frustration are also real.
The two are like two huge fireballs that may explode at any time.
Gradually, I realized the powerlessness of my father as he grew older, and the pressure of my life with limited income.
It wasn’t until I showed my father the income from a self-media platform that had been stable at around 4,000 yuan for several consecutive months that he showed a long-lost smile.
The essence between people is a kind of exchange.
has material exchange and emotional value.
When people around you see you working hard to live a positive life, they will also be infected by your sincerity towards life.
When you start working hard, the whole world will make way for you.
04.
Not all persistence can bring good results.
Before getting into new media writing, I did a lot of online jobs.
Order brushing, purchasing, dropshipping , micro-business, etc. Basically,
has persisted for more than a year, and Wechat Business has been doing business for more than three years.
However, no money was made.
First, I don't like any of this and I do it to make money;
Second, I just want to make easy and simple money;
Third, I just "persisted" and did not have a deep understanding of the underlying logic.
There are many things to do to make money, the key lies in what kind of thinking you have.
Just like me, I fell into the trap of "tactical diligence" and ignored the importance of strategy.
It takes not only time but also effort to achieve success.
is like writing an article. Everyone knows what the framework of new media article is, but how to use this framework well is the core.
05.
If you are not capable, it will be useless no matter how many people you know.
When I first came into contact with new media writing, I especially liked to submit resources everywhere. When
sees an author who has written a hit article, he tries to get the contact information. After getting familiar with it, he gets the editing information from the other person.
Until now, there are hundreds of editors in the address book, covering all fields of new media submission platforms.
Over the past few years, I have submitted articles to only a few dozen editors.
has many editors who haven't even said a word.
As I began to publish popular articles, editors often contacted me and asked me for manuscript requests. My understanding of "networking" changed drastically.
Network is not about how many people you know, but how much value you can provide to others.
and above encourage each other.
Good night. [Moon]
Author introduction:
Wu Yang, nicknamed "Wu Yang grows up" on all platforms, a single mother born in the 1980s, 5 years of new media writing, 3 years of self-media operation, and realizing 100,000+ in side business every year. May the years go well, and time not regret.
