As the saying goes, "A distant relative is worse than a close neighbor"! In life, everyone has relatives and neighbors. These two types of people are two very important components of our life interactions.
And relatives are very different from neighbors. Relatives are destined from the day a person is born and cannot be changed in their lifetime! But neighbors are different, but neighbors can choose the day after tomorrow. And not everyone can live in harmony with each other. Some neighbors may be really annoying, even some relatives.
And the ancients also had such troubles, otherwise how could they say such words as "Neighbors do not get along, relatives do not leave"! So what does this sentence mean? What is the truth telling us? Let’s talk about the neighbors first. The neighbors must be someone who lives not far from him. They look up and see each other without seeing each other. It is impossible to say that there is no contact at all.
However, these types of neighbors should not be too close to each other. First of all, neighbors with poor family traditions. Some people may ask, how can we know if the other party’s family tradition is good? You can see from these details, such as: seeing whether their children are polite, whether they speak swear words, whether they know how to respect adults, and their behavioral inappropriateness, etc., you can see their family style in these aspects. If the other party’s child is not educated, his own child will definitely learn bad things when he is with him for a long time. For example, adults are nothave properly and have too much contact with such people, which will definitely cause trouble to their own family. The best way is to have less contact. Anyway, don’t give the other party any chance to interact. It’s better to have less trouble than more. This will not only protect your family, but also save a lot of unnecessary trouble.
There is also a kind of neighbors that cannot be dated, which is called a smiling tiger and a scheming person! This kind of person is usually very enthusiastic on the surface, so enthusiastic that you can't refuse. He tries to inquire about any situation in your home. As long as there is a little news, the whole village will know about it within one day. Therefore, it is best to stay away from such neighbors who like to inquire about other people's privacy.
Let’s talk about the relatives not leaving! For the benefit of intersecting and snobbish relatives! This kind of relative is very realistic, rich, powerful, and profitable. You are his relative, and when you are not profitable, you will be sarcastic to you. To put it simply, most of these people are people who forget their righteousness when it comes to profit, and there is no need for such relatives to walk with them.
The second is relatives who don’t know how to be grateful! This kind of relative is particularly annoying. It is normal for others to lend a helping hand when their family is in trouble, but they feel that it is natural for you. If you don’t help him one day, he will feel that you are sorry for him, and such relatives cannot be contacted.
The last kind of relative who turns against others! There is nothing wrong with this kind of relative when you usually walk around normally, but if you have something that is slightly unsatisfactory, you will immediately turn against you and will not talk about any mercy at all! Such relatives must definitely be less in contact with each other and be heartless.
or above is purely personal opinion. If you have any unique insights, please leave a message in the comment area. Please give me some advice. Thank you!
