After Yulian had a fight with her husband, she returned to her parents' home angrily. In the afternoon of the next day, her husband Xiao Hong called Yulian and asked her to go back quickly. Yulian asked Xiao Hong how to solve the house problem. Unexpectedly, he still said the sam

After Yulian had a fight with her husband, she angrily returned to her parents' home. In the afternoon of the next day, her husband Xiao Hong called Yulian and asked her to go back quickly. Yulian asked Xiao Hong how to solve the house problem. Unexpectedly, he still said the same thing: "The wedding house we live in now is the house bought by our parents before we got married. It has nothing to do with you. Why do you have to be so stubborn about the house?"

Yulian then asked: "Then what if Our wedding house was given to your brother, so I'm not willing to take out a loan to buy a house. What are you going to do?" But he said, "I won't force you. If you insist on not wanting to take out a loan, we will have to rent a house. Yulian, please listen to my advice. We are a couple after all, and it is not easy to get married. You must think carefully. Are you going to make it irreversible? Let’s take a step back and say, if we really do, After getting divorced, you are no longer a young lady, but a divorced woman. But I am different. After all, I am a man. This does not have a big impact on me, but it is difficult for you to find someone else. Let's go."

Yulian's hands trembled with anger and she hung up the phone angrily. Yulian wanted to slap her in the mouth. She regretted why she chose this man in the first place. Was she blind? How could I find out after getting married that I married such a bastard? Yulian and Xiao Hong were married for only three months or even less than 100 days. Now all Yulian can think about is divorce...

After Yulian finished college, she worked in a second-tier city for two years until last year. Returning to the small 18th-tier city in her hometown, in Yulian's words, not only did she have an average appearance and average academic qualifications, but her family background was also very ordinary. It was difficult for her to find her own place in a big city, let alone buy a house and settle down. Seeing that she was no longer young and had not found a suitable marriage partner, Yulian listened to her parents and returned to her hometown.

Yulian’s husband Xiao Hong is her hometown. Yulian’s classmate at the time introduced the two of them. Xiao Hong’s experience is almost the same as Yulian’s. He has worked hard in big cities for several years, but feels that his future and hope are slim. , so they all returned to their hometown. Maybe it's because of their shared experiences and the fact that both of them are relatively introverted personalities. After getting along, the two of them felt that they liked each other quite a lot.

In order to understand whether the two people have the same views, Yulian also searched for some very hot social events on the Internet, such as more controversial issues such as wedding gifts, and asked Xiao Hong to see what kind of attitude he would have. ? Later, Yulian discovered that Xiao Hong was very rational and calm about the financial issues of marriage. Basically, he was the kind of person who said, "Don't try to take advantage of me, but I won't take advantage of you either."

When talking about the topic of betrothal gifts, Yulian said: "The betrothal gift is a support for our small family from our husband's family. It is also a financial guarantee and sense of security for the woman when she becomes pregnant and has a child and has no income." Although Xiao Hong agreed with Yulian's statement, But he believes that support for small families should not only come from the husband's family, but also from the mother's family. Moreover, Xiao Hong has repeatedly emphasized that if his wife becomes pregnant in the future, he will definitely take care of her responsibly and will not make his wife feel insecure, whether financially or in life.

He also euphemistically said that having a child is a matter between the couple and not the wife alone. Hearing what Xiao Hong said, Yulian felt both reasonable and moved. Marriage is meant for two people to work together, and after getting married, they must live a good life wholeheartedly. Yulian feels that she is not a little girl and has long since passed the age of coquettish love. At her age, she already understands the truth, which is comparable to Those unrealistic sweet words are much more practical.

Yulian’s mother did not agree with their marriage at first because she heard that Xiao Hong’s family’s reputation was not very good. There were not many villains in Yulian’s hometown, and every household would cause trouble if someone happened to have something close to them. As we all know, it is said that Xiao Hong's father has been idle all his life, and he is also very narrow-minded. Moreover, their family's conditions are quite poor and compared to Yulian's family, they are quite poor.Xiao Hong’s father went out to Didi for three days to fish and two days to post online, and his mother had no job. Besides, Xiao Hong also has a younger brother, Xiao Liang.

Yulian's parents have lived a stable life all their lives and are usually very thrifty, so they bought two apartments in their hometown. One of the houses is in the name of Yulian, and she is the only daughter in the family. However, there is also a house in the name of Xiao Hong, which the family bought in full a few years ago and has also decorated it. Xiao Hong's parents also promised that the wedding house was for Xiao Honghong and had nothing to do with his brother Xiao Liang.

Yulian's parents said that the bride price was 50,000 yuan, and their family would also pay 50,000 yuan, and they would give it to Yulian to take back to their small family after the wedding. As for the wedding banquet, each family received their own gifts, and Xiao Hong's family had no objections to this. At first, Yulian felt that Xiao Hong and his parents had a good attitude, and the wedding went smoothly! Xiao Hong's parents were also very kind to Yu Lian after their marriage. They would cook a meal every time Yu Lian went to visit her parents-in-law on weekends.

also cares about Yulian in various ways, and there is no feeling at all like those mother-in-laws mentioned on the Internet giving power to their daughters-in-law. But Yulian's mother began to urge her to prepare for pregnancy as soon as possible. She was afraid that Yulian would become a senior mother at such an old age, which would be bad for children and adults. Xiao Hong and Yulian also wanted to have a child as soon as possible, and they actively cooperated in preparing for pregnancy after marriage.

On this weekend, Yulian and Xiao Hong bought a bunch of fruits and went to their parents-in-law’s house. The mother-in-law prepared a large table of dishes, which were more abundant than usual. But as soon as they started eating, the father-in-law said with a serious face: "Today I have something to discuss with you two. Xiao Hong’s brother Xiao Liang is in love with a girl. The girl’s requirement is that he must have a house. Now I plan to transfer the house in Xiao Hong’s name to his brother! "Yu! Lian was stunned. Her eyes widened and she quickly asked her father-in-law: "What do you mean? Then where will Xiao Hong and I live in the future?"

Father-in-law then said: "You and Xiao Hong will live together first. Anyway, Xiao Liang is getting married. It's not a matter of one or two years. Let's wait until he gets married." Yulian finally understood, then turned to look at Xiao Hong and asked, "What do you mean by that? Isn't it the house in your name?" My father-in-law's face immediately darkened: "What do you call his house? It's the house I bought originally. Even if it is bought in his name, it is half of Xiao Hong's pre-marital property and yours. "It doesn't matter a cent."

Yulian also retorted anxiously: "Yes, the house has nothing to do with me, but after all, it is our wedding house. Now Xiao Hong and I plan to have children. In the future, he will If we don't have a house, where will our family of three live?" My mother-in-law answered at this time: "You are not pregnant yet? We will wait until you are pregnant. Besides, it's not like we won't let you get pregnant now. Come on, just stay here! Now Xiao Liang has just met someone. It’s not certain whether he will get married in the future. Why are you so anxious? It’s like someone robbed your house. It’s not yours in the first place. House! "

Yulian was so popular with her husband that she couldn't even speak. Xiao Hong, who was sitting aside, tugged on Yulian's sleeve to tell her to stop talking. After returning home, Yulian became angrier and more aggrieved as she thought about it, so she burst into tears. When Xiao Hong saw this, he quickly stepped forward to comfort Yulian. While Yulian was crying, she asked Xiao Hong: "What's going on with your parents? What should we do?" Xiao Hong was speechless for a long time. After a long silence, he explained: "You also know the situation of our family. I have already spent a lot of money on my wedding, and I really can't afford it anymore. I want to buy a house for my brother to get married, so that’s all I can do for now.”

Yulian continued to ask: “What will we do? And what will happen to our family of three if we have children in the future?” Unexpectedly, Xiao Hong actually said with a smile: "Don't you also have a house under your name? Why don't we rent it out and take back the house under your name and we can live in your house?""Yulian asked: "When I bought this house, I just renovated it briefly, and then rented it out as a rental. If the two of us want to move here now, we will at least have to renovate it. Then what will happen to the decoration? Who should pay for it? "

Xiao Hong said seriously: "Of course you have to pay for the decoration of your house yourself. Even if I pay for the decoration, the house will have nothing to do with me in the future. After hearing this, Yulian became more and more angry and said, "Isn't this what your family is doing is a marriage fraud?" Obviously we had already discussed it before we got married and said you had a house! "At this time, Xiao Hong immediately exploded: "I never promised that I would have a house. Even if I did, it would be my pre-marital property and has nothing to do with you Yulian. I have the full right to control and make decisions. How should this house be treated and arranged? "

Yulian's mind was in a mess for a moment. She was completely confused by what Xiao Hong and his family had done. Then Xiao Hong began to coax Yulian again and said: "How about we spend all the money on the betrothal gift and dowry? Take it out, let's pay a down payment, and buy a house, which will save us the trouble of having to worry about the house in the future. Moreover, the house bought in this way is also our joint property after marriage, and both you and I have a share. "

Yulian replied: "Use the money from the bride price and dowry to buy a house? Isn’t that backup gold used for pregnancy and childbirth? Xiao Hong spread his hands and said helplessly: "Then what do you think we should do?" I don’t have that much money to spend on the down payment for a new house. Otherwise, I can use your house as a loan, so that we can have enough money for the down payment and decoration. "Yulian couldn't accept Xiao Hong's series of bombardments for a while, and she was stunned by him.

Yulian felt that everything Xiao Hong said sounded very reasonable and logical, but for Yulian, what happened? Isn't that what happened? So Yulian went back to her parents' house that night, and received a call from Xiao Hong the next afternoon. Yulian didn't know how to live her life, let alone how to deal with it. She didn't dare to tell her parents about this matter, because she was afraid that their parents would be very angry about it!

Yulian thought that if she really wanted to get divorced, she would really be divorced, but she had only been married for less than three years. Months later, she feels really confused! Friends, do you think Yu Lian should get divorced?