Introduction
Everyone is eager to get a high pension after retirement, because only with a pension can life be better. Even if the children are not filial in their later years, they can still use the pension to hire a nanny, or It goes to a nursing home, so retired elderly people generally live a happy life.
Although being rich is a very happy thing, not all wealthy old people can live the life they want in their old age, and some even live in misery.
An 89-year-old man cried: "I have a monthly pension of 12,000, but I always think about leaving early."
Let's take a look at this story.
89-year-old Uncle Chen
I am 89 years old this year, and my surname is Chen. I never thought that I would have such a day. I used to think that I could spend my old age with peace of mind, but only after I reached my old age did I realize that my I lived such a miserable life in my later years, and every day for the rest of my life, I thought about leaving this world early, because I really didn’t want to live anymore. Living was too tiring, so I might as well just die, so that I wouldn’t have to suffer so much.
Although many people don’t understand why I have this idea? Because my pension is very high, I can get 12,000 every month. Logically speaking, I shouldn’t feel depressed with such a high pension, and my life will be very good, but I feel that my life is very painful. Maybe leaving early can free me.
I think about dying early all the time. The reason is because I am currently ill and none of my children want to be close to me. I have five children, but none of them are filial and no one is willing to provide for me in my old age. .
can cause them to become so unfilial. It is not entirely their problem, but my problem.
When I was young, I did not treat my wife and children well. At that time, I was very domineering. I always felt that my children and my wife were not the closest to me. Only my parents, brothers and sisters were the closest. So as soon as I had money, I I will call back to my parents and my brothers and sisters, but my children and my wife have never spent a dime from me, so I am a Phoenix man who is very confused.
All the expenses for raising my five children are all earned by my wife’s hard work every day. When she really can’t earn that much, she can only rely on her mother’s family, so she has paid a lot and suffered a lot over the years, but She never showed any concern or greeting. Instead, she often asked her to help my family with money.
If she didn't give it to me, I would beat her and scold her. At that time, my five children often cried and asked me not to beat her, because they felt sorry for their mother's injury, so they did not want their mother to be harmed in any way.
But I just like to hurt them. I always feel that they have been bullied by me since they were born. And every time I bully them, I feel very comfortable. Later, slowly, I also use them as a punching bag, whether it is my children or my children. My wife is often beaten to death by me.
Because of this, my wife and children hate me, but they don’t dare to do anything to me because I have a very bad temper. As long as they dare to resist, I will beat them even harder, so every time they see me, they will Dodge to avoid being hit.
Later, as time passed, my wife and I have been married for many years, and the children have grown up. I thought that the children would be very filial to me when they grow up. Although I have not paid for them, I am Their father, so honoring me is what they should do.
I didn’t expect that they had never come back since they left the social work, nor did they call me to greet me or care about me. They also vowed that when they make money in the future, they will definitely take my wife to live with them, because that is the only way, Only then will my wife avoid being beaten and scolded by me, a Phoenix man.
So the children loved their mother very much. Later, after they worked hard for a few years, they all started careers one after another, and everything they paid for was done by themselves. I didn't help, but they also had They asked me, but even if they asked me, I wouldn't help because they don't have the qualifications and don't deserve it. Only my parents and siblings deserve my money.
So over the years, no matter what my parents, brothers and sisters need, I will satisfy them and never let them down, so I am really a Phoenix man.
At that time, many people advised me not to be a phoenix man, because it would easily destroy myself and lead a miserable life in my old age.
But I have never worried about this, because I am very capable and will receive a very high pension when I retire, so I don’t have to worry about old age at all.
Later, after I worked until I was 60 years old, I also chose to retire. As soon as I retired, I asked my wife to take care of me for two hours a day. However, after only a short period of time, my wife fell ill. When I went to the hospital for a check-up, the doctor said It was caused by overwork. The spirit suggested that she should not be so tired, otherwise her body would become worse and worse and her life would be in danger.
After my wife learned about this result, she ran back to me and told me not to make any more requests and not to treat her as a free nanny, because she wanted to spend her old age well.
I didn’t listen at all, because in my eyes, after she married me, she had to serve me well, so that she could be considered a qualified wife.
At that time, I deliberately asked her to do this and that. Later, because she failed to take a good rest, her condition became more and more serious. She lay in the hospital for a while and then passed away. After she left, I did not take this thing with her. I told my children about it because I don’t think it is necessary for my children to know that life, old age, illness and death are inherently reincarnations, so I don’t want them to be affected by this matter. Although my children are not very important in my eyes, they are my children after all. I don’t want them to do their job poorly.
Later, a year after my wife passed away, my children suddenly came back to visit and found that my wife had passed away. At that moment, my five children were completely angry. Then they came to scold me one by one, saying that I was not a human being and had no conscience. He also said that no one would like people like me in my life.
Since then, they have completely stayed away from me, and vowed never to provide for me in my retirement. At that moment, I panicked, but thinking that I still had a pension, I wasn't that worried.
But when I really needed care later, I realized that people cannot live without their children to take care of them in their old age. However, my children already hated me and were unwilling to take care of me in my old age, so I could only take care of myself.
Originally, I wanted to go to my brothers and sisters’ home to live together for the elderly, but none of my brothers and sisters wanted to talk to me, because they no longer treat me as a family member. They just want to live their own lives and don’t want to be disturbed by anyone. .
Later I chose to go to a nursing home. Unexpectedly, the attitude of the nurses in the nursing home was very bad. I ran away after only half a month of staying there. After returning to my hometown, I could only spend money to hire a nanny, although I really didn’t want to spend that money. Money, but in order to spend my old age with peace of mind, I can only do this.
But after hiring a nanny for half a year, the nanny showed her true colors. Not only did she not work seriously, she often disliked me for being too busy. I was old and often had to go to the hospital, so she was very irritated and thought I was a troubled old man. Not only did she dislike me, but she often scolded me. After being scolded a few times, I couldn't stand it anymore, so I fired her. I hired a nanny, not an ancestor, so I couldn't let others bully me. After
fired that nanny, I never hired a nanny again, but there was no one to take care of me. It was really hard to live without someone to accompany me. Every time I got sick, I had to go to the hospital alone, and I could only take care of myself. I don't want to live like this, but my children are unwilling to support me in my old age, so I can only do this.
As time goes by, I have entered the age of longevity, and my body is getting worse and worse. I have to take various medicines every day to maintain my life, and I have to take various injections. I don’t want to take them, but Without injections, it always hurts here and there, so I can only relieve the pain in my body through and injections.
But even so, I still live in pain. Maybe it’s because I live alone, so it always makes me feel very meaningless. Sometimes I really want to leave this world quickly, because only in this way I don’t have to bear it. This kind of pain, although I have money and power, is of no use at all now. It can't do anything except cure the disease. It can't buy family affection, let alone the filial piety of my children.
I thought about forcibly moving to my children's home, but I was afraid that my children would turn me away. Because my children said they would not support me in my old age, I didn't dare to disturb them.
But I feel like I am going to be paralyzed now, because my legs are no longer so flexible, and I feel that I will not be able to walk in a while, but what should I do at that time, go to a nursing home or hire a nanny? Reliable, so I really don’t know what to do. If it’s going to be so miserable then, then I hope I leave now so I don’t have to bear so much.
Conclusion
In fact, the fact that this uncle lived such a miserable life in his later years was all caused by him. He could have had a very happy family and five filial children, but because of his selfishness and stupidity, In the end, it will harm yourself, so the elderly should really not be too arrogant, because arrogance will not bring benefits to themselves, but will only make their old age miserable.
