Preface:
Everyone hopes that they can live happily after getting married, and no one hopes to have the possibility of a second marriage. However, sometimes the relationship with the original spouse may not last long. Some cases are caused by death, which causes the separation of yin and yang between the two, and some are due to incompatible personalities. In the end, there is divorce, and some are betrayal of the marriage, so there are various reasons. Not everyone can grow old with their original spouse. Unless there is fate or destiny, they will basically experience some ups and downs. Let’s take a look at Aunt Zhang’s experience!
The 54-year-old Aunt Zhang said:
I am a woman born in a rural area. Later I married my first husband, who was also a farmer. After I married him, we worked in the countryside, and although our life was not rich, , but it’s not bad. We have two children. They listen to us and study very hard. Later, our two children were admitted to universities in the city. After graduating from university, they stayed in the city to work. .
Life had just gotten better when my wife passed away in a car accident. Before he could enjoy life, my children took me to live in the city. They were worried that I would be alone in the countryside. At first, When I went to the city, I was really not used to it. I had no friends there, so I wanted to go back to the countryside, but my son didn’t agree. My son felt that if I went back to the countryside, they would have to go back often. Look at me, they think it’s troublesome to go back to the countryside.
Later my son got married. My daughter-in-law was very nice to me when she first came here. After she came here for a while, she started to dislike me. She always felt that I didn’t like to be clean. In fact, it’s not that I don’t like to be clean, it’s just me. As I get older, I have a more or less old-fashioned smell about me.
Because of my daughter-in-law’s appearance, I knew that it would not be a problem to live in her house for a long time, so I wanted to find myself a wife. Later, I went to the dating center to register my information. Because of the introduction of the dating center, I met Uncle Liu. He is 24 years older than me. That year, I was 54 years old, and Uncle Liu was already 78 years old, but I didn’t care about this. I felt that Uncle Liu was very rich. If I were with him, I could get it from him. When I get the money, I use it to help my son, because my son’s life is not rich. He just bought a house and still owes a lot of mortgage loan. Seeing my son working so hard makes me feel very distressed.
Later I got married to Uncle Liu. When I got married to Uncle Liu, Uncle Liu’s children gave me big red envelopes. They said that we would all be a family from now on, and a family should love each other. Seeing them like that , I felt very happy. At that time, I felt that marrying Uncle Liu was a very right choice.
Half a year after I got married to Uncle Liu, Uncle Liu’s health became worse and worse. Later he fell ill. Uncle Liu suffered a stroke. The doctor said he would never stand up again. When I found out about this , I felt like a bolt from the blue. After a few days of good life, I didn’t expect that something like this happened again. Then I told Uncle Liu’s children about this. Uncle Liu’s children told me that I just need to take good care of Uncle Liu. Yes, they will take care of the money matter. They are too busy to take care of Uncle Liu.
Taking care of an old man who is bedridden is really tiring. Moreover, after Uncle Liu became ill, his temper became very violent and he would hit people at every turn. I really had enough. At the beginning, Uncle Liu’s children would meet every month. They sent me money on time, but later they changed and were no longer willing to send money. One time I couldn't help it anymore and asked them for money. I didn't expect them to say that I was greedy for money. I really felt speechless.
Now I want to divorce Uncle Liu, but I am afraid that others will laugh at me. After remarrying to a 78-year-old uncle, I really have endless regrets.
Author's point of view:
Therefore, the remarriage of the elderly is not always a happy one. Many people like Aunt Zhang think that they can live a happy life by remarrying and finding a rich wife, but who knows that they will become someone else's family? "Free babysitting".In fact, there are many such cases. Therefore, I would like to advise the majority of single middle-aged and elderly women that if you want to remarry, you must keep your eyes open and remember that rich men may not necessarily have true love!
