How long did it take you to go from having nothing to say to having nothing to say?
The desire to share does not necessarily mean that I love you, but the lack of desire to share definitely means that I do not love you.
The desire to share does not disappear suddenly;
but messages that have not been replied for several hours;
but sharing happily again and again only results in perfunctory response;
but encountering sad things and irritable mood again and again. There was no response or comfort after telling the story.
Slowly, your sharing partners will change from lovers, husbands, and wives to best friends, friends, and colleagues.
Later, I don’t know when it started, your words became less and less.
You talked a lot in a long way and shared the trivial little surprises in life.
He only replied "Um, oh OK, sometimes even not replying a word at all.
As time goes by, the desire to share disappears little by little.
Sometimes things are happy, wronged, successful, and failed. What I wanted to tell her from the beginning turned into best friends and friends...
A few days ago, I was walking by the river. There was an old couple walking in front of me, supporting each other and walking calmly.
Auntie. Said: "My best friend got into a fight with my husband because she didn't like the food he bought. The aunt kept saying this." The uncle listened carefully and responded, "You call me and ask." Clearly, if you are still quarreling, why don't you invite them out for a meal, have a good chat with them, and relieve their emotions. "
The aunt then said, "My son wants to come back on the weekend, what kind of food should I buy?" The uncle said, "Let's go back and write a menu that the children like to eat, and then go buy the food."
Then from these things, we talked about the children and the neighbors. We...
Are we getting older and have nothing to say? No, I think it is because "love" is gone and everything has become perfunctory.
Time passes by, and there are so many earth-shattering events every day. They are all trivial things.
Love disappears not when the desire to share disappears, but when love disappears first, then the desire to share disappears.
In the elevator of a shopping mall, a young couple walked from the first floor to the sixth floor as if there was no one around. Lou, they talked about trivial things, what color lipstick to buy, what clothes to buy, what to eat later...
In these few minutes, they talked about five topics, and there was nothing new.
When chatting, each other's eyes never left each other. It felt so natural, everyone in the elevator could feel their happiness and their tacit understanding of talking about everything. Their feelings were like a cup of hot water. Boiling water will eventually become cold if you leave it there, but if you use it to keep it warm, it will remain as hot as it should be.
You like to share big and small things, but he is still the same person you have grown up with.
Neither of you has changed, but your needs have changed.
In the past, you hoped that the other person would be the best for you, but later, you always hoped for the best. Make each other the best companion.
Together, you are willing to listen to me talk "nonsense" all the time, and you always love me who talks "nonsense". Life is so simple, ordinary, daily necessities. Sauce!
People who truly love you will always listen to your thoughts and be willing to say them to you.
original text and pictures; the wind is light and the clouds are calm!
