Two people fall in love because their hearts are together, and no matter how hard the storm, they cannot separate. Two people no longer love each other, and no one can tolerate the other, and their hearts will become farther and farther apart.
The times of love are all beautiful, but there are always some relationships that will not last forever and cannot lead to marriage. If people who love each other are in the following states for a long time, they will most likely break up.
1. When chatting, one person is boastful and the other person is indifferent.
Happy lovers are together and wish they could walk a long way hand in hand or chat face to face. Talking nonsense is also happy, and not talking is also beautiful. When two people rely on each other, they hear each other's heartbeat and breathing, look forward to the future together, comprehend life together, and look forward to marriage together.
Unhappy lovers, when they are together, one of them talks a lot, while the other does not care. If a man talks to himself for a long time in order to make a woman happy, but the woman doesn't hear a word clearly and just replies "Oh, ah, okay, um", and the man can definitely feel it, Then shut up. In fact, a nonchalant expression means you are deliberately neglecting the other person, and you are using your expression to tell the other person: "I don't love you anymore."
2. One person sent a WeChat message, but the other person didn't reply for a long time and ignored them.
Two people When chatting on WeChat, one person sends good morning messages every day, but the other person seldom replies in time. Such love makes people sad. Falling in love is a decision made by two people. Wishful love will not last long. If a person takes the initiative for a long time, but does not get a response, he can only leave in despair.
My colleague Huahua fell in love with a Hubei man. Because we are in a long-distance relationship, we rely on WeChat chat most days to maintain our relationship. Huahua often video chats with her boyfriend and hides alone, smiling happily. But recently, Huahua sent WeChat messages to her boyfriend, but she didn't receive a reply for a long time. Huahua asked me: "He always doesn't reply to WeChat. What does this mean?" I said: "It means he already has a new girlfriend and doesn't want to date you." Many colleagues scolded me for "talking nonsense" . Yesterday, Huahua cried and told me: "He has really changed his mind, and WeChat has blocked me."
A person who does not reply to WeChat does not mean that he has not received WeChat messages, nor is he very busy, or that his phone is broken. But I don’t want to reply to you. People who truly love you will take a serious attitude when chatting on WeChat and will never deal with you. Chatting anytime, anywhere, talking about anything, is the way lovers should chat on WeChat.
3. We have been in love for many years, but no one has proposed marriage.
Some people say: "All people who are only in love without getting married are pretending to be in love." Two people who truly love each other are looking forward to marriage and will not refuse to get married. Even if the current economic conditions are not very good, there is always a solution if the two of us work together and discuss with our parents. Many couples get married first and then start a business, sharing weal and woe.
Two people have been in love for many years. If you file for divorce, he will say: "Let's talk about marriage later. I have to work hard to make money. When I get rich, I will buy a big house; when my career develops, I will go to Europe." Have a wedding banquet..." The love that waits and waits, most likely has no result. People's hearts will change and will not stay at a certain stage forever. Many lovers, after being in love for five or six years, finally break up, this is proof.
4. There is a person who has always had one foot in two boats.
Some people say they love you, but they hold hands with other people behind your back. You asked him: "Why do you have to tread two boats with one foot?" He said: "I will repent, I swear." But after he swore, his "old habit relapsed" immediately. You must feel cold for such a person, right? If you still trust his oath, you are probably stupid.
If the person around you is wavering and often changes his or her heart when they are in love, I really recommend that you leave as soon as possible. No matter how much you love him, don't expect him to treat you well all your life. If he keeps trying to do both things, breakup is inevitable.
5. Men are so poor that they don’t want to make progress.
When two people are in love, they need to spend money to be together. If a man has no ability to make money, and he doesn’t even have money to eat, and the woman pays the bill, it is estimated that this kind of love will not last long. Women like hard-working men and promising men, and they will not “raise pretty boys” all their lives. Even if some women really have "beautiful faces", most of them are not because of love, but because of some kind of exchange of interests.
Men can be a little poor, but they can't be so poor that they don't want to make progress. It is not realistic for a man to expect a woman to support his family. Two people who truly love each other will find ways to change the current situation of poverty. Men, in particular, will definitely assume the responsibility of supporting their families and become the "protective umbrella" of love.
6. When giving gifts, I worry about "losing money"
The afternoon before yesterday, reader Xiaozhen sent me a WeChat message: "He invited me to dinner yesterday and gave me a ring." I said, "That's a good thing, he I gave you an expensive gift." Xiaozhen said, "But he repeatedly emphasized that the ring cost more than two thousand yuan, and if we break up, we must return it to him." I said, "This is too much for him." Let's be realistic. I suggest you think carefully about whether you can grow old together with someone who cares about you. "
It's normal to exchange gifts when you're in love. As the saying goes: "The etiquette is light but the affection is heavy." It doesn't matter how much a gift is worth, what's important is that it's thoughtful and deep-felt. If money is used to measure feelings, and the economic value of gifts is clearly calculated and the accounts are recorded, it will be harmful to feelings. When giving gifts, if one or both of you care about each other, it is likely that such a relationship will break up. Also, before breaking up, settle the accounts clearly to avoid being entangled in the future.
7. When two people are separated for a while, they no longer want to see each other.
People who truly love each other will miss each other for sixty seconds after being separated for one minute. If two people have been separated for a few days without missing each other or sending WeChat messages, it is usually because they feel very tired when they are together, so they should take advantage of the time apart to be well.
separate for a period of time. If you don't think about him, you really won't miss him in the future. No interruption, no contact, no matter how good the relationship is, it will slowly fade away. The relationship has faded, you want to contact him less and less, and naturally break up.
If you love, please love deeply. If you don’t love, turn around. Don’t delay anyone’s youth.
