As the saying goes, after a woman gets married, she is an outsider in her husband's family and a guest in her natal family. After getting married, it is difficult for a woman to integrate into a new family.
In this life, if a woman is not careful, she will get herself into trouble. Choosing a lover at will before marriage and letting others dictate your temper after marriage will eventually make women miserable.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have no blood relationship or family relationship. If it weren't for loving the same woman, maybe they wouldn't know each other, let alone live under the same roof.
01. The daughter-in-law has worked hard to support her mother-in-law for 10 years.
After her parents-in-law emptied their family resources to buy a house and a car for their brother-in-law, and they raised two children, their parents-in-law were kicked out of the house by their sister-in-law for being "in the way."
My husband feels sorry for his parents-in-law and believes that he should be obliged to support his parents. So, regardless of Qin Juan's objection, she directly brought her parents-in-law to live at home. When Qin Juan saw that everyone had arrived at the door of her house, she was too embarrassed to push them out anymore, so she had to accept her parents-in-law.
My parents-in-law have lived in Qinjuan’s house for 10 years. During this period, there were very few people who could help Qin Juan. When I was at my brother-in-law's house, my parents-in-law contributed money and effort, working tirelessly and without complaint. But as soon as she arrived at Qin Juan's house, her mother-in-law began to yell about how uncomfortable she was and how uncomfortable she was.
When her mother-in-law yelled a lot, her husband felt very distressed and persuaded Qin Juan to treat his parents well. His parents can do whatever they want. If they don't, Qin Juan has to support them. This is their unshirkable obligation.
For the sake of her husband's face, Qin Juan did not break up with her mother-in-law, but could only take care of her parents-in-law with all her heart. Whenever her parents-in-law had a headache or fever, Qin Juan could only work hard to take care of her, but her sister-in-law only came to the hospital for a visit every time and left gracefully.
Even so, the mother-in-law is always thinking about her brother-in-law and his sister-in-law, praising them for their filial piety. Even in spite of his busy schedule, he did not forget to visit her. Qin Juan was very upset about this, but she couldn't let it go.
02. The house in the name of her mother-in-law was given to her brother-in-law
Qin Juan thought that even though it was due to obligations at the beginning, in the long run, she did her duty with all her heart and did not slack off at all. My parents-in-law should see it and take it to heart.
Until Qin Juan accidentally discovered that her parents-in-law secretly transferred the house in her name to her brother-in-law and tried to hide it from them, Qin Juan almost moved the whole house.
Qin Juan went to her parents-in-law to argue, but her mother-in-law believed that I have the final say in my house and you have no right to interfere. Qin Juan was not convinced and complained to her husband again. In the end, her husband persuaded her to endure it, saying that his parents' house could be given to whomever they liked, and they really had no right to interfere.
Seeing that her parents-in-law and husband had such attitudes, Qin Juan felt angry. But if she had an attack, her parents-in-law and husband would think she was being unreasonable and jealous of her sister-in-law.
Qin Juan did not continue the quarrel, but when her parents-in-law fell ill and were hospitalized the next time, she simply went on strike. Qin Juan directly spoke to the family group, whoever took the house and took advantage of it would go to the hospital to take care of her parents-in-law.
03, Daughter-in-law goes on strike to evict people
No one took Qin Juan's words seriously, they all thought she was speaking out of anger. After all, after all these years, when has Qin Juan stopped complaining and taken care of her parents-in-law obediently? And this time, it is definitely no exception.
But everyone's hope finally came to nothing. One day passed, and two days passed. Qin Juan did not appear in the hospital, and there was not even a call. Her husband called her several times and urged her to go to the hospital for care.
Qin Juan dealt with it perfunctorily, while packing her luggage and taking the child back to her parents' home. My husband had no choice but to hire a nurse to take care of him during the day and go to the hospital to stay with him at night. After a week of struggling like this, my husband couldn't stand it any longer.
But even though her husband begged in a low voice, Qin Juan did not compromise. After her parents-in-law were discharged from the hospital, Qin Juan evicted them directly. The house was her dowry house, and she had no obligation to use her parents' money to support her parents-in-law.
Seeing that Qin Juan couldn't be persuaded, her husband had no choice but to persuade her parents-in-law to stay at her brother-in-law's house temporarily. But the parents-in-law are not willing. Although they always praise the younger son and younger daughter-in-law for their filial piety, they know very well that they can still live freely in the elder daughter-in-law's home.
Qin Juan had no intention of arguing with her parents-in-law. If her parents-in-law were unwilling to leave, she would kick her husband out directly. Since he is so stupid and filial, let's divorce him.
Today’s topic:
Are you willing to support your selfish and partial mother-in-law in her old age?
