One very ordinary day, when I was scrolling through videos, I saw a good friend of mine who had posted a video. The general content was that it was nice to have someone to accompany her. She liked her current life very much, and that girl also had a relationship with her. It was

On a very ordinary day, when I was browsing videos, I saw a good friend of mine who posted a video. The general content was that it was nice to have someone to accompany her. She liked her current life very much, and that girl also had a relationship with her. It was a very warm interaction, and I was like a peeping tom, at a loss. I quickly exited the video and turned to the chat page with her. Suddenly I found that the last time I chatted with her was a long time ago. Looking through the chat history, I found many I was talking all the time, and she just replied to me. The chat history ended when I sent a message and she didn’t reply. I didn’t send it again. We cut off the contact in a tacit understanding, as if everything before had been deleted, like I have never experienced the same thing, and the memory in my mind always reminds me that we walked together but eventually separated. We talked about being each other's bridesmaids and godmothers of our children. It seems like it was just yesterday, but today it is Separated.

I still don’t understand why we got separated. Is distance really a problem? Will our relationship really fade away if we are not by our side? Isn’t a relationship of more than ten years as good as someone you’ve known for more than a year? The answer in my heart was yes, but I was still unwilling to give in. I tentatively sent her a message and chatted for a few words. It was awkward and uncomfortable, as if I was telling an ordinary colleague about the process of forced intimacy in my daily life. At this time, I had no choice but to If you don’t admit it, people will get separated and relationships will change. From then on, we became like friends who stayed in the address book. It will definitely be regretful, but when someone wants to leave When I think about it, this relationship is no longer necessary.

Sometimes I also think about what the meaning of our obsession with a relationship is. Even if some people can come back, it feels impossible to go back to the state they were in at that time. I can't go back either. I can search for friendship online. I discovered a lot of things. There is a saying that goes like this: A friendship lasting more than seven years will last a lifetime. Maybe I would have believed it before, but now my personal experience tells me that there is no forever. But I believe that every stop has its own scenery. If you miss it, feel sad, then move forward, part ways, and still wish you and me each our own merits.

The universe is eternal because it is always changing, so change means no change. There are many standard answers in the world, but the correct answer can only be calculated by yourself. Let yourself relax and don't trap yourself all the time. I'm starting a new life, and I hope you are too.