I don’t know how many times I was warned. It is said that old people cannot remarry, because it is difficult to be happy after remarrying. Don't think that you are an exception. What is most lacking in the world is not such people. The more you think like this, the harder it is t

didn’t know how many times I warned you. It is said that old people cannot remarry, because it is difficult to be happy after remarrying. Don't think that you are an exception. What is most lacking in the world is not such people. The more you think like this, the harder it is to be happy. It's better to live alone. What's wrong with being alone? Do you have to wait until you become a hot potato to know that you can't remarry? By this time it was already too late. Let's take a look at this case together. I hope that this case can attract the attention of all elderly people. The 64-year-old man cried and complained: The old man cannot remarry. Not only is he unhappy, but he also turns me into a hot potato.

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64-year-old Uncle Wu:

No one believes me even if I tell you, I am homeless now. Many people think I am homeless because I have no son. In other words, there are no children. What I want to say is that this is definitely not the case. I have two sons and a daughter. I have everything I need, but I'm still homeless.

Who can you blame for all this? Just blame my own choices for the monster. It was my choice to remarry that led to this. I hope that my case can wake up all the elderly. Although I was a little bored when I lived alone before, I didn't have anything to worry about. Now there is no place to live. Let me tell you about my personal experience.

I chose to remarry Xiao Zhang. Xiao Zhang told me, I think you and I are very compatible, or we should get married again. 1+1 is definitely greater than 1. It will definitely be better for the two of us than alone. You don’t want to live alone, right? You’ve said before that you’re looking for a partner.

Now I am more proactive about this matter. What do you think? If you really don't want to, forget it. I told Xiao Zhang that it wasn’t that I didn’t want to, but that I was afraid that my children would disagree. Let's see what they say about remarriage. I told my son about this. I told them that you are usually very busy at work and it is difficult to come back to see me once, and I am getting older.

I also need someone to take care of me, otherwise I will remarry someone else. That way, you don't have to think about me all the time. I thought my son would agree, but unexpectedly, my son scolded me directly. My son told me that although we are very busy at work, we don't want to talk to you. Why are you bothering you when you are old?

If you continue to behave like this, how will you face your mother in the future? What did you say before? Also, although we were very busy, when did you have something happen, we didn't come back to take care of you. We asked you to go to our place for retirement, did you go? You don’t dislike this or that.

Although I know it’s for our own good that you don’t go to our place, we think you should not remarry. If you are really bored and really need someone to accompany you, you can come to our place and we will take care of you. You are our father and we will be responsible for you. The less they wanted me to remarry, the more I wanted to remarry.

I told them, I am not doing this just for you, okay? Do you think I want to do this? I am already old, what else do I have to worry about? It's just because it's so difficult to see you that I want to lighten your burden. If I get remarried, you won't have so much trouble. Wouldn't it be better for me and others to keep taking care of each other?

My son told me that you think things are too simple. It would be great if things were that simple. To put it nicely, it means taking care of each other. In fact, many of them are exploited. We do not agree with your remarriage. I had a fight with my son just because of this matter. In the end I chose to remarry.

I believe that many old people are like this. If their children don't agree, they insist on remarrying. And then start a fight with them over remarriage. I almost cut ties with my son. My son said, if you insist on remarrying. Then we won't care about you anymore. I didn't choose anything else.

I still choose to remarry. I think I still need companionship when I get older. Living alone is so boring.Just like that, Xiao Zhang and I remarried. In order to be with Xiao Zhang, I gave up everything. I thought I would be happy this way, but what I didn't expect was that I regretted it soon.

After we got together with Xiao Zhang, I have always been taking care of Xiao Zhang. And not long after, Xiao Zhang fell ill. I dare not tell my children this matter. If I told them, they would definitely ask me to give up Xiao Zhang. Although Xiao Zhang is my wife, how can I, a halfway husband, be responsible for this matter? Xiao Zhang spends more than 1,000 yuan every day in the hospital.

I don’t have a pension. All my money was saved by me before, and part of it was given by my son and others. How long can the current expenditure last? It was agreed that we would accompany each other and take care of each other, how could it happen now? Only I take care of Xiao Zhang, only I am responsible for Xiao Zhang. No one wants these things, but I have to face them.

Xiao Zhang’s expenses in the hospital are increasing. My money was slowly being spent. what do I do? Ask your child for money? I went to my son's house that day. I didn't directly ask them for money. I hinted at them. I don’t know if they really don’t understand or what, but they are unwilling to give me money anyway.

When I went back, I secretly took away their 20,000 yuan. But I have made it clear to them on WeChat. My behavior can be regarded as killing first and then reporting later. I really have no choice, I have no money. As soon as I arrived at the hospital, the doctor informed me to pay the surgery fee. He said that Xiao Zhang's condition suddenly became serious and that I was his husband and must be responsible for him. He asked me to sign and sign for the operation.

paid more than 50,000 yuan for surgery. I had no money, but more than 20,000 of them were still borrowed. Of the more than 50,000 yuan, 20,000 yuan was for my son, and I borrowed more than 20,000 yuan to send it, and finally I took out a few thousand yuan. What happens after the operation is endless? Where will the money come from?

I also want to give up on Xiao Zhang. I regret remarrying Xiao Zhang. If I had not remarried, so many things would not happen now. No one can avoid this. Who can control birth, old age, sickness and death? All we can do is avoid it as much as possible. There is only one way to fundamentally solve the problem, and that is not to remarry.

As long as you remarry. Sooner or later in the future, you will encounter these things. Either you will be sick and hospitalized, or he will be sick and hospitalized. Everyone will be like this in the end. But I was more unlucky. Xiao Zhang fell ill not long after we got together. It’s me who suffers from this illness, and I’m the one who wastes money.

It makes me miserable to face this matter. Why don’t I help? Still helping, now that I have no money, I still borrowed money. What to do next? Xiao Zhang’s son told me, you are with our mother. Then you should be responsible for our mother. If you have no money, you can ask me for it. If you are really desperate, we will help.

For now, just pay it forward temporarily. You will definitely have a solution, right? They want me to sell my old house. Look at Xiao Zhang like this. I relented and agreed to sell the old house. Sold the house for more than 200,000. At the beginning, I naively thought that the 200,000 yuan was enough.

I used to think that more than 200,000 was a lot. Now I know that more than 200,000 yuan is of no use. The hospital can help you spend more than 200,000 yuan in a few days. He also paid tens of thousands of yuan to others. Then I paid tens of thousands more to the hospital. It has only been a few days, and I have only made a few tens of thousands of yuan from more than 200,000 yuan.

How long can these tens of thousands of dollars last? My son also made a fuss with me because they knew about the money. I didn't dare to answer the phone or tell them. What can I do? The reason they didn't agree to my remarriage was because I didn't want to remarry. The hospital notified me to pay again.

The hospital is really expensive here. I feel that for the hospital, money is not money at all. To them, money is just flowing water. Suddenly, the money is gone. The hospital asked me to prepare a surgical fee of 100,000 yuan. We even need to prepare 500,000 yuan of bone marrow... Where can I have so much money? In the end I had no choice.

cried and told my son about this. Even if I told my second sister, it would be useless, they don’t have that much money to help. They didn't say anything after my son found out, they just comforted me. They are helpless in the face of this matter. Where can they have money? This is a matter of hundreds of thousands. Don't mention bone marrow replacement. Even the 100,000 yuan is gone.

Because I killed him first and then reported it later, I took 100,000 yuan from my son. Other children were afraid to let me go home. They thought I would take their money. I asked them to help. They didn't refuse, but they refused to pay. Maybe, to them, this person is my wife, who has nothing to do with them at all. Xiao Zhang did not give birth to them.

didn't raise them either. Xiao Zhang has made no contribution to the family. Forget it if you don’t contribute anything. He also made this family pay so much for him. Now I am in a dilemma. My old house is gone and my savings are gone. Where should I go? I can't just watch Xiao Zhang. Then I went to my daughter's place to get the money. I lied to my son-in-law.

I told my son-in-law that I had something to do. I asked me if you need 50,000 yuan. My son-in-law is very kind to me. Then I got 50,000 yuan by fraud. I didn't dare to tell them. If I really told them about this matter, they wouldn't pay me. After I deceived my son-in-law, I went to find Xiao Zhang’s child.

I was kicked out by Xiao Zhang’s children. The hospital kept asking for money. I can't breathe due to the lack of money. I took all the money I could get. People at the hospital said that if there was no money, the surgery would be terminated or postponed indefinitely. It collapsed all of a sudden. I don't know what to do either.

Originally, I thought I could still save Xiao Zhang. So much money was spent. I spent more than half a year in the hospital. No one was saved. The money is gone too. After Xiao Zhang passed away, I went to Xiao Zhang’s children to ask for money. After all, these are Xiao Zhang's children. I have paid so much for Xiao Zhang, they must pay me back some of it.

But Xiao Zhang’s children not only refused to give me money, but also drove me away. What you say has nothing to do with me. I voluntarily paid money to his mother, and I voluntarily became his mother. Some even said that his mother was like this because of me... They just drove me away, and even my biological children didn't care about me.

I owe a lot of money, and those relatives came to find my children, asking for money. Moreover, I deceived my son-in-law and took their money without authorization. Now I can't please anyone and I can't go anywhere. I became their hot potato. I want money now but I don’t have any. I want a room but I don’t have a room. Old and miserable...I can't do anything, I was wrong.

I really shouldn’t remarry. If I hadn’t remarried, this wouldn’t have happened. It's useless to say anything now. The old man must pay attention. Don't let such a tragedy happen. If you can, try not to remarry. It's fine to live alone. Why should you remarry? Don't think about remarriage being so beautiful and naive.

Conclusion:

If I had known this, why did I do it in the first place? In order to avoid these things from happening, we can only solve the problem fundamentally, that is, the elderly should not remarry. If they do not remarry, they will not encounter this kind of thing. If they do not encounter this kind of thing, this ending will not happen. If you remarry, you are very likely to encounter something like this.

Therefore, old people should not remarry. It is good to live alone. One person has enough to eat and the whole family is not hungry. More importantly, he will not harm himself or his children because of this matter. If you remarry, then what? Things can happen.

Just like the tragedy in the article, this old man is indeed very pitiful and helpless when faced with such a thing, but so what? Would this have happened if the old man hadn't chosen to remarry? Now it becomes a hot potato.Who can blame it? If he had a house and money, would his son not care about him? If he had not remarried, would his son have left him alone?

Would he lose it all if he didn't care? Don't blame Xiao Zhang's son for being cruel. It was like this many years ago. I remember my mother was with someone else, and then her mother passed away. Do you think those children would still care about their mother's partner? Therefore, old people really cannot remarry, unless you want to become a hot potato.