Beautiful love is hard to come by, and everyone longs to meet the right person. It is undoubtedly happiness to be able to hold hands with the person you like and grow old with your child, but marriage is not a child's play, and there are not so many romances and romances. Romanti

Beautiful love is hard to come by, and everyone longs to meet the right person. It is undoubtedly happiness to be able to hold hands with the person you like and grow old with your child, but marriage is not a child's play, and there are not so many romances. And romantic passion, some are just a boring and bitter life. If you meet someone who is not kind, you will only be miserable after marriage.

Therefore, if you want to get married, you must be cautious and don’t love too blindly. You must not only check whether the other person is sincere, but also the personality and family tradition of the other person. Otherwise, you will ignore the inner part and only talk about the immediate love but not the other person. Without a deep understanding, you will end up paying your sincerity by mistake.

Wang Lin is a lover, advocating the supremacy of love and the freedom of marriage. For her, marriage can only be happy when she meets someone she likes. Therefore, before she got married, both her parents and best friends advised her to marry again. When she thought about it carefully, she ignored it at all. She felt that if she married love, she would be able to fight with him and overcome all the difficulties in life.

However, there is always a gap between ideals and reality, especially since Wang Lin's husband is still a Phoenix man. After getting married, she found that her husband's thoughts were all on his family of origin, and his kindness to her was limited to when the two of them were alone. Once his family members get involved, he will be selective and partial, only knowing how to be more tolerant without caring about his own feelings.

Every time a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law breaks out, the husband will always look at the problem from the mother-in-law's perspective, and always ask himself to apologize afterwards; no matter what happens at home or any decision needs to be made, he has never participated and is always the last one. You know; when it comes to children, Wang Lin pays more attention to scientific parenting, but her mother-in-law always goes her own way. Such days have lasted for five years. Wang Lin has long been tortured physically and mentally by conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and marital problems, but she still Nothing can be done.

Until later, when her mother-in-law asked for her salary again, she decided to divorce. In the days to come, she felt much more relaxed and at ease. She no longer had to be forced to do housework, and she no longer had to hear all kinds of nagging. She has her own job, her own social circle, and her life is getting better and better. On the other hand, her husband is much more decadent.

After the divorce, the husband realized how difficult it was to take care of a family. He remembered that when his ex-wife was here, he didn’t have to cook the meals, do the housework, and worry about the children. But after the ex-wife left, the family All the trivial matters fell on him. Over time, he only ordered takeout for meals and was too lazy to wash his clothes. The house was a mess and he relied on his mother to occasionally come over to help him clean it up. In the end, he regretted it. He longed to remarry and missed the days when his wife was at home.

So he went to Wang Lin and sincerely proposed that he wanted a divorce. Wang Lin did not refuse, but still made three demands.

The first thing is not to live with the parents-in-law, lest the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law intensify and affect the relationship between husband and wife.

Secondly, she got married without asking for a betrothal gift. Now she wants to go back on her own. The betrothal gift is 200,000 yuan, otherwise there is no need to discuss it.

The third is to share housework, discuss it when something happens, and limit it to one year first, and then consider remarriage if you can do it.

After hearing what Wang Lin said, her husband immediately agreed without saying a word, and said that he would use time and actions to prove himself. In fact, Wang Lin did not really want a divorce at the beginning. She still had feelings for her husband, but Her marriage failed because of her mother-in-law's interference, and because her child was still young, she didn't want her child to lose his father's love in his life, so she chose to compromise.

Love either never begins or lasts a lifetime. It is undoubtedly lucky to meet someone who likes each other. However, getting married is not a relationship. There is not so much freedom and romance. There are more trivial matters and pressures that need to be borne. To shoulder the responsibilities, both husband and wife need to work together and support each other to make their relationship last forever.

A woman has chosen you and entrusted the rest of her life to you. As a man, he naturally needs to give his wife a sense of security, stand up when she is wronged, and rely on her when she is sad, instead of letting her mother do it. He is the master of the family, but he has no opinion of his own. He blindly chooses to avoid and take sides, leaving all the problems to his wife to solve. Once her heart is broken, it will be too late to restore it. #marriage##emotion##emotion office#