Chen Jingxiang is 20 years old and Qiu Daochun is 30 years old. They are ten years apart in age. Their parents are very optimistic about this marriage. They are talented and beautiful, and they are a match made in heaven.
After knowing each other for half a year, their parents decided to hold a wedding for them. On the eighth day of the twelfth lunar month in 2007, with the blessings of relatives and friends, the two got married.
After Chen Jingxiang came to the Qiu family, they lived with her mother-in-law and father-in-law. She followed her mother-in-law to grow vegetables at home, while Qiu Daochun followed her father to work in a nearby factory.
Such a life makes Chen Jingxiang feel happy. After all, she is young and her husband Qiu Daochun loves her very much. In the process of doting on her, her husband hopes that Chen Jingxiang will give him a son and a half.
Chen Jingxiang lived a good life in the Qiu family. Her husband's family lived in the same village, and the distance between the two families was only a few kilometers. Even though there were phones Nokia at that time, Chen Jingxiang also liked to come to her parents' house to help with things.
In the blink of an eye, they had been married for more than a year. Her mother-in-law saw that Chen Jingxiangâs stomach had not moved yet, and wondered if there was something wrong with Chen Jingxiangâs health?
Two young people have not had children for a long time. As parents, they are also very worried. The mother-in-law is so worried that she cannot sleep well every day. As a mother-in-law, she is too embarrassed to ask Chen Jingxiang what is going on?
So she looked for Chen Jingxiang's mother, hoping to get news from her in-laws. If Chen Jingxiang had physical problems, they would be discovered early, treated early, and give birth to a child for the Qiu family early.
saw that the eldest son's family had a son and a daughter, and the second son's family had a son and a daughter. Qiu Daochun was their beloved son, and they couldn't accept it if they didn't have children.
Chen Jingxiang's mother heard her in-laws say this and was very puzzled in her heart. They had been married for more than a year, why didn't they have any children?
She completely disagreed with her in-laws' suggestion. The two young men had not given birth to children, and the in-laws' mother blamed all the problems on her daughter. Didn't she think that her son had a problem?
The two people had a dispute over this matter because of their different opinions. Chen Jingxiang's mother said to her biological mother: "If you want to solve the problem, you must let the two young people go to a professional hospital for examination. No matter which one has the problem, What's the problem? Treat it as soon as possible."
Qiu Daochun's mother was very angry. There will be no problem with her son. It must be Chen Jingxiangxin. She vowed : "There will definitely be no problem with Qiu Daochun. I can guarantee this. When will you take him? Chen Jingxiang went out to check. You are her mother. Be nice to her..."
Chen Jingxiang's mother felt that it was hard to raise her daughter. She originally wanted to find a reasonable in-law for her, but she didn't expect to be burdened with such a thing for no reason. I feel wronged by my daughter. Isnât her life good in her husbandâs family?
Every time after returning home, Chen Jingxiang did not describe the bad life in her husband's family. Chen Jingxiang's mother called her daughter home: "You have been married for almost two years, why don't you have any children?"
Chen Jingxiang just smiled and said : "We don't know either. We have been married for almost two years. Even if we are not pregnant, I am helpless."
Mom was even more anxious after hearing this : "You take time to call Qiu Daochun, I will take you Go check it out and prescribe the right medicine. I hope you can have a child in the Qiu family as soon as possible and live without having to look at his mother's face."
Chen Jingxiang went home and wanted to discuss it with Qiu Daochun. : "We have been married for two years and we have no children. "Child, the parents of both parties asked us to check. You arrange your work."
Qiu Daochun was stunned. : "You go and check. I won't do it. It's my fault that you haven't gotten pregnant yet."
Chen Jingxiang was helpless. : "I'll check it by myself. If there is no problem with me, please don't publicize it everywhere, saying that I am an old hen that can't lay eggs..."
The two of them agreed to ask their parents for their opinions and go get it checked.
At 7:30 the next morning, her mother came to Chen Jingxiangâs home carrying a backpack, and the three of them took a car to County Hospital Obstetrics and Gynecology for an examination.
Chen Jingxiang checked alone, Qiu Daochun did not check, and the check results came out, Chen Jingxiang had no problem, in order to help them have their own children as soon as possible.
After they consulted the doctor, the doctor specially prescribed Chinese medicine to condition Chen Jingxiang's body and help her get pregnant as soon as possible and give birth to her baby.
Because Chen Jingxiang has no problem, her mother is not afraid of Qiu Daochun's mother's verbal stimulation, at least her daughter is healthy.
Chen Jingxiang drinks traditional Chinese medicine on time every day to regulate her body. After half a year of drinking, there is still no movement in her stomach, so her mother takes her to a larger hospital for examination.
took her to Liupanshui Maternal and Child Health Hospital. The examination results were the same as last time. The doctor laughed at them and thought they were crazy.: "She is so healthy and has nothing wrong with her. How can she not be pregnant? Unless there is a The problem, is there something wrong with the man?"
Qiu Daochun, who was standing nearby, looked at everyone awkwardly. Chen Jingxiang had no problem, could it be him? Besides, the Qiu family does not have such genetic gene .
Chen Jingxiangâs mother was not embarrassed to say anything. At this time, the doctor smiled and said : "Now that you are here, let your husband check it out. This is a disease. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. A check-up will help you prescribe the right medicine." Treatment."
This topic seemed to stimulate Qiu Daochun's brain, and he immediately said: "What do you know? There is no such genetic problem in our family. It must be that you didn't check my wife clearly."
The doctor just suggested that he go. Do a thorough check-up, and if they want to have children, they must know what the problem is.
This time I came to Liupanshui for an examination, but it was a bittersweet separation. Qiu Daochun felt that it was a shame that he could not have children, and he could not hold his head high in the family.
was very indifferent to Chen Jingxiang when he returned home. Thinking about not being able to have a baby, he couldn't sleep well all night long. Anyway? There was no way he was going to check.
Because Qiu Daochun was unwilling to cooperate with the doctor's examination and did not know who the problem was, things continued to drag on like this. In the blink of an eye, they had been married for five years.
Both parents were very anxious. Chen Jingxiang's mother felt that her daughter was already 25 years old. If she didn't have children, life would be difficult for the Qiu family.
Qiu Daochun's mother still insisted that there was nothing wrong with her son. The two parents had argued many times.
On this day, Qiu Daochun's mother took the initiative to find her son. She saw that her son was already 35 years old. If he didn't have children, he would be too old to help them raise children.
As a mother, it feels awkward to ask her son such a topic personally.: "You have been married for five years. Since Chen Jingxiang has no problem, you should go and check it secretly. You have not given birth to a child. The relatives and friends around you My friends are also asking me what the reason is? After all, you are not young anymore.â
At the urging of his mother, Qiu Daochun secretly came to Liupanshui for a checkup, and the results were more serious than he imagined.
The doctor told Qiu Daochun that the activity of his sperm was very low and most of it was dead sperm. It was impossible to have a child.
Qiu Daochun got the test results and sat slumped in the chair. Did he really have no children in his life?
A man came home by car with the test results tremblingly. He was afraid that Chen Jingxiang would leave him if he knew that she was infertile.
He secretly hid the test results under his bed. As long as he didn't mention it, no one would know the information he had returned.
Secretly went to the hospital to prescribe a lot of traditional Chinese medicine. Chen Jingxiang saw her husband secretly taking medicine and asked him curiously : "What kind of medicine are you taking?"
Qiu Daochun felt that his wife was a bit insulting to his self-esteem by asking him about taking medicine. Slap Chen Jingxiang with his hand : "What medicine do I take, what does it have to do with you? If you have something to do, go get busy, if you have nothing to do, go to sleep."
Chen Jingxiang covered her burning face and cried. After reacting, she kicked Qiu Daochun in the leg.: "Let me ask you, what's wrong? He actually hit me..."
The couple quarreled because of this. Qiu Daochun felt that he accidentally hit his young wife Chen Jingxiang. He felt very sorry and his tone became much softer.: "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I didn't mean it. Can you please forgive me? ? "
The couple had this quarrel, which planted a seed in their hearts. Soon after, when Chen Jingxiang was cleaning, she found Qiu Daochun's test results under the bed.
Because Chen Jingxiang was in the third grade of elementary school , she still knew some of the words. After seeing the test results above, she finally understood the reason why her husband Qiu Daochun drank traditional Chinese medicine.
carefully took the test results to her parents' home to show to her parents. She had been blamed for the past five years and found out that her husband had been wronged. After the test results, she felt much relieved.
Soon, the news that Qiu Daochun could not have children spread to everyone in the village. Everyone was talking about her and blamed Chen Jingxiang for not being able to have children.
The child, their upbringing is really bad. It is their own son's fault, and they blame other people's daughters.
The parents learned from others that their son was infertile, and they were very angry. As parents, they didn't know. How did others know?
After being pressed by his parents, Qiu Daochun could only tell them the truth. For the first time, a grown man collapsed on the ground and cried: "Mom and Dad, I may not be able to fulfill your dream of having a grandson. It was true what they said, I really was sterile. "
Of course the mother and father could not accept this fact. The atmosphere was very tense when they sat down. The mother shed tears of helplessness.: "We will go to see a doctor and go to Guiyang to find a better expert. Then you will have your own children.
Qiu Daochun shook his head : "Mom and Dad, the problem is not as simple as you think. Although I can't continue the incense in the family, the eldest brother's family has the second brother's family. This matter has become known to everyone. From now on, you will be in the family How do you keep your head up and behave like a human being? "
Chen Jingxiang knew that after her husband's affair was exposed, it had a great impact on his mood. She began to care about her husband's psychological burden and prepared to take her husband to Guiyang for a good checkup.
If there is no way to conceive and have a baby naturally, you can also do test tube Baby gave birth to a baby, but they could not afford the high cost.
Qiu Daochun thought that Chen Jingxiang had followed him for five years. Although he was infertile, Chen Jingxiang was young and could not suffer with him.
Don't want to have a lovely baby? In the future, he will have children and grandchildren, and he will be very tormented in his heart.
After knowing this, he took the initiative to find Chen Jingxiang and asked the two to dissolve their marriage. He did not want to drag Chen Jingxiang down. Chen Jingxiang was very puzzled: "You What to say? Divorce, forget it if I don't dislike you, what qualifications do you have to dislike me? Baby, we will have it in the future, as long as you cooperate with the doctor's treatment. â
Qiu Daochunâs attitude was very firm : âI must divorce this marriage. I will go out to work and never come back. I will divorce it tomorrow and live my own life.â "
As soon as he finished speaking, he put all Chen Jingxiang's clothes in a plastic bag and threw it out. He drove Chen Jingxiang out of the house and did not allow Chen Jingxiang to step into the house.
Qiu Daochun's mother heard the two young men There was a quarrel at home, and when he came out he saw his daughter-in-law Chen Jingxiang crying at the door.
ran over and helped her up. After asking about the whole story, he knocked on the door. Qiu Daochun inside didn't speak at all.
Qiu Daochun's mother yelled : "Qiu Daochun, get out of here. You kicked Chen Jingxiang out of the house. Are you being too bullying? Wait a minute, her parents are coming. How are you going to solve the problem?"
Qiu Daochun at home is still very heartless : "I want to divorce her, tell her to go home, take her household registration book with her, and go get the divorce tomorrow. Don't stay in our house shamelessly. We have been married for five years. "I can't even give birth to a child, and I will lose face if I tell you."
Chen Jingxiang is extremely wronged. It is obvious that there is something wrong with him, but he lies with his eyes open, confuses right and wrong, and claims that he cannot have a child. child.
Neighbors around also came to his house to watch the fun. Soon Chen Jingxiang's parents came to the door of Qiu Daochun's house. They heard Qiu Daochun scolding their daughter at home. They felt really bad about their mistakes over the years.
The mother angrily took Chen Jingxiang home and strongly supported Qiu Daochun's dissolution of the marriage with her daughter.: "He is so old. If you don't despise him, just forget it. You also said those unconscionable things. You said Can such a person be relied on? Divorce her earlier, find a good husband's family, have a child and live her own life. "
Chen Jingxiang thought about living in the Qiu family for five years. Although her mother-in-law had objections to her, Qiu Daochun. She loves herself very much and really feels very happy to be Qiu Daochun's wife.
After six o'clock the next morning, Qiu Daochun came to the door of Chen Jingxiang's house with panda eyes and shouted : "Chen Jingxiang, Chen Jingxiang, come out quickly. It was agreed yesterday that we are going to get a divorce." Certificate , quickly bring your household registration book and come out with me to get the divorce certificate. "
Chen Jingxiang's mother was very happy when she heard that her family didn't ask him for a divorce, but he was very diligent and ran to the house to take her daughter out of bed. Pull her up and urge her to freshen up and get ready .
pulled Chen Jingxiang out, and they walked to the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau. Chen Jingxiang looked pitiful : "Qiu Daochun, have you really decided to give up our five-year relationship? You will definitely regret it."
Qiu Daochun looked strong He looked like he was about to shed tears. : "You can't even have a child, do you think I will regret it? Stop talking nonsense and get the divorce certificate first."
said in a cold tone as he walked into the Civil Affairs Bureau. The staff asked them why they needed to apply for a divorce certificate? Qiu Daochun said confidently : "My wife and I have been married for five years and can't have a child. We are going to divorce and we can't reach an agreement on personality communication. It's so painful for me to live like this."
Chen Jingxiang is even more angry There was a big gap between the two people's speech. The staff asked them to go home and discuss it before getting divorced.
Qiu Daochun's attitude was very firm and he had to apply for a divorce certificate. Chen Jingxiang's mother seized the opportunity to persuade her daughter to apply for a divorce certificate as soon as possible.
Five years ago The marriage relationship is over! The two of them applied for the divorce certificate, and Qiu Daochun returned home without looking back.
On the third day, she simply packed her luggage and went to work in Guangdong. Her kind act was not praised by Chen Jingxiang's parents, but instead provoked abuse from the neighbors. Everyone said that he was a white-eyed wolf.
Chen Jingxiang lived in her natal family for a while. At the end of the year, her cousin returned home to celebrate the New Year. Under the persuasion of her family, she followed her cousin to work in Zhejiang.
met a young man from Anhui while working. He didn't mind that she was a divorced woman, and the two of them got together like this.
In 2014, Chen Jingxiang and her boyfriend became a legal couple. They held a wedding in her boyfriend's hometown in Anhui, and the two of them wandered outside.
Shortly after her marriage, Chen Jingxiang became pregnant and gave birth to a son. Her mother took her aunts and aunts from the family to Anhui to visit Chen Jingxiang.
Later, the two of them worked in Zhejiang to save some money. With the help of their parents, Chen Jingxiang and her husband chose to become a small foreman
In 2017, they gave birth to their second child, also a boy. Chen Jingxiangâs mother again Once I went to Anhui to visit my daughter.
Qiu Daochun's mother learned that Chen Jingxiang remarried and gave birth to two sons. She always felt a little sad in her heart. She once imagined that if her son could have children,
Chen Jingxiang's two children might be her eldest grandsons. But Qiu Daochun has no ability to fulfill such a dream like hers in this life.
Qiu Daochun has never returned home since he went out to work. Relatives and friends in the family thought he was outside and could not bear to die outside.
There is no news, and his family does not have any information about him. In 2021, the countries visited by the epidemic announced vaccination.
His brother used family information to connect to the Internet and found out where Qiu Daochun got vaccinated in Guangdong. After getting this information, the eldest brother and the second brother went to Guangdong to find Qiu Daochun.
The eldest brother and the second brother took Qiu Daochun home to meet his parents. They wanted to know where he had been wandering all these years?
Especially when he knew that Chen Jingxiang had remarried and gave birth to two sons. Although he could not have his own children in this life, seeing Chen Jingxiang be happy was the greatest comfort to him.
Summary: Qiu Daochunâs approach is unacceptable to most people. Since he is unable to have children, he should not drag down Chen Jingxiang.
There is a kind of love that does not mean happiness by having you. There is a kind of love called letting go. Fulfilling your happiness is his "love" for you.
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