"The college entrance examination for our children is over, let's get a divorce!"
After the college entrance examination, many couples who endured and barely maintained their marriages for the sake of their children received a notice from their partner, "The college entrance examination for their children is over, let's get a divorce!" Why?
College entrance examination season, graduation season, and divorce season
In fact, June to July every year is not only college entrance examination season, graduation season, but also divorce season. Because every year after the college entrance examination, many couples who have managed to stay married for more than ten years for the sake of their children will feel that their children have gone to college and their tasks as parents have been completed, and it is time to "divorce".
She forbears marriage mainly so as not to affect her children’s college entrance examinations
A woman who just sent a divorce notice to her partner said: “If it weren’t for the sake of my children, in order not to affect my children’s college entrance examinations, I would definitely not have lived with him for so many years. He is She is irresponsible and has many bad habits. She always takes it out on her wife and children, which is really unbearable.”
Another man who sent a divorce notice to his partner said: “She is really a person. She is very stingy and cares about everything. I have to look at her face when I get home after a long day. But for the sake of my children and not to affect their college entrance examination, I endure it. My task is completed, and it is time to "divorce" her. "
Netizens view this as forbearing marriage for the sake of their children
Netizens have relatively unified views on forbearing marriage for the sake of their children's college entrance examination. Because most netizens believe that it is not worth it to withhold marriage for the sake of children.
Firstly, it is because reluctantly maintaining a marriage for the sake of children and maintaining a pseudo-intimate relationship for a long time is first of all disrespectful to oneself.
The second reason is that reluctantly maintaining a marriage for the sake of children and acting in front of children for a long time will, to some extent, cause more harm to the children.
Will forbearing marriage for the sake of children really cause more harm to children?
It is said that children living in single-parent families are very pitiful because they can only get the love of one parent. In fact, children living in fake marriages are even more pitiful, because not only do they not get the love of either parent, but they are also disturbed by their parents' emotions. The resulting sense of inferiority , sense of worthlessness, and denial of oneself will all prompt children to form an unhealthy character.
A woman who is very afraid of marriage said that she is afraid of marriage mainly because of her fear of marriage, and the reason for her fear of marriage comes from her childhood memories. "When I was a child, my parents always quarreled. When they quarreled, the house would be filled with the smell of gunpowder. And I was so scared that I would hide in one place and dare not move. So now whenever I think about getting married, I It reminds me of how scared I was when I was a child, and I don’t dare to think about getting married anymore.”
It can be seen from this that if a pseudo-sex marriage is tolerated for the sake of children, it is as explosive as the parents of the lady above. It will cause more harm to the child. If a fake marriage is tolerated for the sake of children, but both husband and wife can tolerate each other's shortcomings, then why divorce? Do you think so?
Regarding who barely maintains his marriage for the sake of his children, which one will have a greater impact on the children, pretending to be in love or getting divorced? What do you think? Welcome to leave a message for discussion!
