Today, fewer and fewer people are getting married, and fewer and fewer people are having children. Why are there so many singles? Nowadays, many people would rather be single than get married and have children. I think there are five main reasons. The first is that there are too many people living together outside of marriage. Nowadays, the phenomenon of people living together in love and having extramarital affairs is very serious. Many people can live a married life without getting married. These people have very low desire to get married.
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The second is that it is difficult to find a stable and good job. Many people can only do odd jobs or work in private companies. Such income is very unstable and cannot support the burden of a family at all, so many people just You can choose to be single and not get married. The third is that houses are relatively expensive nowadays, because many people do not have stable and good jobs, so their income is not high. Naturally, they cannot afford to buy a house. It is naturally inconvenient for people who do not own a house to get married and have children.
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The fourth is that it is difficult to raise a child. You need milk powder and wet diapers when you are born, and then you have to go to kindergarten and elementary school, and then go to junior high school, high school and college. From the time a child is born to the time he or she gets married, he either has to pay school fees or buy a house or a car, and he even has to help take care of the child after he gets married. Along the way, the expenses are too great. Many people cannot afford this expense, so they are unwilling to get married and have children. The fifth is that it is not easy to see a doctor. Many people don’t want to go to the hospital for minor illnesses. They can just endure it for a few days and get better. I don't dare go to the hospital for serious illness because I really don't have the money to pay. If it’s so difficult to see a doctor, how can you get married and have children?
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I think these five problems are the main reasons, and the others are secondary reasons. Without these five reasons, I think the marriage rate would not be as low as it is now, and the number of newborns would not be fewer every year. If you can't live together before marriage and can't cheat after marriage, everyone has a stable and ideal job, everyone has his own house, the cost of children's education is very low, and everyone can afford medical treatment when they are sick, will everyone still be unwilling to get married or have children? ?
