Introduction In married life, both men and women should try their best to run it well. Marriage needs to be maintained by both husband and wife. When two people have conflicts, they should sit down and communicate calmly instead of intensifying the conflicts. In this way, The res

Introduction

In marriage, both men and women should try their best to run it well. Marriage requires both husband and wife to maintain it together. When two people have conflicts, they should sit down and communicate calmly instead of intensifying the conflicts. The result of doing so will only go to the other extreme.

His 42-year-old wife cheated on her twice, and her husband was very angry when he brought his family to find her.

Lao Li is 55 years old this year, and his wife is 13 years younger than him. After his ex-wife passed away, Lao Li met his current wife, Xiao Zhang, through a matchmaker, and they got married. In just two years, his wife Xiao Zhang went on two late-night dates with others. Once, her husband and his family were caught red-handed, and they got into a fight, triggering a family crisis. Why did Xiao Zhang do this? , what unknown stories are hidden in it?

Xiao Zhang and Lao Li had an unfortunate marriage before they got married. Because her husband often abused Xiao Zhang, she couldn't bear it anymore. Xiao Zhang divorced her husband. After the divorce, Xiao Zhang lived alone for a while.

Women always have to find someone to rely on. Later, Xiao Zhang met Lao Li through someone else’s introduction. Although Lao Li was older than Xiao Zhang, his two children were already married and there was no financial burden. Moreover, Lao Wang’s family still had There were several shops and the conditions at home were very good. Xiao Zhang thought about it again and again and decided to marry Lao Li.

However, after getting married, Xiao Zhang discovered that Lao Li’s family had been guarding him because Xiao Zhang had no financial resources. Every time he spent money, he had to ask Lao Li for help. Lao Li’s two children did not take her as his own. The stepmother took it seriously, and Lao Li was quite energetic, which made Xiao Zhang feel a little bored.

Over time, Xiao Zhang's heart gradually became unbalanced, and he found that he thought about marriage too simply. No one could tell Xiao Zhang's worries, so Xiao Zhang could only find others to talk to about his depression.

The person Xiao Zhang confided in was her former colleague Xiao Jun. Xiao Jun, like her, also had a failed marriage. The two of them chatted very well. Faced with Xiao Jun’s comfort and encouragement, Xiao Zhang felt that Xiao Jun Men like Jun are the ones you can rely on.

What Lao Li didn’t expect was that his wife, Xiao Zhang, would often wait for the family to fall asleep, then secretly go out in the middle of the night and come back early in the morning. Xiao Zhang’s unusual behavior quickly attracted Lao Li’s attention. , Lao Li felt that his wife Xiao Zhang was "sleepwalking", but later Lao Li discovered that things were not as simple as he imagined.

Once Xiao Zhang went out for a day and did not come back. Lao Li and his family searched the streets. Later, they found the whereabouts of his wife Xiao Zhang through surveillance. When Lao Li and his family found his wife Xiao Zhang, they found Xiao Zhang and Xiao Jun. Together, Xiao Zhang's son got angry and beat Xiao Zhang and Xiao Jun.

Xiaojun said that he really liked Xiao Zhang. After the incident, Xiao Zhang asked for a divorce from Lao Li, but Lao Li did not agree. Lao Li said that he could forgive Xiao Zhang, but divorce was impossible. Lao Li's The son also kowtowed to Xiao Zhang and admitted his mistake, but Xiao Zhang finally divorced Lao Li and married Xiao Jun.

editor's personal opinion

Xiao Zhang's approach is undoubtedly wrong, and I sympathize with Xiao Zhang's experience. In fact, a woman like Xiao Zhang just wants to find someone to live a stable life, and Lao Li obviously can't do it. This is a tragedy for two people from the beginning. After all, the age difference between the two is too big. Of course, a good marriage requires a certain material foundation, but the most important thing is that two people can understand and tolerate each other and be honest with each other. Only The best married life is when you feel happy.