Tu Lei teacher once said:
"Don't be too kind-hearted, and don't think about others in everything, because some people won't think about your feelings, your difficulties, your difficulties, or even a warm word. No, they will take everything for granted. "
As the saying goes: When the water is full, it overflows, and when the moon is full, it loses.
Don’t love someone too much. Love your lover 70%, and keep the remaining 30% for yourself.
Gao Xiaosong once said something:
"What is a good relationship?
allows us to become better versions of ourselves. This is the most important thing. That is a good relationship, whether it is a relationship or a lifetime.
Young When you are young, you feel that love is more important than life. When you get older, you will feel that life is more important. "
No one can rely on anyone to say a person's life, let alone be settled once and for all. The same is true for relationships and marriage.
Therefore, no matter what the conditions, you cannot break your wings.
Even if you need it temporarily, you have to recharge your batteries to ensure that you can spread your wings and fly again at any time.
Just like Lu Xun wrote in " Sad Death ": Love must always be updated, grown and created.
Zhang Ailing said: "Emotions can withstand wind and rain, but they cannot withstand plainness."
In real life, men and women also have very different views on love or marriage.
Men want to continue to feel fresh, but women only want their relationships to stay fresh, so men often cheat on them and constantly seek freshness through other means.
may not know: The novelty is actually trying to do different things with the same person, rather than trying to do the same thing with different people.
I think: In marriage, women should learn to protect themselves, while men should take care of their "legs".
Life is not long, if you love, please love deeply, if you abandon, please love completely.
Don't do hurtful things while enjoying other people's love.
