Nowadays, some young women are keen to buy a house of their own before getting married, which is called pre-marital house . This has many disadvantages, which not only increases their burden, but even hurts their family relationships.
After graduating from university, Deng Rong, a woman, worked in a company with a relatively high monthly salary. She lived alone and did not have much expenses. She was able to save a lot of money every month. She thought that the interest rate of depositing money in banks was low, so it was better to buy a house. So, she paid a down payment and bought a house of her own.
Before buying a house, Deng Rong did not feel that his daily life was easy and comfortable. After buying a house, Deng Rong felt that there was pressure on him. He had to pay the mortgage on time every month, and he did not dare to buy high-end cosmetics or fashion products. clothes. In short, you should plan your life every month and don't dare to spend money casually.
Not long after, Deng Rong had a boyfriend and was about to get married. His mother said: According to the current rules, you have to ask your husband’s family for a gift of 100,000 yuan. In addition, you have to keep the house you bought, as it is the property of your mother’s family!
Deng Rong immediately became anxious and said: Mom, that’s the house I bought with my own money!
My mother said: We spent money to support you until you graduate from college, but you took the salary and did not turn it over to the family to keep for yourself. Are you worthy of your parents' upbringing? The important thing is that before you get married, all your property belongs to your natal family. After you get married, what property you buy and how much income you have have nothing to do with your natal family. If you have filial piety, be filial. If you don't, forget it!
Deng Rong said: I am still repaying the mortgage on that house. The house belongs to my parents’ family. After getting married, I will not repay the mortgage!
The mother said: Just keep the house. After you get married, the mortgage will be paid by your mother's family, so you don't have to worry about it!
After that, the mother let her son live in the house bought by her daughter.
If I knew that you left the pre-marriage house to your natal brother, I would not give your natal family a gift of 100,000 yuan! After Deng Rong got married, her husband was very dissatisfied.
Deng Rong said: That is my pre-marital property. What does it matter whether it is given to my mother-in-law or not?
Husband said: Your pre-marital house will not be given to your natal family. The pre-marital house is your property. You are my wife, and of course it is also my property!
Deng Rong said angrily: What kind of man are you? You don’t want to spend money to marry a wife, and you also want to get the woman’s property to live on. I earn so much a month, and my parents worked hard to raise me and support me in college. After graduating from college, It's such a shame to get married and start a family after just a few years of working. You can't support your parents with your salary, but you have children for you and will support your parents in the future. It's such a loss. If you're not satisfied, get divorced! Nowadays, it is not worthwhile for a woman who has knowledge and can make money to get married. It is better to live a comfortable life by herself! Earn your own money and spend it yourself, and live your life however you want!
After hearing what Deng Rong said, my husband was so angry that he was speechless and shook his head with a sigh. Her husband didn't want to pay attention to Deng Rong, and Deng Rong didn't want to pay attention to her husband, so the two had a conflict.
Seeing Deng Rong’s current situation, her best friend said: It’s all because of you buying the pre-marital house. If you don’t buy the pre-marital house, your parents’ family will not let you keep the pre-marital house when you get married, and your husband will not let you keep the pre-marital house because of you. Angry for my parents! Some of her best friends encouraged Deng Rong to divorce: Why do we, highly educated and high-income women like us, get married, earn money to spend on others, serve others, earn money and spend it ourselves? Isn’t this kind of life pleasant?
Deng Rong has brought some troubles to himself because he bought a house before marriage. Do you think Deng Rong should buy a house before marriage?
