I have been troubled by a question recently. I believe most of us have the same question as me: Is your choice really your own choice?
A good person must be a good person? Are bad guys always bad? Nothing in this world is good or bad, it's just the criteria we make for judging whether things are useful or useless to us.
Bad people really like to be bad people? Why do we choose to get married and have children? Why do we choose to work? Why should we choose to make money? Why do we have so many choices? Are these choices really our own? I think most are not.
Do we choose to get married and have children because we don’t want to be alone in the future? Or do you want to continue the family legacy? Is having children just to continue the family relationship? I think there are other reasons! This world is always full of interests. There may be some moral issues in saying this, but think about what I said later: Maybe we get married because we don’t want people in our family or in the village to gossip. This is one of them. Second, we don’t want to spend the rest of our lives alone. Third, we choose to get married and have children so that we can support ourselves in old age and have someone to support us in middle school. This is the benefit.
So have you ever thought about why you choose a job and why you make the choice?
In fact, it seems like choosing a job. The choice we make is neither what we want nor our real choice. So why should we make a choice? I think it is because we have no choice so we have to accept it.
Are bad people really bad? Are good people really good? I guess I don't know, and neither do you. We may never love without knowing. We just live numbly.
