After thinking about it for a long time, I still resigned. When there is a conflict between family and work, I still choose family. I have always believed that parents’ companionship has a limit. My son is now 3 years old. If I don’t care about him now, when he grows up, the mone

After thinking about it for a long time, I still resigned.

When there is a conflict between family and work, I still choose family. I have always believed that parents’ companionship has a limit. My son is now 3 years old. If I don’t care about him now, when he grows up, the money my husband and I have worked so hard to earn may not be enough for him to spend a year.

My husband’s job requires long-term business trips. My job is in the service industry. It is common for me to get off work at 8 or 9 o’clock. My son is currently with his grandma in his hometown. If we take them back, one of my husband and I must focus on the family.

I discussed with my husband for a long time, and finally decided to let my husband pursue his career outside, and I find a job where I get off work early.

After I made my decision, I submitted my resignation to my leader. It was obvious that our leader really wanted to keep me, so I told her my thoughts truthfully, and she said she could apply to let me get off work early. I said I was too embarrassed to be special, but our leader said, it’s a shame that no one cares about your son.

However, the result of her application to the head office was not approved. I actually understand it very well. All employees have families and children. If everyone wants to get off work early, there will be no way to manage it, so I chose to leave.

When I chatted with colleagues from other stores, her answer surprised me and impressed me even more.

Let me talk about my colleague first. She is a girl born in 1998. She has a straightforward personality. She is happy when she is happy and unhappy when she is unhappy. You can see it on her face. If she thinks her colleagues have done something wrong, she can argue with them in person. If you have any needs, you will speak up and never hide them.

But my personality is completely different from hers. I keep whatever thoughts I have in my heart and will not reveal them to others easily. If a colleague does something that makes me feel uncomfortable, I won't speak out and will just sulk alone.

Our work requires meetings every night, and some customers will come after get off work. Therefore, many times after cleaning up, people cannot gather, and the meeting cannot be held and work cannot be finished.

My work usually ends early. I really want to leave, but I am embarrassed to leave early, so I will wait for them.

But my colleague’s approach is completely different. She said that if my work is done and they are busy or have been endlessly discussing issues that have nothing to do with our work, then I will directly say, if nothing happens here, then I Just leave first.

So my colleagues basically got off work on time, but I kept waiting for other colleagues to work unnecessary overtime. Over time, my enthusiasm for work was gradually exhausted, and I had to choose to resign.

Actually, it’s not that I can’t accept working overtime at all. I can work overtime if there are important things, but I can’t accept it if I have to work overtime if I have nothing to do.

After talking to my colleague, I suddenly understood why there was so much embarrassment. If your children are left unattended, it will be a shame for you. It will be a shame if you earn less and have no food to eat. If you have any ideas, express them boldly. Even if you are not satisfied, you will feel happy after saying it, and you will not There is so much negativity.

Because I had so much embarrassment in my heart, my own energy field became lower over time. When the energy is low, you will not be able to motivate yourself, and your results will be greatly reduced when working. The work was boring, I couldn't make any money, I got off work late, and I couldn't spend time with my children. All I could think of were negative things. So it was only a matter of time before I resigned.

Finally I want to shout out: "Fuck you, sorry"!