An excellent white-collar worker has worked hard in Beijing for more than ten years. He owns a house, a car, and savings. He serves in a key position in a key ministry, is highly valued by leaders, and has considerable power.

An excellent white-collar worker has worked hard in Beijing for more than ten years. He owns a house, a car, and savings. He serves in a key position in a key ministry, is highly valued by leaders, and has considerable power. He always wanted his parents to live in Beijing, but their parents were unwilling. So he had no choice but to buy a building for his parents in his hometown town so that his parents could spend their old age happily.

When he returned home during the Spring Festival and reunited with relatives and friends, he thought that his parents should always show off his love, filial piety, and overall strength of his position in the capital, so that he could satisfy his vanity hidden under the calm appearance.

When relatives and friends talked about the house that his parents bought and that he was working in the capital, his father said to them: "The house was bought by the two of us through many years of savings and the housing provident fund withdrawn when we retired. We only paid a down payment. He still has to pay off the mortgage every month. "My son is a clerk in the ministry in Beijing. He has no position and no authority and can't do much."

After his relatives and friends left, he couldn't understand his father's words and deeds. He clearly bought the house in full. , why did my father say it was bought with a mortgage? Why did his father say that he was an insignificant clerk when he was clearly in a key position? Unable to bear it anymore, he asked his father why.

His father said to him, I am over sixty years old this year. I have experienced the ups and downs of many things and seen the ups and downs of many people. In one sentence, most of them started with showing off. You buy us a house, you are filial to your parents, you have status and power in your work unit, it is enough for us to know about it ourselves, there is no need for everyone to know about it.

His father told him that in this world, except for your parents, no one really wants you to be happy. If you are happy, enjoy it alone slowly; if you are in pain, you should also lick your wounds slowly. Never show off your happiness. This may cause jealousy, may make people who are living in pain unbalanced, and may also make others lament the unfairness of fate. In short, it may cause discomfort in others.

His father told him that in fact, you can enjoy happiness and taste happiness alone. Even if you don't show off, others can feel it from your speech, behavior and micro-expressions. Don't show off and leave room for yourself and others, isn't it good?

As for your position in the unit, the more critical the position, the more cautious you need to be. The more critical the position, the less allowed to make mistakes. One mistake may be fatal, or it may be a turning point in life. If a relative or friend is in trouble, just try your best to help them. There is no need to let your relatives and friends know how powerful and amazing you are. If you show off and your relatives and friends ask you to do something that is beyond your ability, will you do it or not? If you do it, it violates the principle. If you don't do it, you will be embarrassed. Why bother?

My father is a wise man in life. He said that happiness should not be shown off but should be enjoyed alone, which expresses the true meaning of life.

Tolstoy said: "Happy families are alike, and every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way." Schopenhauer said: "Loneliness is the source of happiness and happiness." Your happiness may not be everyone's happiness, and your happiness may not be everyone's happiness.

If you feel happy, you can make a cup of tea alone, slowly reflect on it, enjoy it slowly, and let the happy time pass slower, slower, and even stay in your mind forever.

But you have to understand that your happiness may be the source of other people's pain. If you show it off, it is like adding a pinch of salt to other people's wounds. For example, if your happiness is job promotion, then competing with you Can people be happy? Your happiness is winning your heart, but is your love rival happy? Your happiness is making a lot of money, so can your competitors be happy? It never hurts to put yourself in the shoes of someone who is unhappy when you are happy.

Aren't there too many cases where people overturn because of showing off their happiness? Some people say: Show affection and die quickly. This show is all about showing off. The well-known "pornographic photo scandal" involved Cecilia Cheung and Gillian . Cecilia Cheung soon made a comeback, but Gillian tried her best to try her best. Why, because everyone remembered that Gillian showed off her innocence before. After the incident, , I feel like I was cheated, and I never forgive.

There is also the mainland actress Li Xiaolu , who showed off her happiness to the point of doing a special "Tucao Conference". She has a great husband, a smart daughter, a good family background, a successful career, and unlimited glory, but in the blink of an eye, she fell from the altar because of "doing hair". , It’s true that I had known today, why bother in the beginning.

If you are happy, please enjoy it alone, but don't show off! ! !