When you like someone, you will always show it. There is a sentence in "Lolita" that goes like this: "There are three things that people cannot hide, cough, poverty and love. The more you want to hide it, the more obvious it will be." Emotions are not something that can be contro

When you like someone, you will always show it.

There is a sentence in "Lolita" that goes like this: "There are three things that people cannot hide, cough, poverty and love. The more you want to hide it, the more obvious it is."

Feelings are not something that can be controlled in the first place. You can't control your temptations, and you can't control even if you want to give up.

Those who are moved in love but do not want the other person to know their emotions are most likely to hide their emotions.

You obviously want to talk to the other person, but you pretend that you don't care; you are obviously curious about what the other person said to others, but you pretend that you don't really care; you obviously want to talk a few more words, but you suddenly end the topic.

These "abnormal" performances will make people who are moved think that they are hiding their emotions, but everything done deliberately will have traces.

Including when speaking, if one person secretly likes another person, the way they speak will be different. In fact, it is easy to tell.

Deliberately ignoring someone is mostly because you are attracted.

It is a sign of liking, not necessarily wanting to get closer, because sometimes, wanting to stay away from someone is also a sign that someone is really attracted to someone.

Just as Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "When you fall in love with someone, you are always a little afraid, afraid of getting him, afraid of losing him."

It is difficult for people who do not have such a state of mind to understand why when falling in love with someone, You may also be afraid of getting the other person, but people with this state of mind understand that it is a natural worry when you love deeply.

This feeling is like seeing a very beautiful piece of clothing and wanting to ask for the price, but being afraid that you can’t afford it, afraid that the dress won’t suit you, and even more afraid of accidentally getting it dirty after you own it, because I always worry that I will be lost forever.

Therefore, pretending that they don’t care so much and pretending that they don’t want it has become a way for many people to protect themselves and each other.

Just like Li Daren in "I May Not Love You", although he has been accompanying Cheng Youqing, he only gets along with him as a confidant of the opposite sex.

In Li Daren's heart, he has long believed that Cheng Youqing deserves all the good things in the world, which makes him willing to sacrifice his own love to fulfill Cheng Youqing's love.

Moreover, even if everyone saw through Li Daren's love for Cheng Youqing, he still insisted on keeping the distance he deserved from Cheng Youqing.

This kind of distance is his protection for Cheng Youqing, and it is proof that he is afraid that the relationship between the two people will not be satisfactory. This is not a sign of insufficient love, but a sign of enough love.

is the same for many people in real life.

may have liked the other person for a long time, but the moment he saw the other person, he wanted to run away, and all the courage he gave himself no longer counted.

The reason why a person loses courage may be because he is shy because of true love, or he may not dare because he is worried about the consequences, or it may be due to low self-esteem born from love.

No matter what the situation is, when a person clearly can easily interact with another person, but always resists subconsciously, it is often a sign of attraction. After all, if there is no attraction, how could it be deliberate.

Frequently and deliberately talk to each other because he wants to be seen by the other party.

When I was a child, boys often pulled girls' pigtails, not because they wanted to bully the other party, but because they really liked the other party, so that they could be seen by the other party.

At that time, boys could not understand whether their actions had caused harm to girls. All they wanted was to attract girls' attention and get them to talk to them more.

Girls with more generous personalities will also do the same. Trying to attract the attention of the person they like is the way they want to be seen by the person they like.

After adulthood, many people will still use this method. The only difference is that they understand that they have to consider the other person's feelings.

Therefore, deliberately talking to each other, repeating topics that are not necessary to talk about, and constantly looking for common ground between two people have become the behavior of many people when they like someone.

is like the original Wu Jing. When he met Xie Nan for the first time, he fell in love with Xie Nan at first sight. He wanted to attract Xie Nan's attention, but he didn't know how to do it.

Wu Jing, who is known as a "straight man", started his own "straight man style" chat.

Xie Nan sprayed a perfume called "Encounter" that day. Wu Jing first asked what kind of perfume Xie Nan was spraying, and then said: "Did you spray this perfume to meet me?"

After that, Xie Nan asked Wu Jing about his ideal person. , this was originally the content of the interview, but Wu Jing asked Xie Nan instead.

After going back and forth, Xie Nan always felt that Wu Jing was a frivolous person. She did not expect that this was a sign that Wu Jing really liked him.

When the misunderstanding between the two people was gradually solved, Xie Nan moved Wu Jing, and Wu Jing was also moved by Xie Nan, so the two gradually came together.

The interactions between Wu Jing and Xie Nan can reflect the behavior of some people when they like someone.

For example, Wu Jing's "straight man" chat is to find out the other person's preferences and ask the other person questions when they come to mind, in order to create more topics between the two people.

Although Wu Jing's performance is not that good, many people behave like this in love. Because they are really moved and are really afraid of missing out, they don't dare to hesitate, and they are a little more reckless.

In short, as long as there is a feeling of liking, when a person's personality is optimistic and generous enough, he will take the initiative to approach and talk frequently, which is a way to prove his feelings. After all, that person talks a lot, and he may just face the person he likes. Only then.

I really like what Keigo Higashino said in "Listen Alone": "Secret love is something that you know is meaningless, but you can't stop being persistent. Everyone has this kind of existence."

Secretly liking someone, this is The so-called secret love is also an experience that many people will have. The reason why

may be attracted to the other party is because of a certain word of the other party, a certain action of the other party, or even a certain look of the other party.

No matter what the reason is, the temptation is real. Once you are tempted, it is difficult to hide it.

Regardless of whether you are a reserved person or a passionate and generous person, you will have emotions that you cannot hide when facing the person you like. You can find it if you pay attention.

Just like deliberate snubs and proactive greetings, they are all small thoughts revealed in the way they speak when they secretly like someone. Only if they are not slow will they not be easily missed.