Title: Couple has been living together for 7 months. The man asked for a refund of RMB 68,000 in gift but was rejected. The woman: Prostitution for free? In today's society, with the accelerated pace of life, modern people's financial pressure is also increasing, so modern people

title: The couple has been living together for 7 months. The man asked for a refund of 68,000 yuan as a bride price but was refused. The woman: It was a free prostitution?

Marriage is not a trivial matter. Talking about marriage has been a topic that has attracted much attention since ancient times.

In today's society, as the pace of life accelerates, modern people are under increasing financial pressure. Therefore, modern people are extremely cautious when discussing marriage and pay more attention to the other party's economic conditions. After all, there is no material basis for love. Just a pile of loose sand.

But if you care too much about money, it will easily hurt your feelings and destroy an originally beautiful relationship.

What I’m going to tell you today is a story about an engaged couple who parted ways because of money. The two used to be very affectionate, but in the end they broke up because they both cared too much about money. In the end, they even went to court over the issue of refunding the bride price, which is really sad.

The quarrelsome couple

Mr. Wu and Ms. Tang met through a blind date. When they met, my husband was 36 years old and Ms. Tang was 32 years old. They were both of marriageable age, so they were in a serious relationship with the purpose of getting married.

After dating, they both had a good impression of each other, so they quickly held an engagement ceremony in their hometown. After

got engaged, the two came to Shanghai to work together and officially lived together in Shanghai.

The two people's cohabitation life is simple and sweet. After get off work, Ms. Tang will help Mr. Wu with laundry and cooking, and takes good care of Mr. Wu very carefully.

Since the two had a good impression of each other when they lived together, they went to get the certificate after seven months of living together and decided to hold a wedding soon.

However, during the preparations for the wedding, an irreconcilable conflict occurred between the two people, which eventually led to their breakup.

It turns out that when preparing for the wedding, the woman’s family proposed that the man should bear all the wedding expenses, but both men and women should receive their share of the money.

Mr. Wu quit now. Mr. Wu felt that since he had to bear all the wedding expenses, the groom should collect all the money. If both parties want to receive their own share of the money, then the cost of wedding preparations should be borne jointly by the woman and the man. This is only fair.

Because of this incident, the two parties were arguing with each other and no one was willing to give in. In the end, Mr. Wu was exhausted both physically and mentally. He felt that such a marriage would be meaningless even if it ended, so Mr. Wu broke up with Miss Tang.

Miss Tang's mother refused to give in. She told Mr. Wu that it was okay to break up, but the gift money that Mr. Wu had given to Miss Tang could not be returned because everyone in her hometown knew that Miss Tang was getting married. At this time, the husband proposed breaking up, and Tang The lady would be embarrassed, so they were not prepared to return the gift money.

But Mr. Wu felt that the woman should return the gift money, because at that time he gave the woman the gift money so that the two could get married. Now that the marriage has failed, the 68,000 yuan in gift money should naturally be returned in full.

Regarding the issue of returning the bride price, neither party would give in. In the end, there was no other way. Mr. Wu decided to take Ms. Tang to court. The former loving couple broke up and went to court.

After the court accepted the case, the first instance held that the bride price was a contract based on the marriage relationship. Now that the marriage relationship between Miss Tang and Mr. Wu has been cancelled, Miss Tang should return the bride price.

The court took into account that Ms. Tang had to bear part of the living expenses during the two people's cohabitation, so it deducted 12,000 yuan from living expenses when making the judgment. Finally, the court ruled that Ms. Tang should return the deducted gift of 56,000 yuan.

However, Ms. Tang was not convinced at the first instance. She felt that she paid a lot when the two lived together. In addition to using the bride price to bear part of the living expenses, she also spent time and energy to take care of Mr. Wu, so the bride price should not be refunded, even if it had to be refunded. , you should also make clear the accounts deducted when the two live together. Otherwise, if I returned the betrothal gift in a daze, wouldn’t I be prostituted in vain?

Ms. Tang appealed. The court of second instance considered that Ms. Tang did pay a lot of money to meet daily expenses while the two lived together, so it finally ruled that Ms. Tang should only return 34,000 yuan in gift money.

event evaluation

Mr. Wu and Ms. Tang were about to get married, but they ended up having a falling out over financial issues such as who would pay for the wedding. It was really a pity.

We can learn a truth from this incident, that is, relationships cannot withstand calculation. If you want to maintain a long-term and stable relationship, it is best not to care too much, especially about financial issues.

You must know that everyone is under great financial pressure now. Since you are getting married, it is best to show sincerity. The conditions proposed by the woman are too shrewd and calculating. If I were Mr. Wu, I would not be able to accept the wedding by myself. It is a condition that the money goes to the woman.

In the end, the woman lost her bride price and lost face. In the final analysis, it was caused by being too careless. If you want a happy marriage, you still have to learn to be kind and can be shrewd in big things, but don't be too calculating in details, otherwise it will hurt your partner's heart. .