Some people say: "The meaning of marriage is to build a safe haven and share your life's joys, sorrows and joys with each other; marriage is like a bridge, connecting two completely lonely worlds. From now on, marriage is no longer two people facing each other, but two people." L

Some people say: "The meaning of marriage is to build a safe haven and share your life's joys, sorrows and joys with each other; marriage is like a bridge, connecting two completely lonely worlds. From now on, marriage is no longer about two people facing each other, but two people. Individuals hold hands to face the world together. "

Some people also say: "A failed marriage is a tragedy. Ending a tragedy is the beginning of a comedy, because only after having a child do you know that a good father is a woman. Important choice. ”

But it is all about marriage, and different people have different views. I believe that everyone desires the first kind of marriage, and many people fall into the second kind of marriage. How to manage a marriage is The result of the joint efforts of two people.

The husband below works outside all year round and does not care about his wife and children at home. He also expressed doubts about his wife spending 2,000 yuan a year on living expenses: Who did the money go to?

Juanzi is an ordinary housewife. Her husband, Lao Li, makes money outside. Juanzi is responsible for taking care of her two children and family, and is also busy with things in the fields. The days went on as usual day after day. Suddenly one day, Juanzi disappeared, and her husband, Lao Li, was very anxious. During the more than 20 days since Juanzi disappeared, Lao Li could not get through Juanzi's phone calls and could not find her whereabouts, which made him even more angry.

So, Lao Li came to Juanzi’s natal home and found that Juanzi appeared at her natal home after disappearing for more than 20 days. When he saw Juanzi, Lao Li started beating Juanzi without saying a few words. Juanzi's parents saw their daughter being beaten. In order to protect their daughter, they went up to argue, but they were also beaten by their son-in-law. Now the dispute between the two parties became even more tense, and Juanzi was even more reluctant to go back, clamoring for a divorce.

What is the reason why Juanzi ran away from home? Lao Li couldn't help but hit Juanzi when he saw her. Why?

It turns out that Juanzi ran away from home because she called her husband and told her that she had no money and asked her husband to give her some money. But instead of giving it, her husband said that all the money was being kept by Juanzi and questioned herself. Who spent the money entrusted to Juanzi for safekeeping?

Juanzi’s father said that Lao Li earned 30,000 to 40,000 yuan a year, all of which he spent on himself. Last year, he gave Juanzi 2,000 yuan for living expenses and never took out a penny again. I learned from Juanzi that the money for her children’s schooling was paid for by Juanzi selling grain, and that the money given by Lao Li was not spent on herself, but on her children.

Juanzi not only has to pay for the family's expenses, but also supports her children's tuition fees herself. As the head of the family, Lao Li has actually not fulfilled his responsibilities as a father. Lao Li then changed the subject and said that there must be other men accompanying Juanzi after she disappeared for more than 20 days, and he had evidence.

Lao Li said that Juanzi liked a man on an entertainment platform and had contact information with each other. Lao Li became suspicious and called the man. In order to seek the truth, the mediator also called the man. When I got the call, the man said he didn’t know Yanzi .

Lao Li said that since we don’t know each other, how do you have contact information. Juanzi said that she just gave him a like. As for how she got the contact information, she couldn't explain it and said she didn't know. When Lao Li heard this, he became even more furious and asked his wife if the 2,000 yuan in living expenses had been spent on the man.

Juanzi was very aggrieved and did not want to explain anything. She only said she wanted a divorce. Seeing that Juanzi was so resolute, Lao Li began to persuade Juanzi to follow him home, but Juanzi was determined not to go home. Lao Li persuaded Juanzi and became impatient again, saying that it was okay.

Finally, under the persuasion of the mediator, both Juanzi and Lao Li expressed their willingness to calm down and give the other party some time to think.

Netizens’ views:

Some netizens said: “Like Lao Li, just forget it. He doesn’t respect his father-in-law and mother-in-law, but he also beats his wife, and threatens to say that his wife can do whatever she wants. Is this still what people say? "

Some netizens said: "Every family has a hard time to recite, and the patience will be over, there is no need to divorce."

Some netizens said: "Marriage is about fighting, but for Juanzi, she has endured too much pressure and suffered too much. Divorce or better relief for Juanzi, just a child You will lose the companionship of your parents.”

Editor’s opinion:

Life is so long, you are not in such a hurry. If love is not the prerequisite in marriage, then it will inevitably enter a process that consumes you. You don’t have to marry anxiety, standards, or compromise. , you don’t have to let yourself down or let others down. If you are not with the right person, then all the so-called suitability is meaningless. After all, life is too long. If you have no happiness and only get the shell of a marriage, then how can you finish this life.

The best marriage status should be that you make money and I take care of the house. Your heart is full of me, and my eyes are full of children. You are the sky for me and my children, and my children and I are your destination. For the rest of my life, I understand how tired you are of going out early and coming home late, and you know how tired I am of having three trivial meals and raising a baby. We will work hard together and grow together. Marriage is not about care and seeking, it is about mutual dependence but spiritual independence, it is about tolerance, understanding and love.

Marriage is to become happy, and divorce is the same.

We don’t know what the final outcome will be. Maybe Juanzi and Lao Li are back together well, or maybe they are divorced. In short, we all hope that when they make a choice, they must give their children enough Care, don't let your children grow up in an environment lacking love.

The cat in the alley is free, but has no destination. The dog in the wall has a destination, and has to bow its head for life. In this multiple-choice question of life, no matter what choice you make, you will have regrets.