Unexpectedly, an incident happened recently. My mother-in-law’s family’s actions gave me face. It can really be called: my mother-in-law’s family, who is known as “poor”, used money to slap the “rich” husband’s family in the face.

"As for your poor relatives, in order to save money on transportation fares, not even a few people came to your wedding. How can you expect them to help in the future?" My mother-in-law said to me arrogantly the day after our wedding. . Unexpectedly, an incident happened recently. The behavior of my mother-in-law’s family made me save face. It can really be called this: my mother-in-law’s family, who is known for being “poor”, used money to slap the “rich” husband’s family in the face.

My husband Chen Fei and I are college classmates. Love in college is really beautiful. You don’t have to think about houses and cars, or being a good match. Love at that time was really a feeling, as simple as liking it.

Chen Fei and I come from different provinces. There is a gap in family economic conditions, but it is not as big as Chen Fei's mother said.

Chen Fei's parents own a shoe factory, which is not too big, but Chen Fei's mother just thinks that the conditions of her family are very good. Speaking of her relatives, they are even more amazing, as if they are capable people in the world. They are all relatives of her family. As for my family, in the eyes of Chen Fei's mother, it is really like heaven and earth.

I am from Yunnan. The place where my grandparents live is a small mountain village that cannot be named. After graduating from high school, my father returned to his hometown and became a teacher. Many of my relatives make a living by farming.

Maybe it’s because of my father’s favor, or maybe because I have always lived in a small place, I am particularly optimistic and confident.

But Chen Fei's mother really dislikes my family conditions. She feels that I am superior to Chen Fei, and even said that my relationship with Chen Fei is for her family's money.

I swear, I really have no such idea. My parents have taught me since I was a child that I must work hard to get what I want. When I fell in love with Chen Fei, I did not take advantage of Chen Fei financially.

Chen Fei loves me, and I love her too. My optimism and confidence have increased again, and I feel that I can turn this Cinderella into a princess on my own.

I ignored all the dissatisfaction that Chen Fei's parents and his relatives had against me. Whether they said I was unworthy to my face or cynicized behind my back, I ignored them all. Chen Fei is also a very manly man, and he took me directly to get the marriage certificate.

When Chen Fei's parents saw the marriage certificate, although they were unwilling to admit it to me as their daughter-in-law, they still held the wedding for us because they didn't want to embarrass themselves.

At the grand wedding, my natal family sat in the corner, sparsely gathered together at a table, looking a little shabby. Chen Fei's mother asked the emcee to cancel the stage where my parents would speak on stage.

I still remember the night after the wedding, my mother-in-law said in front of me and Chen Fei: "Look at what kind of wife you are looking for. She lives in the parents-in-law's house like this. You don't think it's embarrassing, but I think they are slovenly."

Me I was very angry with my mother-in-law for being arrogant and rude to my mother-in-law, but I didn't want to quarrel with her. Because my mother told me: "Don't be angry on your wedding day, otherwise your life will not go smoothly." Although I didn't believe it, I still held it back.

Chen Fei said: "Why do you need to embarrass others on your wedding day?"

The mother-in-law said: "The wife you found is too bad."

Chen Fei used moral kidnapping: "You are still not my mother, I am You will get married once in your life. If you are doing it for my own good, please don't cause trouble."

Unexpectedly, Chen Fei's mother said: "Who knows whether you will only get married once in this life, maybe within two years. If you divorce, you will have to marry again."

Chen Fei's mother was driven away by Chen Fei with threats: "If you don't want to lose a son, leave immediately."

Chen Fei's mother left. The next day He came over again early in the morning to scold me.

"As for your poor relatives, in order to save money on transportation fares, not even a few people came to your wedding. How can you expect them to help in the future?" My mother-in-law said to me arrogantly.

I don’t want to argue with my mother-in-law. Let her say whatever she likes. I ignored her words, but she felt bored and shut up after a few words.

and Chen Fei received the certificate directly, which is really suspected of being impulsive. Chen Fei told me that I have done countless psychological preparations for various problems that I will face, but when I actually face them, I still feel a lot of unwillingness and helplessness.

Considering our current situation, Chen Fei and I decided not to have children for the time being and focus more on our careers.

Chen Fei and his friends formed a partnership to engage in foreign trade.

I work in an accounting firm.

Due to the impact of the epidemic, Chen Fei's parents' shoe factory has more and more inventory and lack of working capital, so they want Chen Fei to help. But Chen Fei's company is not much better, and it is run in partnership with friends, so it is impossible to say that it can be used with the company's money.

My mother-in-law's temper is getting worse and worse. I also know that she is under pressure and can only behave with her tail between her legs. Chen Fei also got angry because of his parents' affairs.

Chen Fei discussed with his parents to borrow money from relatives to tide over the difficulties first.

Chen Fei's mother thought this method was feasible, and said that after the inventory was cleared, some additional interest would be paid to relatives.

What I thought was a sure thing did not happen.

When I came home from get off work, I saw Chen Fei and his father-in-law smoking one after another (Chen Fei rarely smokes because I don’t like it).

Chen Fei's mother was angrily beside him: "I just temporarily suppressed the goods, and it's not bankrupt. Why are you so afraid that we won't be able to pay back the money? I used to always say something when something happened, but now it's better, and I can't even say anything nice. Willing to help"

I cooked, but Chen Fei and his father-in-law and mother-in-law didn't eat much.

I said: "How about we sell the house?"

Chen Fei and I bought the house together, each of us contributed half of the money. Although it is not big, it is still our home.

Chen Fei and his parents-in-law were a little surprised when they heard what I said. My mother-in-law said: "Your parents also paid for this house. If you sell it, your parents will not agree."

I called my mother directly and told her about the epidemic first, and then I told her I'm planning to sell my house.

My mother was silent for a long time. I thought she really disagreed with selling the house as my mother-in-law said, but I didn't expect that she was discussing it with my dad.

My dad said: "The house belongs to you and Chen Fei, you just decide."

One day later, my dad called Chen Fei and said that due to the current epidemic, it was not easy to deal with the house. He and Relatives told us about our situation, borrowed some money, and called us first.

My dad also said: "Our abilities are limited, and our relatives back home don't have much money, so don't be too little."

My dad transferred 300,000.

I called my dad and asked him who borrowed the money? My dad talked to many people, and I recorded them one by one for easy return. They are all my natal relatives, and the least one borrowed 5,000 yuan.

Looking at the long list, I was moved and guilty. My dad comforted me: "Relatives should help each other."

When my mother-in-law received 300,000 yuan, she apologized to me.

I showed my mother-in-law the bills I had recorded and told her about my relationship with these people.

"The person who borrowed 30,000 yuan is my uncle. He opened a small store"

"The person who borrowed 20,000 yuan is my cousin, who works in the factory"

"The person who borrowed 5,000 yuan is my youngest uncle. I don’t have any skills, I just farm at home and have two children.”

…

Chen Fei said, “If you want me to keep this bill, it’s not money, but love.”

I said to my mother-in-law: "My mother-in-law doesn't have any rich people, so it's true that they can't help us a lot, but they really treat us as relatives. When something happens, they will try their best to help."

My mother-in-law didn't say anything. The eye circles are a little red.

This bill is my pride. My mother-in-law's family, who is known as "poor", slapped the "rich" husband's family in the face with money.

@xiaoxie chatting about emotions ​

Xiaoxie remembered a saying, if you borrow money once, you will know who is sincere and who is fake. Maybe your natal family is not that rich, but they are really sincere people. Just because of relatives, when something happens, I want to help.

With such a natal family, I believe you will not be afraid no matter where you go. Wealth can be measured by money, but some wealth cannot be simply measured by money, such as family love.

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