Before my son was one month old, I ran back to my parents’ house with my son. I wanted my husband to pick me up, but my mother-in-law insisted that I apologize to her before allowing my wife to go home. The following is a letter that my husband left for my mother-in-law:
I was born in a rural area, and I have a younger brother at home. My father has been ill all year round. I know that you alone support the family, so you asked me after I started working. Give you the salary card and I will give it to you directly. You will only leave a little living expenses every month. You said you would keep it for me and give it to me when I need it.
Xiaoxi and I are in a free relationship. When we were discussing marriage, you directly told Xiaoxi that you would not give a bride price, saying that our family was too poor to afford a thousand yuan. Xiaoxi is also very sensible, saying that she doesn’t want a bride price, and the wedding doesn’t need to be held. Our parents didn't meet each other, so we simply came to have a meal and then got the certificate. After my parents-in-law learned about it, in order for us to have a home in the city, they offered to sponsor us to buy a house with 300,000 yuan, which was not enough. Our family had to pay for the down payment. Then I thought about my salary card. I have worked for seven or eight years, and I feel that there should be hundreds of thousands saved in it. Together, it should be enough for the down payment. But you told me that there was not a penny in it, and you had used it to build a house in your hometown. Otherwise, how would my brother find a partner? Although I felt uncomfortable, I had no choice but to borrow money from everywhere, and scrape together my father-in-law and mother-in-law. I finally collected enough for the down payment and bought a house. Xiaoxi gave birth to a baby, but her mother-in-law didn't come over because she had something to do at home, so she could only ask you to help take care of the confinement baby. You didn't like everything you saw after you came. You disliked Xiaoxi for being a prodigal. You said buying diapers was a waste of money, and just using diapers was enough. Okay, I still can't stand the so many clothes in Xiaoxi's wardrobe. Even if I have money, I might as well give them to you. I even have no money to renovate my hometown. When you cook for Xiaoxi, just stir-fry two vegetarian dishes. I asked you to mix the meat and vegetables. After all, Xiaoxi is sitting with her husband and needs nutrition. You are still angry, saying that there was nothing delicious when you gave birth to me. I haven't grown to 1.8 meters as usual. When you change your child's diaper, you put the child heavily on the bed, and when you wipe the child's butt, you also use a lot of force. When Xiaoxi tells you to be gentler, you get angry again. Seeing you crying and fussing, I got angry. Because I was depressed, I went out to drink with my friends in the evening. Because I came back late, Xiaoxi was angry and didn't open the door for me. You said that the two of us had been quarreling for a while. It's okay, I can make peace with her if I coax her. But you started to lose your temper again. You scolded Xiaoxi in the living room all night. Xiaoxi couldn't sleep. He occasionally came out to argue with you, but he was no match for you. He took the child back to his parents' home early the next morning.
I am caught in the middle. I don’t want to say who is right or wrong now. After all, one side is my mother and the other is my wife. Now I just want you to go back to your own home, and I will coax my own wife.
After the mother-in-law read her son's message, she quit, saying that her son was honest and her son's room was her room, so why should she let her go. So she called her son and said: "Don't hide in the work without seeing anyone. If your wife doesn't apologize to me, I won't recognize her as my daughter-in-law. If that doesn't work, you will divorce. You are so good and your salary is high, why are you worried?" Don’t women like her?” After I understood this situation, I really didn’t know where my mother-in-law got her confidence and where she got such an outstanding son. She didn’t spend a penny to get married and the in-laws paid for the house. I was really speechless. This kind of mother-in-law would be mad at her even if she had ten wives.
Let her come over to help. She is a guest. The hostess of this house is her daughter-in-law. She has the ability to make money, and of course she also has the right to spend money. You may not understand what kind of life she wants, but you can't Don't be disrespectful and use old ideas to restrain others.
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