Wen/#长安生# What is “symbol of love”? Symbolizing love is something that symbolizes love. It is a kind of meaning. It is the so-called "What kind of behavior does it show that you like?" or "What kind of behavior does it show that you don't like?" "Symbolizing love" is Love?

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For example, "Reply messages in a timely manner", maybe she (he) is also idle and just wants to find someone to chat with. Maybe she (he) thinks it is polite to reply to other people's messages in a timely manner. Maybe we mentioned She (he) is really interested in this topic. It is also possible that she (he) simply regards us as a very important friend of her (him)...

In short, "symbolizing love" is just a conjecture, and a conjecture is just Conjecture is our subjective understanding, but the relationship between men and women in real life has many influencing factors. Therefore, "symbol love" cannot represent the result of love.

also has a "symbol of love", which we call "meaning". Since it is a meaning, we naturally prefer good meanings and avoid bad meanings.

So, here, we will stop at the good meanings. Next, we will focus on the "bad meanings", because good meanings will always make us feel better, while "bad meanings" will always make us feel better. It will make us have some negative emotions.

So, the question is, does "bad connotation" mean that this love will not have a good outcome? This is not the case, but this so-called "bad connotation" affects our emotions and causes us to have some bad behavioral reactions, resulting in some bad results.

For example, you and your significant other were living very well. On a whim, the two of you went to have a fortune telling, and heard the fortune teller say: "You two have different horoscopes, and you will not be happy if you get married." Then, you Keep this sentence in mind and think about it over and over in your mind...

In the future life, whenever there is some situation where you can't get along with your partner, you will think of this sentence. Over time, you will feel that "the two of us It’s just that the horoscopes are different, and we are destined to be enemies." Then, there will be more and more conflicts between the two of you...

Is it true? Can you two really not be happy together? No, the fact is that you believed those bad connotations and those bad words, and these bad connotations prompted you to do some bad behaviors, so they affected your happiness.

In short, we don’t have to take those bad symbols and meanings in love seriously, because symbols are just symbols and cannot represent reality. We just need to cherish the people around us with our heart and be more considerate and understanding of the people around us. , will naturally create a happy emotional relationship.

Changyan Changyu:

Is "symbolizing love" love? symbolizes love, not love. Symbolizing love is just a guess of love. We can believe in good symbols and meanings, but we don’t have to care about bad symbols and meanings, because we are living for reality, not for symbols. Live with meaning.

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I am Changtan Shengsheng, a member of the Family Education Bureau, focusing on family emotions and various aspects of life. Together, we use our experiences to convey positive energy (News are posted on time at 7:30 every morning)!

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