Hello, my name is Mo Mo. Click "Follow" on the upper right to share [self-media writing] and [personal growth] with you every day. I really like what Fu Seoul said: "Human growth is a constant comparison, The process of judging, changing and updating self-awareness is never fixed

Hello, I am Mo Mo. Click "Follow" on the upper right to share [self-media writing] and [personal growth] useful information with you every day.

I like what Fu Seoul said very much: "Human growth is A process of constant comparison, judgment, change and updating of self-awareness has never been finalized. "

We probably grow and mature slowly in constant exploration throughout our lives. Life cannot be like cooking, you have to prepare all the ingredients before cooking. Many things are not done after you see the results, but you will see the results after you do them; many truths are not understood and then experienced and met, but you will understand the truth after you experience them.

This article compiles some of the knowledge that I have slowly gained over the past two years. Although my own experience is more powerful than other people’s words, Mo Mo still hopes that you can understand it as soon as possible. Some things don’t have to wait. Come back when you hit a wall.

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1. You should learn to be yourself and face your true self. As long as you do this, you have nothing to fear. ——"The Cat's Repayment"

I used to be a very unopinionated person. I could choose to accept almost anything others said, even if it was something I didn't like. I didn't notice anything once or twice, but then it happened so often that I almost forgot who I was and what I liked.

So now start to pursue your own heart. We live for ourselves, why do we have to wrong ourselves to help others. Dear, you don’t have to change for anyone. If you want to become a better person, please do it for yourself. A true self is the most relaxed self.

2. Don't despise money, because one day you may be despised by money in turn, and that is the most painful thing. Everyone says that talking about money is vulgar, but this world is really very realistic. Everyone is working hard for the same purpose at all costs, willing to become a slave of money, and giving wholeheartedly.

3. "There is a road in this world that you cannot take no matter what, and that is the wrong road. If you take a wrong step, you will be shattered." The same is true for making friends . Good social interaction will encourage you to keep making progress and slowly get closer to outstanding people. , to achieve a better self; conversely, those friends who like to take pleasure in your shortcomings without scruples and harm you everywhere, the sooner you lose them, the better it is for you.

4. Don’t always belittle yourself, because you still have many undiscovered advantages; don’t always elevate yourself, because there are really a lot of people who are better than you. Only by giving yourself a correct positioning can you better shine in a certain field.

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5. Make what you like become work. discovered his interest and developed it into a side job, slowly bringing him income. It is so common to have a side job now. People of almost every age group, including mothers, students, and office workers, will choose to develop their own side job to increase their income.

I recently chatted with my good friend from high school and learned that he studied photography in college and planned to stay in Qingdao to find a photography job during the summer vacation. On the one hand, he can make some money, and more importantly, he can continue to improve his skills in the process. In fact, I quite admire him. Children who love home always want to go home early haha~

So you see, our ultimate goal after adulthood seems to be the same, and that is a very realistic thing - making money, no one can Become enemies with money.

6. Maybe you have been deceived by others, but don’t be too sad. Everything sums up to make you understand that sometimes, the only person you should trust is yourself.

7. Don’t be anxious, don’t be afraid of confusion. Confusion in your twenties is almost everyone’s inevitable journey. It means that you are walking on an uphill road at this stage. Go over it, calm down and do what you need to do. Things, all the little beauties will open their arms to embrace you who have worked hard during this period.

The journey of life is like this. You spend a lot of time confused, have a few moments of growth, and then inadvertently gain some small surprises~

This is my most touching experience, and I sincerely send it to you who are confused at every stage❤

8. If you don't manage your finances, your finances won't care about you. Never feel that your financial management has nothing to do with you. In this life, there are nothing more than two kinds of relationships: the relationship between man and money, and the relationship between man and money. The ability to handle the two relationships will largely determine your future height in life.

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9. No matter how busy your work life is, you should keep in touch with your parents. Your future is long and contains the impermanence of their worldly affairs. Parents are the only ones in this world who are afraid of your hunger and cold, and hope that you will always be safe.

It is better to express concern for parents quietly than to express it openly. We are always bad at expressing love, especially to those close to us. But some words are hidden in the heart and not said, maybe they can only be hidden in the heart.

10. “I read a lot of books, but then I forgot most of them. In that case, what is the point of reading?”

“When I was a child, I ate a lot of food that I can’t remember now. I haven’t eaten anything yet, but what is certain is that some of them have grown into my bones and flesh.” - He Jiong

A lot of knowledge seems useless, but we still have to keep learning and respect knowledge. You must have a rich heart to get rid of these superficial similarities in life.

11. It is difficult for people to make money beyond their cognitive scope. Every penny you make is a realization of your understanding of the world; every penny you lose is a flaw in your understanding of the world.

12. As an adult, you must learn to pay for your own decisions. No one can protect you throughout your life, not your parents, your lover, or your brothers and sisters. Never think about relying on others for everything. When you are struggling in the dark night, even your shadow will choose to leave you. Only you can become your eternal safe haven.

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13. Please don’t just immerse yourself in the current work simply and mechanically, imagine yourself in 1 year, 10 years later. The future is always unknown. The jobs we will engage in in the future may not be related to the majors we studied in college, and the jobs we are engaged in now may not be a lifelong job.

14. Love is not about finding a perfect person, but learning to appreciate the imperfect person with perfect eyes. This is also a truth that Brother Bei taught me after so many years of being together~

15. Don’t blame your family of origin for your current unhappiness. Such people are very sad. We can't choose our origins, but we can completely control our future. If your family of origin is not good enough, then try to change it; if you can't change it, change yourself.

The native family is not the judge of fate, you are.

16. Criticizing something you don’t understand is more hateful than praising it. Sometimes staying silent is the best way to speak. Don't comment too much on things you don't understand. Try not to interfere in other people's affairs unless you have no choice.

17. This era will always quietly reward those who keep learning . Every knowledge you learn will be integrated with your body and mind inadvertently and in a way that you are not aware of.If you learn more skills, you will have more courage to face life, and you will have less words to ask for help.

18. Life is like a train on a journey. There will be people on the way, and people will get off when you arrive at the station, but it is difficult for someone to accompany you from beginning to end.

No matter how long the story is, it will come to an end, no matter how slow the train is, there will be one platform after another, and no matter how close the lovers are, they will have to part ways. Instead of being sad about what has been lost, it is better to cherish what you have now.

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In the past, I was always afraid of growing up, probably because I always felt that I was not ready for tomorrow; now, I feel that every day of growth is wonderful, because With each unknown tomorrow, my life has become more hopeful.

Life has just begun, everything will get better and better, I wish you and me ~

I hope that we have experienced many frustrations in life and still have the dreams we made in the beginning❤

Good articles from the past:

A list of 100 micro habits, Let my life no longer be anxious and start a life of compound interest.

How happy is my life after becoming a girl with a big picture?

How to improve my expressive power and be a very "wow" girl

Sometimes, anxiety does not seem to be Bad Things

Author introduction:

Mo Mo is a girl born in the 2000s who loves words. She focuses on self-media writing and personal growth. She is working hard to code words to run for freedom. Her wish is to spend her life the way she likes.