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Love must be accompanied by giving. As long as you are attracted to someone, you will naturally want to give her everything you can.
In "The Later Us", Xiao Xiao wanted to find the person who would "catch the moon in the sky and catch turtles in the five oceans" for her. She saw that Qing was such a person, but unfortunately the last two people ended up being . missed it, but his deep affection for her is unquestionable.
Some people just want something from you, want to be cared for and warmed, but are not willing to give to you at all. Such people are not sincere at all. No matter how much you like them, you should stay away in time.
For those who are stingy and searching, they must stop their losses in time, and do not want a love full of calculations and trade-offs.
Some people have their own reasons for being close to you. Only those who truly love you really want to use their actual actions to pamper you and treat you well, and not let you suffer any grievances.
He may be stingy with everyone, but he is very generous to you. This "generousness" is exactly a sign of his sincerity towards you.
There are some things that only people who truly love you will do for you. People who don’t love you enough can’t do it at all. When you meet someone who is willing to be so generous to you, please cherish it.
Whatever you want, he is willing to give it
Many men are always the best at blaming all the faults on women, despising them for being clingy, thinking that they are too materialistic and want too much, but in fact it is just because they can't let go. Giving is simply not enough.
In fact, what women want in love is very simple. They just want three things: companionship, romance and security.
These things are not difficult to do at all. People who don’t love you always think you want too much, and people who love you always think they don’t give you enough.
The romance they long for is nothing more than giving small gifts on festivals and anniversaries. Of course, the companionship they long for does not mean that you are by her side all the time, but that you can be there when she needs it. The sense of security they keep talking about is just that they want you to have only her in your heart. It is really easy for a person to keep a distance from other members of the opposite sex.
The reason why men dislike you for asking for too much is simply because they are stingy and are reluctant to spend money on you or spend time thinking about you. Because they don’t love you, they always care about you.
They just want to have a cost-effective relationship. They can enjoy your care of him without having to pay for it. You must recognize a man's sincerity and falsehood, and don't be full of enthusiasm only to end up with a joke.
He will never do the things you mind
Some things have been said several times and the other party has never taken them to heart, so there is no need to say them again. There are some things that you know will make you angry if you do them, but you still do them, so there is no need to doubt. He doesn't care about you that much at all.
Someone who cares about you will remember everything you said, will take your concerns and concerns to heart, will truly feel your feelings, and focus on your feelings.
Of course, sometimes some of your concerns require him to give up part of himself to adapt to you. This is enough to tell whether a person is sincere to you.
For example, if you mind him playing games, which is something he likes very much, someone who doesn’t love you enough will only think that you are too restrictive and too verbose. Someone who loves you will definitely make changes. Discuss a compromise with you that satisfies his preferences without making you angry.
For example, if you mind someone of the opposite sex around him who doesn't love you enough, he will make excuses again and again, saying that he is just an ordinary friend, and may even think that you are too petty and unreasonable, and the person who loves you will do anything for you. Keep distance from the other person.
For someone who loves you, everything he does will focus on you. Face, self-esteem, and hobbies are not as important as you. If he has to make a trade-off, he will definitely give in for you, just to get closer to you. .
Such a generous concession can only be made by someone who really likes you. People who don't love you can't do it at all.
He has no reservations about you and completely opens himself up to you.
I once had a short relationship. Although the time was short, I put all my sincerity into it.
In the process of dating, he has always had reservations about me. He pretended to be so good in front of me, acting like a gentleman, and he also took care of my feelings when we went on dates. He seems to be a top ten boyfriend, but in fact he doesn't have me in his heart at all.
The person he let me see was just carefully disguised, as if he was wearing a mask, and I couldn't see through his true thoughts. His circle of friends, his income, and all his private things have never been revealed to me. I know nothing about him. When I took the initiative to meet his friend, he said, "Dating is between the two of us, why let other people know." At that moment, I completely saw his true feelings for me, broke up with him, and he There was no trace of attachment, which made me even more convinced that leaving him was the right thing to do.
Hypocrisy can’t deceive people at all. It can be seen from the degree of his disclosure to you. People who don’t love you enough will always hide a lot from you and won’t let you know many things. People who love you will tell you. He generously shares everything with you, because he has recognized you in his heart that what is his is yours. The two of you are completely blended together. This generosity is the true love.
To measure whether a man is sincere to you, as long as you observe the details, you will get the answer.
People who don’t love you will always withhold and care about you. People who love you will give you their whole heart and do their best to love and care for you.
Only a man who truly loves you will be willing to do the above things. Don’t believe the rest no matter how fanciful he says.
