We envy the love that lasts a lifetime, but life is unpredictable, and no one knows whether tomorrow or the accident will come first. Xiao Deng, who lives in Jiangxi, has experienced the heartbreaking pain of the death of her lover. Her husband left her forever due to an accident

We envy a lifetime of love, but life is unpredictable, and no one knows whether tomorrow or the accident will come first.

Xiao Deng, who lives in Jiangxi, has experienced the heartbreaking pain of the death of her lover. Her husband left her forever due to an accident when she was only 30 years old. Her situation became embarrassing. Whether she should leave her husband's family became a necessity. issues to consider.

It was difficult for her to get out of the shadows for a long time. She had no choice but to come to the mediation site to find out whether she had the right to inherit the house.

01.

Xiao Deng and her husband Xiaoshuai got married on a blind date. They had a good relationship after their marriage and they had a daughter.

Xiaoshuai is the youngest son in the family, and he was pampered by his parents when he grew up. When got married, his parents bought a commercial house with full payment, and it was written in Xiaoshuai's name. The old man thought very simply, and he would support Xiaoshuai when he was able. Son, when you get older, your younger son will also provide for you.

After Xiaoshuai got married, his parents got along very well with their daughter-in-law Xiao Deng. When Xiao Deng gave birth, the doctor laughed and said that he couldn't tell who was the mother-in-law and who was the mother, which showed that the mother-in-law took good care of Xiao Deng.

It would be great if such family harmony could be maintained forever. No one expected that the youngest son had an accident while going out to work. He only stayed in the hospital for a few days and passed away. They did not even see each other for the last time. , the daughter-in-law brought back a suicide note, which said that the small house belonged to her daughter, and the big house was distributed through discussion as a family.

It turns out that Xiaoshuai has already anticipated the possible problems. His family has a total of 2 houses. One small house does not have a land certificate . It is registered in the name of his father and is worth 100,000. There is also a big house with various certificates. It is complete and registered in Xiaoshuai's name. It is the house where his parents live and is worth about 400,000.

Xiaoshuai knows that the big house is funded by his parents. He respects his parents' decision and only hopes to give his daughter a small house so that her young daughter can have a secure life.

It stands to reason that Xiaoshuai left a suicide note and his parents can respect his decision. But there is another person who cannot be ignored and is also playing a leading role. This person is Xiaoshuai's eldest brother. He firmly disagrees with the room allocation. His parents I can only give up.

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According to traditional customs, Xiaoshuai returned to his hometown to take care of his funeral affairs. Just after the burial, his uncle asked Xiao Deng what his future arrangements would be.

Xiao Deng cried and said: "I love Xiaoshuai very much. I want to raise my child well, and I also hope that my daughter can have a house."

Father-in-law shook his head directly after hearing this, saying that Xiao Deng was too eager. His son's body was still cold and he wanted to share the house. It's too early. He raised the issue about the house. He can talk about it slowly until he feels calmer.

Regarding the house, my father-in-law actually has some ideas. He has two sons, and he has always been more partial to the younger son. He thought he could take care of the younger son in his old age. However, the younger son had an accident, and he could only place his hopes on his older son for his old age. body.

So, he thought about it and came up with a plan, which was to own both houses and ask his daughter-in-law to cooperate in transferring the names of the houses. He promised to raise his granddaughter until she was 18 years old. As for Xiao Deng, she could always live in the house. Here, if you remarry, no one will stop you.

This plan was opposed by Xiao Deng and his sister. The two families had a big quarrel, which completely tore up the remaining family ties. Xiao Deng insisted that the big house was in her husband's name. If he wanted to transfer the title to his father-in-law, he must at least give Her 200,000 yuan will be used for child support. She does not want to leave her daughter to her parents-in-law to take care of her.

Without Xiaoshuai as an emotional bond, they became opposites who were not related by blood. They did not hesitate to quarrel over the house, and the father-in-law also said many unpleasant things, which made it difficult for Xiao Deng to gain a foothold at home, so he could only run back to his parents' house to escape. During the mediation, she said that she was hopeless and had lost all hope in life. If it weren't for her daughter, she would have no motivation to persevere.

In order to assert her rights, Xiao Deng took out the second suicide note , which was written by Xiao Shuai to her. The general content of it was Xiao Shuai's attachment to his family. He hoped that the family would treat their children well, and also proposed that if Xiao Deng remarries , he only has one wish, that is, not to change his child's surname, because he wants to leave a root for himself.

It can be seen that Xiaoshuai is full of affection for his wife and daughter. He also thought about the possible development of things and expressed his apology to his parents for not being able to support him in old age. This suicide note made his parents-in-law cry bitterly. The mother-in-law cried and said that her daughter-in-law was too cruel. , she once begged her daughter-in-law to take out the suicide note so that she could know her son's thoughts, but her daughter-in-law refused. She thought her daughter-in-law was too snobbish.

Regarding this, Xiao Deng was also full of helplessness, explaining that he was just trying to protect himself, because a woman who lost her husband had to face the difficulties of her family, and it was difficult for her to live.

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So, how should distribute the two houses? Can it really be done according to Xiaoshuai's suicide note?

The answer is no.

According to the relevant provisions of the " Civil Code ", Xiaoshuai wants to give the small house to his daughter, but he does not have the right to own the small house. Whether he wants to give it to his daughter depends on the owner's wishes. In other words, whether the small house should be given to his daughter Father-in-law Deng has the final say as to who.

Although the big house is in Xiaoshuai's name, because it is pre-marital property and Lao Deng is the investor, the father-in-law Lao Deng has the right to get back the capital contribution, and then the remaining value of the house can be distributed in the order of inheritance, with parents, wife and daughter as The first heir can have equal inheritance shares.

At this point, you may understand that the allocation of 2 houses is not difficult, but it is a rare emotional entanglement.

Xiao Deng insists that since the house is in her husband's name, it should be given to her daughter. The reason is untenable. It is understandable that she considers her daughter, but she must also learn to consider her parents-in-law.

When the family was complete, her father-in-law and mother-in-law treated her sincerely. There was never any conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. This feeling should not be ignored directly.

The parents-in-law gave away the white-haired person to the black-haired person, and the pain in their hearts was hard to let go. Xiao Deng proposed to divide the house just after her husband was buried, which was indeed too much.

She thought that with a house, she and her daughter's future would be guaranteed. In fact, what her daughter needs more than real estate is her mother's strength, which can lead her future life.

The value of a house is limited, but the value of life is infinite. If a person puts all his energy into fighting for a house, he will lose his original transparent life.

Smart people know how to let go, keep what belongs to them, and return what does not belong to them. Your independence and transparency will also give comfort to the elderly. A friendly relationship between the family is the best guarantee for your daughter.

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