is ridiculous, but it's a true story.
A couple was in free love in the 1980s. The husband loved his wife very much and was obedient to her every day. After giving birth to two daughters, sterilization surgery was required according to national policy. He was unwilling to let his wife undergo this surgery, so he took the initiative to have sterilization surgery.
Everything is perfect up to this point. People who listen to the story also feel that the man is loving and comfortable, but what happens next is magical. Although he also likes his daughter very much, men in the 1980s still have a deep obsession with their sons. As time goes by, the regrets in their hearts become bigger and bigger. Later, he discussed with his wife that she could conceive and have a son with someone else. At first, his wife disagreed and could not accept this kind of thing. But the man is like a man possessed, repeatedly emphasizing his regrets that others would treat a son well after they adopted him. If he loves his wife so much, wouldn’t the child his wife gave birth to be much better than the one he adopted? Moreover, he would never mind if he still had two daughters.
Under the constant pressure from her husband, the wife also felt that she was sorry for not giving birth to a son for her husband. After all, the concept of carrying on the family line is not as profound as usual. So they did some operations, and the wife really got pregnant with someone else and gave birth to a son as she wished. The husband is benevolent and is benevolent. Everyone can guess the result, right?
After the child is born, or even before the child is born, a man feels great shame and feels that everyone around him is criticizing and laughing at him. Not long after the child was born, the man's irritability and depression worsened, and he finally filed for divorce from his wife, which was indeed the case.
Is this an affectionate man? The whole process was based on his own efforts to seek mercy, right? Is the tragedy ultimately the man's fault? A couple, three children, a lifetime of suffering and humiliation, who should be blamed for this?
Human nature is very complicated. We will never know our true reaction unless we are in our proper place. Therefore, don’t test human nature! Don't overestimate yourself, don't underestimate human nature!
