But not everyone is so lucky to meet the person they want to spend their whole life with. It is hard to imagine that arranged marriages exist in such an enlightened social environment. This thing that sounds unbelievable actually happened around us. In 2006, Sun Wei and Li Jing w

girls' view on marriage and love is actually very simple. It is nothing more than finding a positive person who has the same three views to start a family of their own. But not everyone is so lucky to meet the person they want to spend their whole life with. It is hard to imagine that arranged marriages exist in such an enlightened social environment. As a result, the resentful husband took a wrong step and embarked on the road of crime, and was eventually imprisoned.

This thing that sounds incredible actually happens around us. In 2006, Sun Wei and Li Jing were introduced by someone and obtained a marriage certificate. Looking at his gentle wife in front of him, Sun Wei was immersed in the joy of his wedding. At this time, he did not realize that this marriage would eventually push him into the abyss of crime.

In Sun Wei's opinion, since Li Jing is willing to marry him, she must have a good impression of him. Although the two of them didn't get along for long, feelings can be cultivated slowly after marriage, so he didn't notice anything unusual about his wife at all. In fact, Li Jing didn't like Sun Wei at all. Not only did she dislike him, she even hated him. In Li Jing's eyes, Sun Wei was the culprit who ruined her happiness.

It turns out that the initiator of all this was Li Jing's father, who fell in love with Sun Wei, who came from a well-off family. Although his daughter was unwilling in every possible way, he still forced his daughter to marry a stranger. Li Jing did not dare to resist her father and could only vent her anger on Sun Wei. Sun Wei was also quite aggrieved. The sweet wife he finally brought home was not even willing to touch her.

The editor here would like to remind everyone that the society we live in today is a country with a sound legal system. No person or organization can force a woman to accept a marriage against her will. If Li Jing didn't want to marry Sun Wei, she could have sought legal aid. Even if the two of them had obtained the certificate, she could have sued the court to cancel the relationship, but she chose to swallow her anger.

But her compromise harmed Sun Wei's life. Sun Wei, who was kept in the dark, was still dreaming about a better life after marriage. On the wedding night, his wife didn't want to talk to him, but he could still comfort himself that his wife was shy. But the longer they stayed together, the more distressed Sun Wei became. Not only did his wife not change at all, but her attitude towards him became worse and worse, and she even ran away from home at one point.

Sun Wei also wanted to save face. His wife left without saying a word, and he couldn't help but beg her to go home. The two sides remained in a stalemate for a year. I thought it was time for my wife to stop after such a long time, but who would have thought that Li Jing turned around and filed a divorce lawsuit with the court. Sun Wei believes that he has not committed any deviant behavior since his marriage. He has not betrayed the other party and has not used domestic violence.

After the trial, the court rejected Li Jing's request. No amount of friendship can withstand repeated discussions. Sun Wei's inner anger reached its peak after his wife alienated her in every possible way and filed for divorce. On June 14, 2010, Sun Wei, who was depressed, drank to relieve his sorrow at home. After getting drunk, he called Li Jing to try to revive his husband. The grievances that

had been holding back for many years broke out at this moment. Sun Wei took advantage of the drunkenness to force Li Jing to have sex. Li Jing was not a vegetarian and went directly to the police station to report the crime. When the police found Sun Wei, he had not yet realized that he had made a big mistake. In his understanding, the two of them were husband and wife, and there was no such thing as coercion.

However, contrary to expectations, even if two people are married, one party cannot force the other party to have in-depth communication if the other party refuses.

After this experience, the court not only agreed to Li Jing's divorce lawsuit, but Sun Wei was also sentenced to 3 years in prison for the crime of coercion. As long as both parties can take a step back, talk things out, and be more tolerant of each other, things may go differently.

Editor’s point of view:

It’s inevitable that the husband and wife are going to court, which inevitably makes people sigh. In the end, Sun Wei couldn’t figure out why his wife was cruel enough to take him to court. Looking at the whole thing, it is certainly wrong for Sun Wei to use forceful means to dominate his wife during marriage, but the seeds of his mistake were planted by Li Jing herself. If she had stood up bravely and refused her father's arranged marriage, she might have been able to find another good relationship and she would not have owed anything to Sun Wei.

(The names in this article are all pseudonyms, and some of the pictures are online pictures to match the narrative)