Before having children, my husband and I had always had a good relationship. At that time, we also agreed that when we have children in the future, we will take them to many, many places. In the third year after marriage, we had a lovely son. I thought the scene that my husband a

Before having children, my husband and I had always had a good relationship. At that time, we also agreed that when we have children in the future, we will take them to many, many places. In the third year after marriage, we had a lovely son. I thought the scene that my husband and I had fantasized about finally appeared. Unexpectedly, my husband changed.

I believe that the child belongs to both of us. I have the responsibility to take care of the child, and my husband also has the obligation to accompany the child to grow up. To my dismay, I was always the one taking care of the kids. Apart from going to work, I focus almost all of my attention on my children. I hope my husband can understand me. The child needs my care, and I need his.

Once, when my husband and I were communicating, he suddenly said to me, "Honey, I feel that after the child is born, he has become a third party between us.

Think about it, how long has it been since you cared about it? Me? When I had a cold a few days ago, you didn’t even say a considerate word. The only thing I needed to be careful about was not to infect my children. "

I was already very wronged. , when my husband said this, I felt even more aggrieved. My husband, who works so hard to take care of the kids, doesn’t appreciate it, but instead finds fault with me for not caring enough about him.

Why did he never ask me, what do I need? After several arguments with my husband, I felt that our relationship was getting further and further apart. The child is still so young, do we really want a divorce? We have a foundation of emotions. How did we get to where we are now?

Are children really the third party between husband and wife? If certain things between husband and wife are not handled properly, it will really affect the relationship between husband and wife. Of course, the culprit is definitely not the child.

After becoming mothers, many women easily make the mistake of focusing all their attention on their children, thereby ignoring their husband's feelings. It is very true that a man accuses a woman of not caring enough about him, and it is also a mistake that many new mothers make.

So, is there nothing wrong with men? No, men have their own problems too. They only consider their own feelings, but do not consider how hard it is for their wives to raise children.

Once such a problem arises between husband and wife, the two people need to have a frank talk and tell each other's innermost thoughts. Where women think men are not doing well and how they need to improve, men should also express their true thoughts. Only in this way can the problem be truly solved.

At the same time, the two of them should also create some opportunities for two people to enhance the relationship between husband and wife.

There is one more important thing for all women. Some women work extremely hard while raising children, but they never tell their husbands. So much so that my husband feels that taking care of children is not a hard task, but instead feels that it is a pleasure for his wife not to have to go to work.

A woman can let a man try taking care of a child, let him experience it for himself and see if it is hard to take care of a child. Only after a man has real feelings can he truly understand how difficult it is for a woman.

Women can also be more coquettish with men and say more nice things to their husbands, so that men are willing to do something for themselves and the family. Don't hold on, don't pretend to be strong, because women who act coquettishly are the best.