Although girls can be filial to their parents. You can also provide for your parents in old age, but you can’t go too far. If your parents have no choice, then you must provide for them in old age. The problem is that they have choices, why should you do this? You won't help your

Although it is said that girls can be filial to their parents. You can also provide for your parents in old age, but you can’t go too far. If your parents have no choice, then you must provide for them in old age. The problem is that they have choices, why should you do this? You won't help your parents by doing this, and it will harm yourself.

Just like the woman in the article, let alone your husband, even if it is me, I will divorce you. What is going on? Why is this happening? Let's take a look at this matter together, I hope all women will pay attention. When I came back from a business trip, my father-in-law and mother-in-law came to live at home. My wife said: They are my parents. I said: Get out.

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31-year-old Mr. Zhou:

Many people say that I am wrong and should not choose divorce impulsively. But I feel like I'm not wrong. I have to choose divorce. If I compromise on this matter, I will not be able to live my life in the future. So now I am telling this matter, and everyone can help me comment on it.

My father came to see me yesterday. I thought something was going on. My father told me that we all know about the trouble between you and your wife. You should go back and pick up your wife quickly. Otherwise, you will not be able to live your life in the future, not only for yourself, but also for this family.

Women are very important to the family. I told my father that sometimes things are not the way I want them to be, and I have no choice. If I had a choice, how could I be like this? My father told me that you have no choice. You can borrow your wife to come back and live a good life. You can't talk about anything between husband and wife.

Why do you have to get divorced? Divorce affects both of you greatly. Not to mention you, even our family has a great influence, let alone the children. You have three children to take care of. If you and your wife divorce, what will happen to the children? Who will take care of the children in the future? You divorced your wife, will your wife still take care of your son?

I told my father that I have considered all the issues you mentioned, but what can I do? I don't want to talk about this anymore. Later my father went back angrily. Why would my father tell me this? Isn’t it because I drove my wife there in the morning?

I came back from a business trip in the morning. When I just got home. I saw my father-in-law and mother-in-law. What is going on? Why did my father-in-law and mother-in-law suddenly come to visit me? I thought something was wrong, but my wife told me that my parents would live here from now on.

Do you have any objection to the fact that I want to provide for my parents in their old age? I am your wife, they are your father-in-law and mother-in-law, and we are all one family. Now that my parents are older, I have to provide for them. I refused without thinking. I told my wife, I don’t want to quarrel with you in front of your parents. Come here quickly, I have something to tell you. Then my wife walked to a corner with me, and I said to my wife, why did you take your parents over to take care of them in their old age?

Is this a problem? But my wife told me that there is something wrong with this man. Didn’t I make it clear to you just now? They are my parents who are older, and I am their daughter. If I don’t provide for them in their old age, who will provide for them in their old age? Don't forget that you are their son-in-law...

Without my parents, there would be no me. Without me, there would be no this family. Now that my parents are old and I don't provide for them, I will feel uncomfortable in my heart. My parents gave everything for me, and now I have to support them in their old age. Is it okay for me to be filial to my parents and provide for my parents in their old age? I am my parents' daughter.

I told my wife, you have to be filial to your parents, that’s okay. The problem is that you can’t go too far. Retirement care is not as simple as adding an extra pair of chopsticks. If your parents have no choice, I can provide for them in their old age and I will be responsible for them. The problem is that your parents have a choice.

Then my wife told me, how come my parents have a choice? I am their daughter. Don’t I know if they have a choice? My parents just had no choice, so they came here. What happened? Do you have any further comments? I told my wife, don’t think that I don’t know what’s going on in your home.

First of all, you have two younger brothers. Logically speaking, if your married daughter does not have the responsibility to support you in old age, it will be a waste of time. When I married you, I gave you a bride price of 150,000 yuan. And you told your parents at that time that you didn’t need me to support them in their old age. Then I agreed to give 150,000.

Don’t you remember this? Even if you don’t talk about the bride price, let’s talk about your brother. If your parents have a son, why do they need a son-in-law to provide for them in old age? If you are an only child and your parents have no sons. Then I can't help it, I have to be responsible for them.

The problem is that they have a son, a son who obviously has a choice, and two sons. Why should they hold me responsible? Don’t forget that your two brothers’ living conditions are better than mine. Your two brothers work in big cities, but I only work here in a small town. I only earn more than 8,000 yuan a month, while your two brothers earn tens of thousands a month. Dollars?

Their conditions are so good, why do you want me to provide for your parents in their old age? No matter what, I shouldn't be held responsible for your parents. Also, my parents are older. They are now over 60 years old. Neither my parents come here to take care of themselves. Then why should your parents come here to retire?

Logically speaking, even if I am providing care for the elderly, it should be provided by my parents... Before I could finish speaking, my wife interrupted me. My wife told me that my two younger brothers are the business of the two younger brothers. , I don’t want to care about this matter. My parents also had their own reasons for wanting to come here. My parents came here to give me face, but also to give me a chance to be filial. Regardless of whether you agree or not, my parents should be provided for in their old age.

And my parents are here, what can you do? Do you still want to drive my parents back? If you dare to drive my parents away, don't blame me for being heartless. I told my wife, please don’t be so heartless, okay? I am your husband and the head of this family.

You have your own family. Although you can be responsible for your parents, you can't go too far and do what you can. Our family was barely able to get by. If you are responsible for your parents, how will you live in the future? Why would your parents come here to go to your two younger brothers if they have a choice? Why don't your two younger brothers take responsibility for your parents?

Why do your parents come to us? My wife said, as I said, my parents had their own reasons for coming to our place, not to mention that I can’t do much about my two younger brothers. If my younger brother doesn’t take responsibility for my parents, that’s my younger brother’s business. I'm not my brother, can't I even take responsibility for my parents?

Also, do you agree or disagree with this matter? My parents are here, what do you think? Do you want to make trouble with me? If you don't give me this face, then don't blame me for being cruel. It's not that I don't want to live with you, it's that you don't want to live with me at all.

I heard my wife say this. I couldn't bear it anymore, so I told my wife, I was already very polite before, what else do you want me to say now? My house was demolished, don’t think I don’t know that I lost money during the demolition, at least 3 million. 3 million and two houses. Are these things given to you? I won’t give you any of them. I will leave them all to your two younger brothers.

Not to mention the demolition money, let alone the house, even your parents' savings and the house at home were left to your two younger brothers, right? Don’t think that I don’t know these things. I know that I didn’t ask your parents for it. That’s because I don’t want you to ask for the money.

I don't care so much, that's because I love you and don't want you to go back and make trouble with your parents because of this matter. But how could you go so far? If you insist on letting your parents come here to retire.Then let your parents give me everything. Otherwise, I would not agree. It is impossible to leave all the benefits to your two brothers, and then let me, the son-in-law, be responsible for it as an outsider.

If I, an outsider, were to be responsible, I would only be able to pay for two houses, the house in my hometown, and the demolition money, all of which would be given to me. Otherwise, I won't be responsible for your parents. It's up to you, and I don't want to force you.

I can’t help it. I can do this too. It’s impossible for me, an outsider, to be responsible. If the father-in-law and mother-in-law have no choice, they will have no son if they have no money. Then I can be responsible for them. The problem is that they have a son and left all the money to his son. Then why should I be responsible again?

Your wife told me, didn’t I just tell you? What matters about my parents is my parents’ matter, what does it have to do with me? Who he gives the money to is my parents' business, and I can't control that much. I am their daughter, and all I can do is be filial to them and provide for them in their old age. If he can give the money to his brother, then you ask my brother for it. What does

have to do with my parents? And do my parents have a problem giving money to themselves? I think it’s okay. My brother is the son of my parents. If I don’t give the money to my brother, should I give it to you, an outsider? When I heard my wife call me an outsider, I slapped her in the face. I told my wife, I didn't want to hit you originally, but I couldn't bear it anymore, so I hit you. Don't blame me, blame yourself if you want to.

Since you said I am an outsider, why should I be responsible? I don’t want to talk to you about this either. Give them 5,000 yuan to go back after the meal. I don't want to deal with this matter.

My wife told me that she even beat me and refused to take responsibility for my parents. As long as this is the case, don't blame me for divorcing you. It's because you don't want to live with me, not that I don't want to live with you. Which girl does not take responsibility for her parents, and which child does not provide for her parents in their old age?

All children should be provided for by their parents. I am my parents’ child. They worked hard to raise me. Now that I am old, I must provide for them. If you don’t agree, then get divorced. It’s not that I don’t want to. I've dealt with you, but it's you who insists on divorcing me. My wife has said this, what else can I say?

After a while, I told my wife, I will give you another chance. Do you choose me or your parents? If you want your parents to stay here, then we will divorce. My wife said to me, haha, man. Didn't you say you love me very much? Why don't you take responsibility for my parents now? In this case, let's get divorced.

That's how it goes. Faced with this matter, shouldn’t we choose divorce? Do I have a choice? It seems like I have a choice. In fact, my wife didn't give me a choice at all. What would you do if it were you? Am I wrong to choose divorce? I feel that I am not wrong. Faced with such a thing, I must choose divorce and protect everything about myself.

Conclusion:

is really helpless in the face of this matter. If it were me, I would also choose divorce. First, your wife doesn't love you. If your wife loved you, she wouldn't embarrass you like this. There is no place for you in your wife's heart. Otherwise, she wouldn't do it for her parents or her brother. Then use this to threaten you first.

Since your wife has said so, then let your wife do it. Second, even if you provide your father-in-law and mother-in-law with a place to retire here. Things will be endless in the future. I can threaten you with divorce today, and I can do the same thing tomorrow. If that happens, you will have to live your life.

You will be threatened by your wife from time to time. If this is the case, you will not be able to live your life at all. If that's the case, then get a divorce. If you don't get a divorce, you will be in pain for the rest of your life, so there is nothing wrong with you choosing to divorce. If it were me, I would also choose to divorce.

I hope that this case can make all women pay attention. You can be filial to your parents and be kind to your parents, but you must be measured. Don't forget that your husband lives with you and you have your own family. Do you understand? Don't let such a tragedy happen again, okay?