When two people are together, the most basic thing is loyalty and trust. If two people quarrel every day, no one will be fed up with this kind of life.
If there is a problem between husband and wife, they should put it on the table and have a good talk, rather than a cold war, which will only make the distance between the two people farther and farther.
In fact, every couple has conflicts. Some people can resolve them reasonably, but some people will only take extreme methods and cannot communicate with their partner.
No matter you are in love or married, you should not break up easily. When you encounter problems, you must solve them. Unless you really think about it clearly, it will only affect your relationship.
Sister Chen is 38 years old this year and is a housewife. She has been married to her husband Xiao He for seven years. They have a child. After getting married, the relationship between the couple has been good, and the family finances are also good. She is a good person. family.
Some time ago, my husband started complaining when he came home from work. My wife comforted her a few times but failed to comfort her in the right place. As a result, my husband started to lose his temper, wanted a divorce, and kicked her out of the house. After this happened , she went to her husband many times to ask for an explanation, but he was unwilling to see her and she was very angry.
It is common for couples to quarrel. If two people have a problem, they must negotiate to solve it. If you get angry outside and go home to quarrel with your wife, this is not considered a man. If you disagree, you will divorce and kick your wife out. The family is even more unreasonable, so what does the husband Xiao He think?
Husband Xiao He said aggrievedly that in fact, there were no other conflicts between him and his wife. It was just that the problems in life were a bit too big. On average, his wife had to deal with it several times a day and did not let anyone sleep. She worked hard during the day and suffered. He can't be tortured like this.
I feel unmotivated at work. I suffer from dark circles under my eyes every day and my hands and feet feel weak. I am laughed at by others and my boss even wants to fire me. But my wife is still like that. Now I don’t have much, I just hope that my wife can let me go. , now only 90 pounds are left.
Sister Chen expressed embarrassment about her husband’s method. He said that he really wanted to do what his husband said, but he was helpless. It was not that he had great needs, but that he was worried that her husband would mess around outside. If her husband didn’t like it, he could improve it and reduce the number of number of times, but don’t go for divorce, it’s a bit unreasonable. For the sake of the children, it’s not easy to live a good life after getting married, so just live a good life.
Later, the two broke up on bad terms. Her husband Xiao He hurriedly waved his hand and refused, and Sister Chen said that she would need to go through legal procedures.
In fact, the reason why the wife does this is because she cares too much about her husband, and she also has a feeling of distrust. If there is no trust between two people, it will only make them more and more tired.
It is indeed a bit overwhelming for a man to be so tired during the day and have to serve his wife when he comes home at night. If the two of them can negotiate well, it may not be so bad.
I hope that whether it is a couple or a husband and wife, they should negotiate carefully when encountering any problems, instead of not communicating, which will only make the relationship worse.
