A 37-year-old leftover woman in Nanjing became a mother through artificial insemination because she could not find a suitable partner. This makes many leftover women feel sad, and they may feel the same way and resonate in their hearts. The remaining man didn't know what to do. W

A 37-year-old leftover woman in Nanjing artificial insemination became a mother because she could not find a suitable partner.

This makes many leftover women feel sad. They may feel the same way and resonate in their hearts. The remaining man didn't know what to do. Why is this happening? On the one hand, the left-over woman is always crying and scolding where all the good men have gone. On the other hand, countless leftover men are also crying in the night because they are unable to start a family and start a business due to various economic or other reasons. This is not because there is no market, but because there is a disconnect between supply and demand.

It is said that the girl calls successful insemination the most precious gift in life. She chose this path because she was fully mentally prepared. “I have never been able to find a suitable partner, and I don’t want to force myself to find someone to marry. As I grow older, I began to worry about being homeless, so I wanted to have a child.” Her words can be said to summarize the inner thoughts of many older girls. For them, it is not that they cannot live without a man, but that they are worried about being homeless. So, if they have a child, Maybe you can have something to rely on in your own life. In fact, for women, children are indeed the best hope. After becoming mothers, many women put all their efforts and energy into their children. Having a child means that their life has been extended and they have support. This is a psychology unique to Chinese women. What makes them think so is the unreliability of men. Just like the woman in this news, she was hurt in relationships. One of them broke up because of a long-distance relationship, and the other was about to get married, but she was betrayed by her boyfriend. After spending a lot of money and feelings, she was deeply disappointed. After being sad, she carefully considered and chose not to have a man.

A beautiful woman I know has the same idea as her. She has already looked down on men because of her ups and downs in love. She is financially independent and has a prosperous life. She has long given up hope on unreliable men, but she hopes to have a child. To have a child, she must find a suitable man. Artificial insemination is such a pioneering thing, but she doesn't have the guts or courage yet. If someone can give her a child, she really doesn't need a man.

However, someone has now set an example. My friend was also very touched after seeing this news. She said that if she still can't find the right person after waiting for another two years, she would not rule out choosing this method. So, this woman really got off to a good start, and she gave countless women a prescription. If one day you really can't find a suitable man to marry, and you are unwilling to accommodate, then you may choose artificial insemination. In this way, you can have a child without having to face a man, and you can have what you want. Now, what you don’t want won’t appear, it’s really the best of both worlds. As for public opinion, it's not a problem at all. I did a survey on Weibo and WeChat, and 95% of the people on it said that they very much approved of this woman's choice. They thought she was cool, brave, and unique, and they all had a positive attitude. The girl's parents also opposed it from the beginning to support it in the end. This is a good start.

In fact, most single mothers in their 30s and 40s now take care of their children alone. They have long been pessimistic and feel that it is completely possible to live, work, take care of children, and have a colorful life without a man. In fact, a woman can indeed leave a man, but a man cannot leave a woman, especially after getting older. If the economy is independent, a woman's dependence on a man is almost zero. And with the divorce rate so high, single-parent families caused by unhappy marriages have even more negative impacts. Since men are unreliable and they will have to raise children alone sooner or later, it is better not to have a man in the first place to avoid the pain caused by quarrels, disputes and divorce to the children. In this way, artificial insemination of the remaining woman is really better than divorce.

As for how the girl is worried about telling her children where her father is in the future, it seems to be a problem now, but maybe it will no longer be a problem in twenty years, because society was more developed at that time, people's concepts were more advanced, and their minds were more open-minded. Things will be more tolerant and accepting, and if artificial insemination of left-over women increases and there are more children, then they can have more companions, just like the single mother group, there are more people in the same situation, and they will have their own circle and The community provides more recognition and less loneliness. At that time, where dad was was really just a small question.

And if your child is really struggling and insists on asking where your dad has gone, you might as well tell him, "Dad has gone to an alien planet, because dad is originally an alien, and you are 'you from the stars'." "